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Lubegirl (She/Her)
@iamlubegirl.bsky.social
NSFW 🔞 white appearing POC 🏳️‍🌈 💅
Rope. Shenanigans. 🥔🥔🥔
NYC Hitchin' Bitches Leader
DM to Collab or set up a education/tying session ⛓️
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Another reminder: As part of my own practice of uplifting marginalized communities, I've put together a couple lists of humans who do rope.

Check out the Starter Pack tab to see more (and let me know if I need to add/remove from you what's currently available)
I'm in the process of trying to build out some additional classes around the idea of being fit for purpose; how do we adapt to a person in a harness and their general needs during suspension and ties

Plz fill out the form and share with your friends

www.cognitoforms.com/KL40/Fit4fee...
Fit for Purpose: Tying to a Body | Cognito Forms
www.cognitoforms.com
September 4, 2025 at 1:48 PM
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There is only one slot left on Aug 23rd for the Hot Dads experience with me and @softdaddy.bsky.social. Get your fill of tough love with your favorite father figures.
August 11, 2025 at 1:44 PM
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The real lore of every OC Snoop
July 16, 2025 at 12:48 PM
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If you enjoy seeing men in rope, my friend @ellliot.bsky.social maintains this awesome Starter Pack to follow. 😈
I've been assembling a Starter Pack of accounts on Bluesky that share pics & videos of their rope work.
April 8, 2025 at 10:20 PM
I've been graciously accepted to teach some topics near and dear to my heart (Rope, CNC, spanking) at this year's event! The schedule comes out Friday; have you registered yet?
smsprimalarts.com
April 8, 2025 at 10:42 PM
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February 16, 2025 at 11:30 PM
My birthday is coming up (2/16)🎉

I don't tell people about it because I normally struggle to be the center of attention (perceive vs objectified) so this is a small way to center myself. If you want to help me celebrate:
1) Donate to www.glitsinc.org/donate, helps QTBIPOC find housing in NYC
Donate — GLITS
www.glitsinc.org
February 12, 2025 at 4:07 PM
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Reskeet if your profile is safe for BIPOC queer, trans folks, sex workers, neurodivergent people, and those with disabilities
✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿🌈😈🧠♿️💖
December 30, 2024 at 1:50 PM
A whole bunch of people im either connected or aquatinted with are adopting cats ...
ergo everyone is literally getting pussy except for me 😂😂😂😭😭😭

Boy does that dopamine hit regardless of me being able to pet those kitties or not 🥹
February 5, 2025 at 4:34 PM
Another reminder: As part of my own practice of uplifting marginalized communities, I've put together a couple lists of humans who do rope.

Check out the Starter Pack tab to see more (and let me know if I need to add/remove from you what's currently available)
January 29, 2025 at 3:53 PM
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Happy Lunar New Year - it’s the year of the wood snake.

This year symbolizes renewal and rebirth - shed what doesn’t serve you!
January 29, 2025 at 2:33 PM
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Have you been naughty? Want to be? Celebrate this season of love in the most intoxicating way possible. “My BDSM Valentine” is a show to spice up your Valentine’s Day plans and bring out your inner sexy energy. Use your imagination.

publictheater.org/productions/...
January 8, 2025 at 1:56 PM
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I am in @forbes.com 🥂🪩

I’m in Forbes discussing A.I., humanity, and project management. All topics I love discussing as A.I’s growth is undeniable and becoming entrenched in our culture. Link in my bio.
January 6, 2025 at 2:54 PM
@makirollofficial.bsky.social made a really wonderful post about their experiences pre-pandemic about being a Black femme in their local rope community.

There's still a way to go as far as inclusivity and equity, but it's a helpful perspective to navigate post-pandemic issues.
Black Girl Tied In Knots
Untangle from your expectations of shibari
makiwrites.substack.com
December 28, 2024 at 12:12 AM
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I may be intimidating and a bit scary, but I'm genuinely a caring person. My goal is always to earn trust, be compassionate, and communicate clearly. Yes, I want to utterly destroy you, but we can also exchange jokes.
December 27, 2024 at 9:05 PM
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As someone who works in kink/ DMs/ works events. If something happens or someone is making you uncomfortable, SAY SOMETHING. DMs and hosts are there to help , to curate a safe and comfortable environment for all. Don't let some creep run wild and inform us after the fact.
December 12, 2024 at 1:21 AM
This. I don't take sessions as much as I used to, but lord the number of cismen who did this and tried to negotiate down my prices.

If you value my time, then you need to invest in it.
You’ll never catch Me chasing after a submissive to finish screening, send a deposit, etc. I’m only interested in submissives who are serious about serving Me, and if you can’t follow simple written instructions… you’re not in that category lol.
December 3, 2024 at 8:11 PM
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I had a hard time finding fellow trans nonbinary BDSM providers, so here's my starter pack! Comment to be added, DM to be removed 😘 go.bsky.app/RA2Zbxn
November 17, 2024 at 4:34 PM
As part of my own practice of uplifting marginalized communities, I've started to put together a list of humans who do rope.

This starter pack is BIPOC focused but ideally I'd love to have two more; a fat rope humans and rope humans with disabilities pack.
December 2, 2024 at 8:00 PM
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When will the scene fess up to the way it pedestals femmes (especially those perceived as women) thru the objectification of our usefulness and are feral to resent us the moment we remove access to us or they can’t benefit from our perceived usefulness.
December 2, 2024 at 4:02 PM
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UPDATE!

SW Resources & Support has a mega block list!
From now on, please send any fake alerts directly to: @swresourcessupport.bsky.social

Thank you for helping to prevent clients, fans, and fellow industry workers from being tricked by scam accounts.

bsky.app/profile/did:...
November 26, 2024 at 12:48 AM
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Hard to believe that there are still rope teachers who don’t name their bottoms in their promotional posts.

Also disappointing to see venues still allowing this.
November 25, 2024 at 2:31 AM
Hello all!

I'm Lube(she/her), a queer, white appearing person of color out of the NYC Area. I've been switching for rope since 2016 and will most likely be lurking out reposting things that resonate with me here.

I do have also BDSM kinks, but let's be honest. No one is asking about those 🤣
November 21, 2024 at 2:22 PM