LeNair Xavier
@lenairxavier.bsky.social
PIED PIPER OF POSITIVE SEXUAL ENERGY
Sex blogger/Erotic poet & performer
Homoromantic Bi-guy
VERS in action, VERS BOTTOM at 💖
Sex blogger/Erotic poet & performer
Homoromantic Bi-guy
VERS in action, VERS BOTTOM at 💖
Pinned
MY EXHIBITIONIST CREDO is the code I live by in all sex & nudity-permitting spaces. If you take careful note of the words, you will realize that a lot of what I say "no" to is because it goes against this statement.
February 9, 2026 at 1:22 AM
Believe me, I tried. And don't think because I define as #bisexual that some of it rubbed off.
WRONG!
Because in my #bisexuality, I'm drawn to the sight and feel of the male 🍆 waaaay more than to the sight and feel of a female's 🐱.
WRONG!
Because in my #bisexuality, I'm drawn to the sight and feel of the male 🍆 waaaay more than to the sight and feel of a female's 🐱.
February 8, 2026 at 5:56 PM
Believe me, I tried. And don't think because I define as #bisexual that some of it rubbed off.
WRONG!
Because in my #bisexuality, I'm drawn to the sight and feel of the male 🍆 waaaay more than to the sight and feel of a female's 🐱.
WRONG!
Because in my #bisexuality, I'm drawn to the sight and feel of the male 🍆 waaaay more than to the sight and feel of a female's 🐱.
Remember the hashtag #OscarsSoWhite? Well, they should do the same with #GayMedia and say #GayMediaSoWhite, #GayNightlifeSoWhite, #GayCinemaSoWhite, #GayPornSoWhite, etc.
I'm tired of the #racist double-standard with the saying #RepresentationMatters.
lenairxavier.medium.com/stfu-on-your...
I'm tired of the #racist double-standard with the saying #RepresentationMatters.
lenairxavier.medium.com/stfu-on-your...
STFU On Your One-Sided #RepresentationMatters
justified cries of “Representation matters” lose being seen as justified…it is not covered by…media unless white & lighter PoC get…
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February 5, 2026 at 9:45 PM
Remember the hashtag #OscarsSoWhite? Well, they should do the same with #GayMedia and say #GayMediaSoWhite, #GayNightlifeSoWhite, #GayCinemaSoWhite, #GayPornSoWhite, etc.
I'm tired of the #racist double-standard with the saying #RepresentationMatters.
lenairxavier.medium.com/stfu-on-your...
I'm tired of the #racist double-standard with the saying #RepresentationMatters.
lenairxavier.medium.com/stfu-on-your...
I DON'T DO POPPERS. So here's how I stay NOT being a size-queen. Therefore, if I take a #monstercock, it is not because I huff so much #poppers without doing #kegels that my hole is loosey-goosey. It's why at age 54, I'm still making young #studs bust quick.
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L.D.T.R.B. – Substance-Free Anal Sex
I am not a stereotypical gay/bi-guy by any means. I am both very anti-drug and anti-poppers. Especially during displays of my degree of gay, like anal sex. I take great pride in being against …
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February 5, 2026 at 7:06 PM
I DON'T DO POPPERS. So here's how I stay NOT being a size-queen. Therefore, if I take a #monstercock, it is not because I huff so much #poppers without doing #kegels that my hole is loosey-goosey. It's why at age 54, I'm still making young #studs bust quick.
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DOWNSIDE TO BEING VERS BUT PREFERRING TO BOTTOM & BEING AN ASS-MAN is seeing a hot 🍑 on here and wanting them to top me, but when I check their profile,... they're a bottom.
Well, if us fucking becomes urgent, I'm vers. So our bodies can still connect. 😉
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Well, if us fucking becomes urgent, I'm vers. So our bodies can still connect. 😉
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VERS In Action, But VERS BOTTOM At Heart
The “how” is because as I have said often, sex is always a spiritual connection. Add that to how my confidence in bottoming and topping is growing in equality, and you have the “w…
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February 5, 2026 at 6:48 PM
DOWNSIDE TO BEING VERS BUT PREFERRING TO BOTTOM & BEING AN ASS-MAN is seeing a hot 🍑 on here and wanting them to top me, but when I check their profile,... they're a bottom.
