how do i convince someone that hasn’t been in a good relationship before, and the last one at all was 4 years ago, that it’s okay to not be comfortable being vulnerable as long as you’re comfortable being with the other person. maybe im too much of a cancer
January 31, 2026 at 8:25 PM
how do i convince someone that hasn’t been in a good relationship before, and the last one at all was 4 years ago, that it’s okay to not be comfortable being vulnerable as long as you’re comfortable being with the other person. maybe im too much of a cancer
the issue is that i’ve trusted her feelings are real but i don’t know if i’ve trusted that her words are real. i know that sounds weird to say but it feels like im being spoon fed feelings instead of getting the nutrition a relationship actually needs to keep a connection alive
January 31, 2026 at 8:21 PM
the issue is that i’ve trusted her feelings are real but i don’t know if i’ve trusted that her words are real. i know that sounds weird to say but it feels like im being spoon fed feelings instead of getting the nutrition a relationship actually needs to keep a connection alive
i know i haven’t been too over bearing because we’ve actually talked about it, but i feel trust issues starting to boil in my stomach and it leaves a bad taste in my mouth. i think the big gaps of silence remind me a lot of 2022 and there were a lot of issues i ignored then
January 31, 2026 at 8:18 PM
i know i haven’t been too over bearing because we’ve actually talked about it, but i feel trust issues starting to boil in my stomach and it leaves a bad taste in my mouth. i think the big gaps of silence remind me a lot of 2022 and there were a lot of issues i ignored then
been struggling with some of my thoughts today. i think im in a healthy place in terms of my comfortability with my decision making but i also have moments of doubt when i think i’ve either gone too far in certain places or am neglecting certain signs in the name of getting my way
January 31, 2026 at 8:16 PM
been struggling with some of my thoughts today. i think im in a healthy place in terms of my comfortability with my decision making but i also have moments of doubt when i think i’ve either gone too far in certain places or am neglecting certain signs in the name of getting my way
Learning and unlearning💆🏾♂️healing and dealing💆🏾♂️tryna push thru everything rn to be my better self at the end of this year💆🏾♂️#gotitinthebag💆🏾♂️😮💨
January 27, 2026 at 3:21 PM
Learning and unlearning💆🏾♂️healing and dealing💆🏾♂️tryna push thru everything rn to be my better self at the end of this year💆🏾♂️#gotitinthebag💆🏾♂️😮💨
there’s only one person i know personally that uses this app and i wonder if he sees these random aahh blurbs and tries to put 2 and 2 together. honestly not even that hard but im talking to myself so 🤷🏾♂️ who dafUq knows not me
January 27, 2026 at 1:17 AM
there’s only one person i know personally that uses this app and i wonder if he sees these random aahh blurbs and tries to put 2 and 2 together. honestly not even that hard but im talking to myself so 🤷🏾♂️ who dafUq knows not me
The L word is a dangerous word to throw around but i’ve become more comfortable acknowledging when it’s real or not 😶🌫️i gotta stay on yellow even tho i know it’s more likely we get a green light rather than a red light
January 27, 2026 at 1:16 AM
The L word is a dangerous word to throw around but i’ve become more comfortable acknowledging when it’s real or not 😶🌫️i gotta stay on yellow even tho i know it’s more likely we get a green light rather than a red light
see but like my issue is that a mf cancer gon just fall for someone hard and fast and it’s been a fkng year and a half since i’ve KNOWN so like going slow rn feels like im stupid ahead of the curve
January 27, 2026 at 1:14 AM
see but like my issue is that a mf cancer gon just fall for someone hard and fast and it’s been a fkng year and a half since i’ve KNOWN so like going slow rn feels like im stupid ahead of the curve
feeling a lot better abt the situation between us. we’re actually more comfortable w each other than i thought…i think…i might just be paranoid🤔important things to keep in mind
January 27, 2026 at 1:13 AM
feeling a lot better abt the situation between us. we’re actually more comfortable w each other than i thought…i think…i might just be paranoid🤔important things to keep in mind
my blood has been boiling for the past 2 weeks since renee goods murder. i just can’t anymore why are people being killed like they can just come back stop this shit please this is not a video game there is no next round there is no go next we all get one chance and it’s over after what the fuck
January 25, 2026 at 6:48 AM
