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James
@jamesalexstephens.bsky.social
🏠 London
🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQIA+
🏢 Music Industry
🤓 ASD
☕️ Sober
2 months off all social media 😇
but all this tariff nonsense has brought me back here at least for a gawp. Meta can still go fuck itself.
April 6, 2025 at 2:26 PM
Spent the weekend with my godson (7) and his little brother (3) so of course I’m now horribly sick 🤒
January 21, 2025 at 7:59 PM
Whoever from Capital One worked on the deal to name the Capital One Arena must be happy right now because Capital One is being said right now on every news channel in the world more than ever. Capital One.
January 20, 2025 at 4:10 PM
That TikTok message is…. wow.
We’re circling the drain.
January 19, 2025 at 8:42 AM
Oh that's sad ☹️

(He was so hot in the WLIIA days)
Tony Slattery: Comedian and actor dies aged 65
He was known for his quick-witted improvisations on shows like Channel 4's Whose Line Is It Anyway.
www.bbc.co.uk
January 14, 2025 at 2:19 PM
Sauna then steam, or steam then sauna??
*new gym*
January 14, 2025 at 11:42 AM
Super dysregulated today.
But I know *why* now which doesn’t stop it happening, but does help me stop and sit down and let my brain catch up. #ASD
January 13, 2025 at 12:02 PM
Reposted by James
A tribute to The Vivienne shown at the end of US #DragRace
January 11, 2025 at 9:57 PM
Sigh.
New: Meta has deleted trans and nonbinary Messenger themes, as well as the blog posts announcing them. Happens the same week that it has changed its rules to allow users to say LGBTQ+ people are "mentally ill"

www.404media.co/meta-deletes...
Meta Deletes Trans and Nonbinary Messenger Themes
Amid a series of changes that allows users to target LGBTQ+ people, Meta has deleted product features it initially championed.
www.404media.co
January 10, 2025 at 7:55 PM
Boyfriend is out tonight. I've had an Honest burger, a bag of lebkuchen left over from Christmas and I'm watching Pretty Woman under a blanket on the sofa hashtag selfcare
January 10, 2025 at 7:46 PM
I've not been on Twitter since Musk. But I was still putting stuff on Meta platforms. There's lots of people I'm not super close to but I'm 'Facebook-close'. And I was bereaved 5 years ago, I value the Memories it throws up. But then they come out with this new moderation policy and I just...nope.
January 8, 2025 at 11:47 AM
TWENTY TWENTY THRIVE!!
January 1, 2025 at 8:37 AM
2024.

1. 2 hands // Tate McRae
2. Sympathy is a knife featuring ariana grande // Charli xcx
3. Good Luck, Babe! // Chapell Roan
4. last night’s mascara // Griff
5. That’s So True // Gracie Abrams
December 29, 2024 at 3:02 PM
I love a Steven Moffat Dr Who episode that’s funny and heartbreaking and makes zero sense whatsoever but it doesn’t MATTER 😍
December 26, 2024 at 10:24 AM
Looking up Intermittent Fasting.
No reason 🐷
December 24, 2024 at 12:32 PM
Watched We Live In Time.
Sobbed.
December 21, 2024 at 2:03 PM
My pristine cream jumper made it the whole way through a weekend at Soho Farmhouse only for me to throw a coffee over myself as the car braked to let the gates open 🤣🙈
December 15, 2024 at 2:04 PM
Got a great massage from a hot Spanish twunk.
No happy finish, it’s not the kind of establishment! But I definitely felt it on my shoulder at one point.
December 14, 2024 at 3:03 PM
This Gregg Wallace autism defence has triggered me. My dad was diagnosed late in life with Asperger's Syndrome as it was called and used it as an excuse all. the. time.
I am now diagnosed with ASD myself so I know - it's not an excuse for being a colossal dickhead, that's a choice.
December 7, 2024 at 5:32 PM
Facebook today has reminded me 3 years ago I was in a dark place.
No feeling is final.
December 5, 2024 at 12:47 PM
Fitting that on International Day of Persons with Disabilities I had a meeting about making reasonable adjustments to help me work more effectively with my #autism - I'm starting my self-advocacy era!
December 3, 2024 at 4:14 PM
I have my first ever interaction with Occupational Health today and I’m quite anxious #autism
December 3, 2024 at 8:29 AM
Very dysregulated today and I hate it. I know it’s because of the combo of a silly work thing and my autism but knowing the insignificance of the ‘why’ makes it worse somehow, like why am I like this??!
December 2, 2024 at 1:34 PM
Smoggie Queens is hilarious and surprisingly poignant I hope they get to make many many more 🌈 🌈🌈
December 1, 2024 at 2:49 PM
First cheeseboard of the season!
December 1, 2024 at 1:06 PM