Mx Mayhem Mai (they/them)
@mayhemmai.bsky.social
🔞 🌉 🏳️🌈 ⚧️ 🏳️⚧️ San Francisco non-binary lifestyle and professional dominant. Kink educator and performer. Ambidextrous impact top. https://AllMyLinks.com/MxMayhemMai
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I had a hard time finding fellow trans nonbinary BDSM providers, so here's my starter pack! Comment to be added, DM to be removed 😘 go.bsky.app/RA2Zbxn
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officially back on the road! i’m offering massages (nuru + FBSM), Pro-Domme Kink, and FS :)
this November, i’ll be in CT/NYC, KOP/Philadelphia, Richmond VA, Charlotte NC, Charleston SC, Savannah GA & Seattle WA!
see my website for more info🥰
look forward to seeing you soon! 🤍
this November, i’ll be in CT/NYC, KOP/Philadelphia, Richmond VA, Charlotte NC, Charleston SC, Savannah GA & Seattle WA!
see my website for more info🥰
look forward to seeing you soon! 🤍
November 7, 2025 at 1:28 AM
officially back on the road! i’m offering massages (nuru + FBSM), Pro-Domme Kink, and FS :)
this November, i’ll be in CT/NYC, KOP/Philadelphia, Richmond VA, Charlotte NC, Charleston SC, Savannah GA & Seattle WA!
see my website for more info🥰
look forward to seeing you soon! 🤍
this November, i’ll be in CT/NYC, KOP/Philadelphia, Richmond VA, Charlotte NC, Charleston SC, Savannah GA & Seattle WA!
see my website for more info🥰
look forward to seeing you soon! 🤍
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[TOMORROW!] 2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
November 5, 2025 at 5:05 PM
[TOMORROW!] 2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
I'm in Vegas Saturday to Tuesday, seeking recommendations for kink and/or gay events to go to 🙏💖
November 4, 2025 at 7:14 PM
I'm in Vegas Saturday to Tuesday, seeking recommendations for kink and/or gay events to go to 🙏💖
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[THIS THURSDAY!] 2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more. ✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
November 1, 2025 at 3:45 PM
[THIS THURSDAY!] 2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more. ✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
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Many uninformed clients use texting apps or "secret" emails, thinking this makes their messages more "discreet." But the reality is they should be using WhatsApp's "Chat Lock" feature or @signal.org with us.
Your favorite hooker's favorite hacker breaks it down: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...
Your favorite hooker's favorite hacker breaks it down: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...
November 2, 2025 at 2:37 AM
Many uninformed clients use texting apps or "secret" emails, thinking this makes their messages more "discreet." But the reality is they should be using WhatsApp's "Chat Lock" feature or @signal.org with us.
Your favorite hooker's favorite hacker breaks it down: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...
Your favorite hooker's favorite hacker breaks it down: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...
I'm teaching my dual wielding class 7pm Thu Nov 6 at @filthystudios.bsky.social Get your 🎟️ at bit.ly/filthyflow!
Taken by @juneaspen.bsky.social during @folsomstreet.bsky.social
Taken by @juneaspen.bsky.social during @folsomstreet.bsky.social
October 29, 2025 at 6:53 PM
I'm teaching my dual wielding class 7pm Thu Nov 6 at @filthystudios.bsky.social Get your 🎟️ at bit.ly/filthyflow!
Taken by @juneaspen.bsky.social during @folsomstreet.bsky.social
Taken by @juneaspen.bsky.social during @folsomstreet.bsky.social
Slowly waking up from the fugue state of COVID causing me to cancel Dark Odyssey Surrender plans and other work. Thank you @mistressodette.bsky.social and other lovelies for taking such good care of me 🥹
October 27, 2025 at 8:48 PM
Slowly waking up from the fugue state of COVID causing me to cancel Dark Odyssey Surrender plans and other work. Thank you @mistressodette.bsky.social and other lovelies for taking such good care of me 🥹
Accidentally exploding a bottle of carrot juice all over my kitchen looks like I murdered Gritty using a spork.
October 27, 2025 at 8:42 PM
Accidentally exploding a bottle of carrot juice all over my kitchen looks like I murdered Gritty using a spork.
Real talk that is SKILLS 🔥🔥🔥
I've had an ever-growing pile of donations for > a YEAR in a corner of my living room.
Apparently in order to get this stuff out of my house I had to just HOST A GEAR SWAP? Why am I like this??
I've had an ever-growing pile of donations for > a YEAR in a corner of my living room.
Apparently in order to get this stuff out of my house I had to just HOST A GEAR SWAP? Why am I like this??
PLEASE CLAP FOR ME
I put all the donation clothes and items in my car on Saturday and I've already donated them.
You heard right, they didn't stay in the back of the car for 6 months until I had to take them out to use the space.
