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"Vi" Rollergirl | NYC/BOS/FMTY 🍑🏳️‍⚧️
@violetrollergirl.com
Save a pregnancy test, breed a trans girl.

👩🏻‍💻 Your favorite hooker's favorite hacker.
🏳️‍⚧️🛼 Rollerblading trans femmebot with the QR code tattoo
⛓🪢🐇 Equal parts whip smart & whipping girl

🌐 VioletRollergirl.com
💌 violetrollergirl@protonmail.com
TER ID 401195
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I'm going to let my freak flag fly a lot more in 2026.

And I want to begin with one of my favorite games to play online: an Easter egg hunt in cybersecurity CTF-style, with flags sprinkled around/over my website and the prize is discounts off your next booking!

violetrollergirl.com/colophon/#ea...
Reposted by "Vi" Rollergirl | NYC/BOS/FMTY 🍑🏳️‍⚧️
Truly some of the best dating/life/communication advice I've ever read, from one of the most talented & insightful communicators i know @violetrollergirl.com 💘😘
If you're already a respectful guy who isn't treating women like sex vending machines my biggest piece of advice for you is to focus on the future.

Don't text her, "How was your weekend?"

Text her, "I was thinking about you this weekend. Would you be up for grabbing dinner with me tomorrow night?"
January 2, 2026 at 9:52 PM
Reposted by "Vi" Rollergirl | NYC/BOS/FMTY 🍑🏳️‍⚧️
"Don't interrupt her life, CONTRIBUTE to it." - @violetrollergirl.com = the KEY 💝🙇‍♀️
January 2, 2026 at 9:54 PM
I ate loco moco for the first time during my 2024 trip to Hawaii.

It's a contemporary savory breakfast that can be found at food trucks all the way up to some fancier dining establishments.

This morning, I made an East coast diner variation: loco moco with herbs de provence seasoned hash browns! 😋
January 2, 2026 at 9:44 PM
I updated my guide for providers who use @signal.org for work to include advice about usernames, Safety Numbers, and more.

And lest you think I'm always 31337, I've forgotten to verify Safety Numbers with some clients because the momentary adrenaline bumped it out of mind! With one client, twice! 🤭
Do you think we can make 2026 the year providers and clients band together to finally kill off text apps in this industry?

Please god, let it be so!

Today I published a guide for providers who want to make better use of @signal.org for work: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...

I'm doing my part!
Signal for Sex Work(ers) • Violet Rollergirl • Bubbly trans GFE companion
Signal Private Messenger is an easy to use, free messaging app that keeps your client correspondence super secret, but wait, there's more!
violetrollergirl.com
January 2, 2026 at 6:23 PM
A lot of my dating advice is really just communication advice.

Given it's a new year and, if my inboxes are any indication, many people seem to have made resolutions involving reconnecting with folks they lost touch with—in my case, because I ignored them—here's a very short thread worth rereading!
If you're already a respectful guy who isn't treating women like sex vending machines my biggest piece of advice for you is to focus on the future.

Don't text her, "How was your weekend?"

Text her, "I was thinking about you this weekend. Would you be up for grabbing dinner with me tomorrow night?"
January 2, 2026 at 6:08 PM
Reposted by "Vi" Rollergirl | NYC/BOS/FMTY 🍑🏳️‍⚧️
Do you think we can make 2026 the year providers and clients band together to finally kill off text apps in this industry?

Please god, let it be so!

Today I published a guide for providers who want to make better use of @signal.org for work: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...

I'm doing my part!
Signal for Sex Work(ers) • Violet Rollergirl • Bubbly trans GFE companion
Signal Private Messenger is an easy to use, free messaging app that keeps your client correspondence super secret, but wait, there's more!
violetrollergirl.com
January 2, 2026 at 3:47 AM
I got inspired by @curvycompanion.bsky.social to reflect on 2025, but I prefer iteration over concentration so, instead of a list posted all at once, this is going to be a thread I add replies to as I think of them.

Also, unlike Charlotte, I'm going to reflect first, and do any manifesting later. 😊
As promised, I present my goals, dreams & wishes for 2026 (part 1) 💫

• finish + release my long awaited website (for real!) 👩🏼‍💻
• be a couple’s unicorn 🦄
• more duos 👯‍♀️ + dinner dates 💃
• Montreal or Quebec City fly 🛩️ or train me to you 🚂

(continues ⬇️)
I was working on a list of goals for 2026 earlier this evening and I’m looking forward to sharing Charlotte’s over the coming days 🥳📆🙌🏻
January 1, 2026 at 11:09 PM
I follow many infosec pros. One posted a frustration with a bank. I empathize: bsky.app/profile/viol...

She said she dislikes crypto. I asked why: bsky.app/profile/viol...

"It powers criminal acts." I note fiat currency does, too: bsky.app/profile/viol...

She blocked me. That escalated quickly. 🤔
This is INSANE. 🤯

I have been locked out of financial accounts before, full on just security-freeze "we think you're not you so we won't let you in here" and it's THE MOST MADDENING thing ever.

It's one reason why I'm so bullish on self-custodial cryptocurrency.