my blood has been boiling for the past 2 weeks since renee goods murder. i just can’t anymore why are people being killed like they can just come back stop this shit please this is not a video game there is no next round there is no go next we all get one chance and it’s over after what the fuck
i’m not even worried about being a black man in an interaction with the police anymore. i don’t want anyone in my life being anywhere close to any police officers because they’re the biggest threat to a person in america today
January 25, 2026 at 6:47 AM
i’m not even worried about being a black man in an interaction with the police anymore. i don’t want anyone in my life being anywhere close to any police officers because they’re the biggest threat to a person in america today
since i was 11 years old i’ve been hearing the audios and watching the videos of people being murdered in the street by police officers or those enabled by the government. i can’t trust any police because who knows when they’ll decide i’m a danger because i don’t agree with something they say
January 25, 2026 at 6:45 AM
since i was 11 years old i’ve been hearing the audios and watching the videos of people being murdered in the street by police officers or those enabled by the government. i can’t trust any police because who knows when they’ll decide i’m a danger because i don’t agree with something they say
i can’t get any of my school work because i am constantly thinking about the fact that people in this country are being killed or taken off the streets and we’re expected to continue on with our lives as if there’s nothing we can do about it or as if it doesn’t actually affect us. it affects me
January 25, 2026 at 6:38 AM
i can’t get any of my school work because i am constantly thinking about the fact that people in this country are being killed or taken off the streets and we’re expected to continue on with our lives as if there’s nothing we can do about it or as if it doesn’t actually affect us. it affects me
currently at a crossroads of whether i think she was being truthful or not. hard to say but she’s not one to forget something like that throughout the whole day, but i guess it wouldn’t be too out of the question which makes it hard to tell
January 25, 2026 at 2:02 AM
currently at a crossroads of whether i think she was being truthful or not. hard to say but she’s not one to forget something like that throughout the whole day, but i guess it wouldn’t be too out of the question which makes it hard to tell
i swear to god i’m never doing this stupid ass american education system ever again. if i ever even go to grad school it just has to be out of the country because i fucking despise this place
January 24, 2026 at 3:25 PM
i swear to god i’m never doing this stupid ass american education system ever again. if i ever even go to grad school it just has to be out of the country because i fucking despise this place
i can’t get an ounce of work done. i have absolutely no motivation to do any of it. I should’ve graduated last year but my goofy ass didn’t wanna do the work for these useless ass lectures before so now i’m paying the price in my last quarter
January 24, 2026 at 3:24 PM
i can’t get an ounce of work done. i have absolutely no motivation to do any of it. I should’ve graduated last year but my goofy ass didn’t wanna do the work for these useless ass lectures before so now i’m paying the price in my last quarter
you should be able to test out of the 4th year of college, honestly probably one of the least consequential years. everything i can do now i surely could’ve done in my third year which i know because i literally came up with it then but was busy doing other requirements so i couldn’t then
January 23, 2026 at 2:22 PM
you should be able to test out of the 4th year of college, honestly probably one of the least consequential years. everything i can do now i surely could’ve done in my third year which i know because i literally came up with it then but was busy doing other requirements so i couldn’t then
i started seeing someone recently and it’s really got me seeing how toxic my past relationships have really been. Like i feel like things are not the way they should be but it’s only because of the way things were in the past for me and the normalcy of everything this time around is throwing me off
January 23, 2026 at 2:13 PM
i started seeing someone recently and it’s really got me seeing how toxic my past relationships have really been. Like i feel like things are not the way they should be but it’s only because of the way things were in the past for me and the normalcy of everything this time around is throwing me off