I am officially a goddess, this proves it. What magic!?!?!
I put all the donation clothes and items in my car on Saturday and I've already donated them.
You heard right, they didn't stay in the back of the car for 6 months until I had to take them out to use the space.
I am officially a goddess, this proves it. What magic!?!?!
October 21, 2025 at 2:02 AM
Real talk that is SKILLS 🔥🔥🔥
I've had an ever-growing pile of donations for > a YEAR in a corner of my living room.
Apparently in order to get this stuff out of my house I had to just HOST A GEAR SWAP? Why am I like this??
I've had an ever-growing pile of donations for > a YEAR in a corner of my living room.
Apparently in order to get this stuff out of my house I had to just HOST A GEAR SWAP? Why am I like this??
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2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
October 20, 2025 at 5:14 PM
2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
Service is learning what I want and quietly sending the gift. These are so perfect!
October 21, 2025 at 1:55 AM
Service is learning what I want and quietly sending the gift. These are so perfect!
Hosted an event yesterday with @dominadaemon.bsky.social and my most favorite attendee was @venerakate.bsky.social 's 4 month old lil puppy 😭😭😭
October 20, 2025 at 5:21 PM
Hosted an event yesterday with @dominadaemon.bsky.social and my most favorite attendee was @venerakate.bsky.social 's 4 month old lil puppy 😭😭😭
I love getting custom gifts 😘
October 19, 2025 at 6:57 PM
I love getting custom gifts 😘
Saw you at the store today
October 10, 2025 at 5:50 PM
Saw you at the store today
Life has been a blur lately but I wouldn't have it any other way
October 10, 2025 at 12:52 AM
Life has been a blur lately but I wouldn't have it any other way
A baddie in leather = the most perfect pairing 🤩
Announcing a new name, website and another chapter of delicious perversion 🫀
Call me Ezra Silver 🔪 Sir Silver ⛓️🙇 or just Ezra🩸
Still the vampiric big brained hottie of your dreams, now with more edge ⚔️
Fall under my spell 💋
www.museforhire.nyc
Call me Ezra Silver 🔪 Sir Silver ⛓️🙇 or just Ezra🩸
Still the vampiric big brained hottie of your dreams, now with more edge ⚔️
Fall under my spell 💋
www.museforhire.nyc
October 10, 2025 at 12:21 AM
A baddie in leather = the most perfect pairing 🤩
@gavinnewsom.bsky.social These 8 essential bills uphold the dignity, privacy, health, and safety of LGBTQ+ Californians. These bills are critical to ensuring that California remains a national leader in protecting trans lives. Sign AB 82, AB 1084, SB 59, SB 497, SB 418, AB 554, AB 727, and SB 41.
October 9, 2025 at 9:08 PM
@gavinnewsom.bsky.social These 8 essential bills uphold the dignity, privacy, health, and safety of LGBTQ+ Californians. These bills are critical to ensuring that California remains a national leader in protecting trans lives. Sign AB 82, AB 1084, SB 59, SB 497, SB 418, AB 554, AB 727, and SB 41.
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2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/@mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/@mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
October 2, 2025 at 2:15 PM
2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/@mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/@mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
Folsom weekend let's fucking go
September 26, 2025 at 2:03 AM
Folsom weekend let's fucking go
I'm teaching my Ergonomics of Impact Topping class tonight at @thekinkstore.bsky.social in SF, come hang! allmylinks.com/mxmayhemmai
September 10, 2025 at 5:22 PM
I'm teaching my Ergonomics of Impact Topping class tonight at @thekinkstore.bsky.social in SF, come hang! allmylinks.com/mxmayhemmai
From: past me
To: current me
To: current me
September 3, 2025 at 1:12 AM
From: past me
To: current me
To: current me
Weekends are fully booked until November. If you want to catch me you'll need to either see me at my events or book me for a weeknight.
August 27, 2025 at 5:55 AM
Weekends are fully booked until November. If you want to catch me you'll need to either see me at my events or book me for a weeknight.
What a fantastic multi course dinner tonight
August 24, 2025 at 4:06 AM
What a fantastic multi course dinner tonight
They texted me this morning: their rapid test is negative, they'll arrive early (from 2 hrs away) to wait in their car for me, & will have a cooler of my preferred drink selection when I'm ready. All of this for the opportunity to drive me 15 min to my performance tonight.
This is how you serve.
This is how you serve.
August 13, 2025 at 6:03 PM
They texted me this morning: their rapid test is negative, they'll arrive early (from 2 hrs away) to wait in their car for me, & will have a cooler of my preferred drink selection when I'm ready. All of this for the opportunity to drive me 15 min to my performance tonight.
This is how you serve.
This is how you serve.
Finally, a night in
August 10, 2025 at 6:16 AM
Finally, a night in