Well, if us fucking becomes urgent, I'm vers. So our bodies can still connect. 😉
lsxray.vision/2023/10/18/v...
Well, if us fucking becomes urgent, I'm vers. So our bodies can still connect. 😉
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I posted before that these pics inspired an #erotica idea.
Well, I finally started writing that erotica yesterday by telling some of the characters' backstories.
Well, I finally started writing that erotica yesterday by telling some of the characters' backstories.
February 5, 2026 at 12:08 PM
I posted before that these pics inspired an #erotica idea.
Well, I finally started writing that erotica yesterday by telling some of the characters' backstories.
Well, I finally started writing that erotica yesterday by telling some of the characters' backstories.
#gay #racism #colorism #gayporn #CockyBoys #FalconStudios #LucasEntertainment #RagingStallion #whiteness #MediaConsolidation #adultentertainment
February 3, 2026 at 7:53 PM
I went to the #gaycruising bar over the weekend. In the darkroom, a cutie asked if he could fuck me and I let him. This is what I wrote on my Twitter/X that morning about it.
Want to be next? 😉
Want to be next? 😉
February 2, 2026 at 9:31 PM
I went to the #gaycruising bar over the weekend. In the darkroom, a cutie asked if he could fuck me and I let him. This is what I wrote on my Twitter/X that morning about it.
Want to be next? 😉
Want to be next? 😉
In case you didn’t already know 😉...
January 31, 2026 at 9:00 PM
In case you didn’t already know 😉...
MY BIRTHDAY IS EXACTLY 2 MONTHS FROM TODAY (3/31). So while that means I'm born an #Aries, let my #poetry video on #BoyFriendTV tell you about my horny ♈ side. 😉😈
www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/14936...
www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/14936...
January 31, 2026 at 3:49 PM
MY BIRTHDAY IS EXACTLY 2 MONTHS FROM TODAY (3/31). So while that means I'm born an #Aries, let my #poetry video on #BoyFriendTV tell you about my horny ♈ side. 😉😈
www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/14936...
www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/14936...
It looks like @bigdickbookclub.bsky.social has between a .25 - .5 inch (.635 - 1.27 cm) more in both girth and length than that dildo.
In any case, he definitely would require my 5-steps to taking in a big cock... L.D.T.R.B.
LUBE. DESIRE. TRUST. RELAX. BREATHE.
In any case, he definitely would require my 5-steps to taking in a big cock... L.D.T.R.B.
LUBE. DESIRE. TRUST. RELAX. BREATHE.
January 31, 2026 at 9:02 AM
It looks like @bigdickbookclub.bsky.social has between a .25 - .5 inch (.635 - 1.27 cm) more in both girth and length than that dildo.
In any case, he definitely would require my 5-steps to taking in a big cock... L.D.T.R.B.
LUBE. DESIRE. TRUST. RELAX. BREATHE.
In any case, he definitely would require my 5-steps to taking in a big cock... L.D.T.R.B.
LUBE. DESIRE. TRUST. RELAX. BREATHE.
MY DREAM GANGBANG POSITION would be #missionary. Lay me on my back, tether my legs to a bed & let each stud fuck me.
For the feel of a hottie's cock in my ass is already ecstasy to me. But with my ❤️ of ass, it goes to another level when in addition, I get to simultaneously grab the 🍑 of my top.
For the feel of a hottie's cock in my ass is already ecstasy to me. But with my ❤️ of ass, it goes to another level when in addition, I get to simultaneously grab the 🍑 of my top.
January 31, 2026 at 8:43 AM
MY DREAM GANGBANG POSITION would be #missionary. Lay me on my back, tether my legs to a bed & let each stud fuck me.
For the feel of a hottie's cock in my ass is already ecstasy to me. But with my ❤️ of ass, it goes to another level when in addition, I get to simultaneously grab the 🍑 of my top.
For the feel of a hottie's cock in my ass is already ecstasy to me. But with my ❤️ of ass, it goes to another level when in addition, I get to simultaneously grab the 🍑 of my top.
