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Over 40 with over 40 thoughts living an over 40 life.

A Lawyer You Can’t Afford.

@Janethedragon in another life
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I am still suffering through the affliction of my persistent heterosexuality.
46 years of neck stepping. #blacksky
November 11, 2025 at 11:35 PM
My dad sent my sister and I some crazy long message from a family member who needed money. Neither of us were willing to read all that. I had just one question, ‘who is it for?’ Because the reason doesn’t matter, the person does.
October 22, 2025 at 2:14 AM
Sometimes I wonder if I’m missing anything having completely disengaged from corporate media. The answer is yes and for the best.
as far as just messaging goes that video is probably the most embarrassing thing any president has done on the world stage in my life

and the fact that the sunday shows wont even describe it? total abdication of their responsibility
October 19, 2025 at 10:39 PM
One thing Bluesky still has over Threads is the lack of ads and constant algorithmic manipulation. Both are so aggressive on Threads, at this point, that you have to fight to see what is relevant to you. They are heavy handed in trying to shape and direct thought. It’s a lot.
October 19, 2025 at 5:35 PM
Sign me up. Immediately.
There's going to be a car full of women bumping "Better Than You" x Cardi B as they leave work and head to happy hour. Please know they are about to spend bread on sushi, wings and wagyu because they just can and the song put a battery in their back.
September 19, 2025 at 1:48 PM
I was really rooting for us but Threads has really pulled out in front.
September 17, 2025 at 8:27 PM
The money is never in the cure.
npr.org NPR @npr.org · Sep 9
The effort to keep schools safe from mass shooters has ballooned into a multibillion dollar industry. Companies are selling school districts assurance with high-tech products.
The school shooting industry is worth billions — and it keeps growing
The effort to keep schools safe from mass shooters has ballooned into a multibillion dollar industry. Companies are selling school districts assurance with high-tech products.
n.pr
September 9, 2025 at 3:49 PM
The rush to sexualize text conversations between people who met solely on a dating app is just weird to me. You don’t even want to see the person in real life before you start discussing sex? That is so strange. They don’t even get the hint when you try to politely change the topic. TF?!
August 21, 2025 at 2:12 PM
I walked by and sometimes with homeless people from union station down the street to my law school. Miraculously, no crimes. I gave them money and food and they chatted me up about current events. I was, however, once assaulted by a very much housed man in a red state 🫩
REPORTER: Why are troops stationed here at Union Station and at the National Mall instead of areas where crime is higher?

JD VANCE: Crime is actually extremely high here at Union Station. You have vagrants.
August 20, 2025 at 4:56 PM
I need an anti-head exploding device to help me deal with my ex asking about everything EXCEPT how he can help financially provide for his three children. Blessedly for me, I don’t need it. But for women who do, I just don’t know how y’all don’t be in jail at least once a month.
August 19, 2025 at 1:25 AM
He knows I don’t ascribe to the fascist BS. He says to him it doesn’t matter, we can agree to disagree. Yeah, no we cannot.
August 4, 2025 at 2:18 PM
I met a great guy. Tall, smart, financially independent, thoughtful, articulate AND Black! There’s just one problem. All of his views on politics are pure red hat, with the white letters. It is as surprising as it is horrifying. I am tempted to pretend that it doesn’t matter. Unfortunately it does.
August 4, 2025 at 2:17 PM
The conversations are thriving on Threads and I hate that for all of us.
July 25, 2025 at 9:30 PM
The way that Maverick City guy talked about gospel music reminded me of how Black men who choose to date white women try to shit on Black women. I wish these Black men could just do what they want and leave us tf out of it.
July 25, 2025 at 4:48 PM
I know people are crazy online, but damn. Some of y’all for real need to go outdoors.
July 23, 2025 at 6:06 PM
Still true.
I comment on Bluesky politics posts, so the following is NOT universally true. But generally, the comments are super unhinged left-wing hyperbole that is completely disconnected from reality and OFTEN from the actual post. It’s weird. Threads has much better and more thoughtful comments.
July 23, 2025 at 5:50 PM
All the restraint democrats showed is being repaid with the threat of prosecution and worse. And still, they do not learn.
July 22, 2025 at 4:02 PM
I comment on Bluesky politics posts, so the following is NOT universally true. But generally, the comments are super unhinged left-wing hyperbole that is completely disconnected from reality and OFTEN from the actual post. It’s weird. Threads has much better and more thoughtful comments.
July 21, 2025 at 4:53 PM
This is good. They aren’t caving, they are in on it. Some of this, I think, applies to universities as well. It definitely applies to large corporations backing away from DEI.
New in PN: CBS cancels Colbert as media continues to turn Trumpward

"For billionaires, palliating Trump is really just palliating themselves, since Trump stands for the inalienable truth that rich white guys should be allowed to do whatever they want without any accountability whatsoever."
CBS cancels Colbert as media continues to turn Trumpward
It's not just bending the knee. It's also oligarchic solidarity.
www.publicnotice.co
July 21, 2025 at 4:46 PM
It’s ok to cancel demons. It is decidedly not ok to be one.
Trump’s senior adviser to the White House Faith Office is canceling demons coming for your finances.
July 19, 2025 at 1:21 AM
Hung out with my kids and decided to revisit the issue of a boyfriend. This canNOT be life 🤣
July 19, 2025 at 1:18 AM
If you still think the democracy is holding, I would like to offer you the opportunity to purchase some land in your local swamp.
July 18, 2025 at 6:36 PM
All Black Americans should consider other options for home. I’m not saying that we need to make plans. But we do need to do some research, at minimum. I’m not going to be anybody’s free labor. Neither are my children.
July 18, 2025 at 6:34 PM
I just want yall to know that the Orange cult will never ever believe this new Epstein info
about their lord and savior is true. They want to get other people. They have no history of holding their own accountable. Don’t entertain the idea for a minute. Because they will not.
July 17, 2025 at 11:06 PM