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Survivor. DV sector volunteer. Care experienced. I rise, despite the storm. #CSA #DV #CSASurvivorSky #CPTSD
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There is so much silence for those of us who have suffered at the hands of white rape gangs. So much silence. #CSA #CSE
January 14, 2025 at 12:11 PM
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A long 🧵 . Please read to end 🙏🏼

Today was the annual New Year gathering, in my childhood home - a place where I was sexually abused. I lived there until I was 18. The perpetrator is no longer there but the memories of abuse are - in my old bedroom where he would come to ‘kiss me goodnight’. 1/
January 3, 2025 at 7:23 PM
Sometimes this is all you need. #CPTSD #Survivor
December 13, 2024 at 3:56 PM
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Gregg Wallace has been accused of making "lesbian jokes constantly" by a woman who worked on a travel show with him.

The woman, who we are calling Anna, said he was "fascinated" by the fact she dated women and asked her the "logistics" of how it worked.
Gregg Wallace 'fascinated by my sex life and made lesbian jokes'
A number of workers across a range of shows have approached BBC News with claims about the TV presenter.
www.bbc.co.uk
November 29, 2024 at 7:51 AM
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This new report by the
Child Safeguarding Practice Review Panel mirrors the findings of our #CSA paper, reported by
Lucy Thornton
(links next post). This article by
@louisetickle.bsky.social
summarises the detail: www.tortoisemedia.com/contributor/...
November 26, 2024 at 5:02 PM
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“The end. I fought hard, I fought long. I went through pain no one could imagine."

Vulnerable young mother, Kiena Dawes, 23, killed herself after leaving a note claiming “I was murdered” after suffering years of alleged abuse by her ex-boyfriend, a court has heard.

#DomesticAbuseRelatedSuicide
‘I was murdered’ – note from abused young mother who killed herself
Ryan Wellings, 30, is accused of the manslaughter of his ex Kiena Dawes, after years of alleged abuse.
www.independent.co.uk
November 26, 2024 at 6:23 PM
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You need to know it's common for trauma survivors to feel guilt about setting limits, up to & including "no contact," w/ people who trigger us-- but that guilt doesn't mean it was a bad decision.
November 26, 2024 at 9:58 PM
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CCTV shows autistic children being shoved into padded rooms, thrown to the floor, restrained by the neck - or left alone, sitting in vomit
www.bbc.com/news/article...
CCTV shows pupils abused and locked in padded room
Police have said staff will not face action over abuse of autistic children shown in videos leaked to the BBC.
www.bbc.com
November 27, 2024 at 7:05 AM
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Today we are working with multi-agency practitioners from Southampton Safeguarding Partnership. My co trainer - consultant social worker Sarah Pritchard & I will explore how we can close the gap between practitioners & those experiencing intrafamilial #CSA, or living with the impact.

#SideBySideCSA
November 25, 2024 at 6:41 AM
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November 25, 2024 at 12:28 PM
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I was called an evil white woman today for my campaigning to protect children from abuse…
November 25, 2024 at 9:32 PM
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You are not "bad," "weak," or "stupid" for struggling or experiencing symptoms.

Don't get in your head about experiencing symptoms. Refocus, again & again (& again), on responding to your symptoms w/ patience, compassion, & skill.

This is recovery.
November 25, 2024 at 10:11 PM
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Advocacy isn't about comfort—it's about challenging those who uphold failing systems. Real change doesn’t come from polite tea breaks and back pats. It comes from disrupting the status quo and holding power accountable. Advocacy exists because the world still needs it.
November 26, 2024 at 1:30 AM
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#16Days #IDEVAW #WhiteRibbonDay

We work #365Days a year, challenging male violence against women & girls #YouAreNotAlone

🟣Athena women-only support groups
🟣Specialist Armed Forces support
🟣 DVA Cars where we travel alongside the police
🟣CPD Training
🟣Stalking Service

#ArmedForcesFamily
November 26, 2024 at 8:43 AM
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Gisèle Pelicot graces the cover of vogue Germany, on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women #16daysofactivism
November 26, 2024 at 8:54 AM
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Pretty much every trauma survivor I've ever worked with has been a highly sensitive soul existing in a highly complicated physical situation-- including their body, their housing or living situation, their economic circumstances, & their medical status. For starters.
November 24, 2024 at 6:06 PM
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Huge result today for Angela Sdrinis Legal in Tasmania’s first (and now first successful) class action. Her settlement means 129 Ashley detention survivors share in $75 million compensation for their abuse at the state’s hands. Judge called her work exemplary. #politas
It’s time to close Ashley.
November 25, 2024 at 4:45 AM
So so true
November 24, 2024 at 9:56 PM
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BREAKING: Kanye West has been accused of sexual assault in a civil lawsuit that alleges he strangled a model on the set of a music video.

A representative for Ye was approached for comment by NBC News on Saturday.
Kanye West accused of sexual assault on set of music video in new lawsuit
The lawsuit brought by a model featured in a music video relates to an alleged incident at the Chelsea Hotel in New York City in 2010.
news.sky.com
November 24, 2024 at 3:17 PM
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No, 25th November is NOT ‘White Ribbon Day’. It is the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women #IDEVAW

This from @kareningalasmith.bsky.social is very compelling on why this matters.

kareningalasmith.com/category/the...
The International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women – Karen Ingala Smith
Posts about The International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women written by Karen Ingala Smith
kareningalasmith.com
November 22, 2024 at 9:28 AM
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Greg Hazeltine, Re [2024] EWHC 2982 (Fam) (21 November 2024):
Committal proceedings against father for serious contempts in the course of children proceedings. Contempts proved and father sentenced to 5 months imprisonment. caselaw.nationalarchives.gov.uk/ewhc/fam/202...
Greg Hazeltine, Re - Find Case Law - The National Archives
caselaw.nationalarchives.gov.uk
November 21, 2024 at 4:40 PM