Credit from @toureshow - Remind me to tell y’all the story of the time I said “n-word-ization” on MSNBC and got in SO MUCH trouble. I know @krystalmball remembers. - www.instagram.com/reel/DUHondm...
January 30, 2026 at 7:24 PM
Credit from @toureshow - Remind me to tell y’all the story of the time I said “n-word-ization” on MSNBC and got in SO MUCH trouble. I know @krystalmball remembers. - www.instagram.com/reel/DUHondm...
NAH! YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE GAY TO SUCK A 🍆. HOWEVER, if you're not gay and it's not for money because you're days away from being homeless, THEN WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING???
You are obviously some degree of #gay. Because YOU. LIKE. DICK. Just be honest with yourself already! Damn!
You are obviously some degree of #gay. Because YOU. LIKE. DICK. Just be honest with yourself already! Damn!
January 29, 2026 at 7:07 PM
NAH! YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE GAY TO SUCK A 🍆. HOWEVER, if you're not gay and it's not for money because you're days away from being homeless, THEN WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING???
You are obviously some degree of #gay. Because YOU. LIKE. DICK. Just be honest with yourself already! Damn!
You are obviously some degree of #gay. Because YOU. LIKE. DICK. Just be honest with yourself already! Damn!
"...the #racism in the #gaycommunity runs deeper than I thought... white #gay males and their assimilators are, not only telling themselves they are superior to Black men...they are also endlessly competing with Black males.."
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Dumbing Down My Sexy For… Acceptance?
Only one idiot named Gilad has ever had the nerve to come close to requesting that I “dumb down my sexy” as the title says. And at the time, we were at of all places, the NYC gay bar, T…
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January 29, 2026 at 5:09 PM
"...the #racism in the #gaycommunity runs deeper than I thought... white #gay males and their assimilators are, not only telling themselves they are superior to Black men...they are also endlessly competing with Black males.."
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"...it seems that many white males want a Black male like myself to dumb-down their sexiness. For showing my sexual prowess via my looks and/or knowledge...intimidates them. Because it makes it possible for someone of depth to choose my black beauty over their overhyped white."
Dumbing Down My Sexy For… Acceptance?
Only one idiot named Gilad has ever had the nerve to come close to requesting that I "dumb down my sexy" as the title says. And at the time, we were at of all places, the NYC gay bar, The Cock. However, since action speaks louder than words, it is what the actions of certain people have clearly been saying.
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January 29, 2026 at 2:55 PM
"...it seems that many white males want a Black male like myself to dumb-down their sexiness. For showing my sexual prowess via my looks and/or knowledge...intimidates them. Because it makes it possible for someone of depth to choose my black beauty over their overhyped white."
ONCE UPON A TIME, I was a guy that cringed at the thought of a guy calling my ass a "pussy" or me saying it to my bottom. Now, if my top says it, I'm throwing my ass on him even more. And if you're my bottom saying, "Fuck my pussy!"...
OK. You're asking for it.
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OK. You're asking for it.
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X-Rayed Sex: “Understanding When Males Call Their 🍑 A 🐱”
By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and …
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January 29, 2026 at 4:11 AM
ONCE UPON A TIME, I was a guy that cringed at the thought of a guy calling my ass a "pussy" or me saying it to my bottom. Now, if my top says it, I'm throwing my ass on him even more. And if you're my bottom saying, "Fuck my pussy!"...
OK. You're asking for it.
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OK. You're asking for it.
thotyssey.com/2025/01/30/x...
I've said often that I had a kink for hotties wearing tops and no bottoms. But you probably didn't know that I wrote about that kink on an old blog of mine more than a decade ago. Under a category I called, "Getting Out The Kinks".
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Getting Out The Kinks: Pants-LESS Is More
I wrote about this kink before some years ago when I was blogging for the gay porn company, Pitbull Productions. But since that blog is no...