So sorry you're dealing with that.
January 1, 2026 at 6:52 PM
This very on-point recommendation by a sweetheart is an extremely good film, and I find it perfectly fitting that my 2026 begins with a look back at one of my old neighborhoods as seen through the eyes of trans women and sex workers who were there before I was born.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Str...
The Stroll (2023 film) - Wikipedia
en.wikipedia.org
January 1, 2026 at 8:20 AM
My 2026 resolution? Normalize men writing over-the-top poems about me. 🥰

It's nice to have so much to look forward to already.

Thank you to my clients, lovers, friends, colleagues, partners, and especially to the handful of people who are more than one of those for filling my year with joy & love!
January 1, 2026 at 5:44 AM
This level headed guide for booking a provider written for clients that are new to doing so is written by a client with experience, have a look: open.substack.com/pub/johndoec... by @johndoeclient.bsky.social.

I also shared thoughts on the same a while back in this thread: bsky.app/profile/viol...
January 1, 2026 at 4:49 AM
I don't have good words for what I'm feeling right now, so I apologize for my lack of tact tonight.

The night that I committed to transitioning was also the eve of my birthday. I had phoned a friend halfway across the globe, in New Zealand, crying because I was—yet again—so near the end of my rope.
January 1, 2026 at 4:02 AM
These were so devilishly delicious! 😋

Thank you for taking such 🌹nice🌹 care of me…even when I'm naughty. 😈
December 31, 2025 at 3:59 PM
This is praxis. 🫡
I used to work at a company that named conference rooms after people. I got a name changed on one to honor Lynn. The pic is real, not generated-- check the name in the trash carefully
December 31, 2025 at 3:23 PM
I tire posting such reminders but they bear repeating:

❤️ Your inquiry must include screening. ❤️
❤️ You hire me to be discreet, not anonymous. ❤️

If you won't tell me who you are I cannot safely tell you anything about me not already published on my ads, making our whole exchange redundant+pointless.
Dear clients, if you want to benefit from providers' professionalism and discretion, then you must also display these traits when connecting with us.
December 30, 2025 at 11:13 PM
If you meet a sex worker in a civ context and she's open with you about her work and she is very obviously flirting with you and you get so in your head about if she'll ask for money that you don't flirt back you're cock blocking yourself and you should've JUST ASKED HER omfg.

Apropos of nothing. 😩
December 30, 2025 at 7:38 PM
I'm going to let my freak flag fly a lot more in 2026.

And I want to begin with one of my favorite games to play online: an Easter egg hunt in cybersecurity CTF-style, with flags sprinkled around/over my website and the prize is discounts off your next booking!

violetrollergirl.com/colophon/#ea...
December 28, 2025 at 11:54 PM
Starting to feel better today! Still sick, but trending in the right direction. And I can tell it'll hold because I'm getting my sex drive back! 😈❤️‍🔥

Christmas may be over but it's not too late to fill out my booking form to put some ho in your holidays or start your new year off with a happy ending!
December 28, 2025 at 5:14 PM
For 2026, I invite more clients who haven't (yet) considered booking a trans provider to do so, and without a preconceived idea of what our dates will be like.

The market tries to atomize us, pornography tries to stereotype us, but the reality of each moment with us is as singular as we are varied.
I really can't stress enough how simple it is to do SO well in intimate encounters with trans women simply by mirroring her words back to her.

I use the words for myself and my body that I want you to use. You often don't even have to ask, as I'll talk about it first. You just have to be listening.
If you're a client who has no trouble switching to using a provider's new name for her after she rebrands but you haven't booked a trans girl yet because you're worried about saying the wrong thing, guess what? It's exactly like this and you're going to do just fine.

Also I really want to meet you.
December 28, 2025 at 5:34 AM
If you're waiting to hear back from me it's because I've fallen very ill. 🤒

I think I'm experiencing all the sicknesses I've evaded all year round, for some reason.

My focus will be on recuperating so I can keep all my January plans. Feel free to bump any urgent/time sensitive requests, thank you!
December 26, 2025 at 11:40 PM
Merry Christmas, loves! 🎄

This year alone I visited Montreal, Denver, Toronto, Boston, Paris, Bordeaux, Washington DC, Sacramento, Vegas, Puerto Rico, Edison, Buenos Aires, and somehow didn't get sick once…until now. 😂

I'm cuddling John McClane and some tea until '26. Send tips for chicken soup. 💝
December 25, 2025 at 6:31 PM
Naughty, or nice?
December 25, 2025 at 1:50 AM
You can pay for Spotify each month or you can learn to use BitTorrent and just have a Spotify back-up. For free. Forever.

annas-archive.org/blog/backing...

Pair with Ampache (ampache.org), Navidrome (www.navidrome.org) or your favorite audio streaming server: awesome-selfhosted.net/tags/media-s...
Backing up Spotify
We backed up Spotify (metadata and music files). It’s distributed in bulk torrents (~300TB). It’s the world’s first “preservation archive” for music which is fully open (meaning it can easily be mirro...
annas-archive.org
December 23, 2025 at 1:52 AM
Sometimes good girls still wind up on Santa's naughty list when they're as "good" as me. 🙂‍↕️
December 22, 2025 at 11:16 PM
There are three standardized values for the event STATUS field in the iCalendar specification: www.kanzaki.com/docs/ical/st...

- TENTATIVE
- CONFIRMED
- CANCELLED

The way I work is: you're marked TENTATIVE until your deposit is received. I'm giving you orgasms only if your entry gets to CONFIRMED.
December 22, 2025 at 9:53 PM