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January 29, 2026 at 3:14 AM
I've said often that I had a kink for hotties wearing tops and no bottoms. But you probably didn't know that I wrote about that kink on an old blog of mine more than a decade ago. Under a category I called, "Getting Out The Kinks".
www.lsx-rayvision.com/2015/05/gett...
www.lsx-rayvision.com/2015/05/gett...
There could have been a lot less clean-up for @rikianaixxx.bsky.social if I was sitting on his lap milking that load out of him. 😉🤤
Throwback to that time you all dared me to go to the gym plugged and I came everywhere 🙈
January 28, 2026 at 7:36 PM
There could have been a lot less clean-up for @rikianaixxx.bsky.social if I was sitting on his lap milking that load out of him. 😉🤤
Seeing a thick cock I've taken in up close in a photo gives me a moment to say to myself, "Damn, I'm good!"
January 27, 2026 at 6:53 PM
Seeing a thick cock I've taken in up close in a photo gives me a moment to say to myself, "Damn, I'm good!"
I'M VERS, PREFER BOTTOMING & I LOVE A NICE 🍑 BEFORE A BIG 🍆 EVEN THEN. Sounds complex, but I embrace it. For it's individual me. It's proof why communication is so important to both #relationships & #hookups.
This @kiirooamsterdam.bsky.social article tells more...
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This @kiirooamsterdam.bsky.social article tells more...
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Embrace Your Intimacy Complexity
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January 26, 2026 at 7:14 PM
I'M VERS, PREFER BOTTOMING & I LOVE A NICE 🍑 BEFORE A BIG 🍆 EVEN THEN. Sounds complex, but I embrace it. For it's individual me. It's proof why communication is so important to both #relationships & #hookups.
This @kiirooamsterdam.bsky.social article tells more...
www.kiiroo.com/blogs/articl...
This @kiirooamsterdam.bsky.social article tells more...
www.kiiroo.com/blogs/articl...
More backstory on my IG: www.instagram.com/p/DTYVmr8jia...
#gaycruising #sexparties #gaysexparties #gaysexparty #sexclub #racism #sexism #misogyny #WhiteCulture #BlackCulture #AsianCulture #MiddleEasternCulture
#gaycruising #sexparties #gaysexparties #gaysexparty #sexclub #racism #sexism #misogyny #WhiteCulture #BlackCulture #AsianCulture #MiddleEasternCulture
January 26, 2026 at 6:24 PM
The #ageism in the #gaycommunity finds nothing to celebrate with how on March 31, 2026, I turn 55. Especially my applying the sentiment behind the phrase "Sweet 16" to my turning 55. However, as I have stated with all of my past #BirthdayCollages, I beg to differ.
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January 25, 2026 at 7:15 PM
The #ageism in the #gaycommunity finds nothing to celebrate with how on March 31, 2026, I turn 55. Especially my applying the sentiment behind the phrase "Sweet 16" to my turning 55. However, as I have stated with all of my past #BirthdayCollages, I beg to differ.
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In this article, I said it was a white male that interrupted my topping a hottie with his invasive space & yammering. Last night at the #gaycruising bar, it was a black male. Both social retards justifying my poem "STFU While I F***" being written.
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The Last Straws To ‘STFU When I F***.’
While my poem “STFU When I F***.” is new, it is unfortunate how the events inspiring it are not at all new. So far from new that years ago, I wrote a “Sex Party Etiquette” a…
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January 25, 2026 at 2:58 AM
In this article, I said it was a white male that interrupted my topping a hottie with his invasive space & yammering. Last night at the #gaycruising bar, it was a black male. Both social retards justifying my poem "STFU While I F***" being written.
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THAT MOMENT WHEN the sight or suggestion of a male comic book, cartoon, or anime character naked makes you fantasize about how if he was a real man you would not hesitate in assuming the position to let him go deep and rearrange your guts. @gilxxgamesh.bsky.social #ZeninToji #TojiZenin #anime
January 24, 2026 at 5:18 PM
THAT MOMENT WHEN the sight or suggestion of a male comic book, cartoon, or anime character naked makes you fantasize about how if he was a real man you would not hesitate in assuming the position to let him go deep and rearrange your guts. @gilxxgamesh.bsky.social #ZeninToji #TojiZenin #anime