Heidi ☕️ 🇩🇰 🏳️🌈
@hla72.bsky.social
Crazy cat lady from Denmark. Cumberbatch fan. Proud Gen X
Anglophile. ME/Fibro & Mental Health.
Books, UK telly, film, theatre, food, music, #soundsofthe80s
On WhatsApp and IG. Not on X anymore.
Anglophile. ME/Fibro & Mental Health.
Books, UK telly, film, theatre, food, music, #soundsofthe80s
On WhatsApp and IG. Not on X anymore.
I've been a massive PSB fan since the beginning, so happy 40 years to me LOL
Fav songs from the 80s are 'Left to My Own Devices' and 'Kings Cross'.
Fav. album is 'Actually'... closely followed by "Introspective'.
#soundsofthe80s
Fav songs from the 80s are 'Left to My Own Devices' and 'Kings Cross'.
Fav. album is 'Actually'... closely followed by "Introspective'.
#soundsofthe80s
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November 15, 2025 at 9:14 PM
I've been a massive PSB fan since the beginning, so happy 40 years to me LOL
Fav songs from the 80s are 'Left to My Own Devices' and 'Kings Cross'.
Fav. album is 'Actually'... closely followed by "Introspective'.
#soundsofthe80s
Fav songs from the 80s are 'Left to My Own Devices' and 'Kings Cross'.
Fav. album is 'Actually'... closely followed by "Introspective'.
#soundsofthe80s
November 15, 2025 at 8:59 PM
Jeez!
It's a good thing I've got some breathing exercises to calm my nervous system. Otherwise, I would have had a nervous breakdown several weeks ago.
Mum is driving me up the wall big time, and I'm close to losing the plot, but for now, I'm managing to stay somewhat calm.
But send help... soon!
It's a good thing I've got some breathing exercises to calm my nervous system. Otherwise, I would have had a nervous breakdown several weeks ago.
Mum is driving me up the wall big time, and I'm close to losing the plot, but for now, I'm managing to stay somewhat calm.
But send help... soon!
November 14, 2025 at 4:46 PM
Jeez!
It's a good thing I've got some breathing exercises to calm my nervous system. Otherwise, I would have had a nervous breakdown several weeks ago.
Mum is driving me up the wall big time, and I'm close to losing the plot, but for now, I'm managing to stay somewhat calm.
But send help... soon!
It's a good thing I've got some breathing exercises to calm my nervous system. Otherwise, I would have had a nervous breakdown several weeks ago.
Mum is driving me up the wall big time, and I'm close to losing the plot, but for now, I'm managing to stay somewhat calm.
But send help... soon!
A master piece. One of my all-time time fav. PSB songs.
35 years ago in November 1990, PSB released “Being boring” as the 2nd single from their 4th studio album, “Behaviour”. The song was inspired by a party invitation from Neil’s Newcastle days which quoted Zelda Fitzgerald’s line “She was never bored, mainly because she was never boring”.
#PetShopBoys
#PetShopBoys
November 13, 2025 at 5:06 PM
A master piece. One of my all-time time fav. PSB songs.
I'm so done with appointments, my health, taking care of my mum, cooking, tidying my kitchen, laundry etc etc.
I'm in so much pain and so exhausted I could cry. There are still things that needs to be done and the mental load of everything.
I just want some peace and quiet... and sleep!
#rant
I'm in so much pain and so exhausted I could cry. There are still things that needs to be done and the mental load of everything.
I just want some peace and quiet... and sleep!
#rant
November 13, 2025 at 4:44 PM
I'm so done with appointments, my health, taking care of my mum, cooking, tidying my kitchen, laundry etc etc.
I'm in so much pain and so exhausted I could cry. There are still things that needs to be done and the mental load of everything.
I just want some peace and quiet... and sleep!
#rant
I'm in so much pain and so exhausted I could cry. There are still things that needs to be done and the mental load of everything.
I just want some peace and quiet... and sleep!
#rant
I'm back home, and I'm absolutely exhausted and done.
Got an appointment tomorrow morning at 11 am. I'm going to rest up now.
Got an appointment tomorrow morning at 11 am. I'm going to rest up now.
November 12, 2025 at 1:19 PM
I'm back home, and I'm absolutely exhausted and done.
Got an appointment tomorrow morning at 11 am. I'm going to rest up now.
Got an appointment tomorrow morning at 11 am. I'm going to rest up now.
Erm... I suddenly find myself having a cappuccino in Starbucks 🤯
I can't remember the last time I went out for coffee!
My appointment didn't take long. My next appointment is in 1 hour and 20 min. Starbucks is in our big shopping centre almost halfway between the bandagist and the health clinic.
I can't remember the last time I went out for coffee!
My appointment didn't take long. My next appointment is in 1 hour and 20 min. Starbucks is in our big shopping centre almost halfway between the bandagist and the health clinic.
November 12, 2025 at 10:40 AM
Erm... I suddenly find myself having a cappuccino in Starbucks 🤯
I can't remember the last time I went out for coffee!
My appointment didn't take long. My next appointment is in 1 hour and 20 min. Starbucks is in our big shopping centre almost halfway between the bandagist and the health clinic.
I can't remember the last time I went out for coffee!
My appointment didn't take long. My next appointment is in 1 hour and 20 min. Starbucks is in our big shopping centre almost halfway between the bandagist and the health clinic.
At the bandagist to get measured for compression socks.
Hopefully, the process will go smoothly, and I'll get them soon because the road to get this far has been very bumpy.
Later, I'm going to get new compression bandages on.
Long day.
#chronicillness #chronicpain #spoonielife
Hopefully, the process will go smoothly, and I'll get them soon because the road to get this far has been very bumpy.
Later, I'm going to get new compression bandages on.
Long day.
#chronicillness #chronicpain #spoonielife
November 12, 2025 at 9:48 AM
At the bandagist to get measured for compression socks.
Hopefully, the process will go smoothly, and I'll get them soon because the road to get this far has been very bumpy.
Later, I'm going to get new compression bandages on.
Long day.
#chronicillness #chronicpain #spoonielife
Hopefully, the process will go smoothly, and I'll get them soon because the road to get this far has been very bumpy.
Later, I'm going to get new compression bandages on.
Long day.
#chronicillness #chronicpain #spoonielife
Had to go downstairs and check. She was asleep and not d**d, thank God.
But I'm fucking furious and in a shit load of pain now. Had to take all the frozen items she had ordered so it could get in the freezer.
Still got some bags if food etc to sort.
Someone give me patience.
But I'm fucking furious and in a shit load of pain now. Had to take all the frozen items she had ordered so it could get in the freezer.
Still got some bags if food etc to sort.
Someone give me patience.
I'm absolutely livid.
Mum and I shop groceries together once a week and get it all delivered.
Today was a huge delivery and my mum is still fucking sleeping! She knows the delivery is between 10 and 12 CET and guess who's still asleep and who had to deal with the delivery? It arrived 10.05.
🤬🤬🤬🤬
Mum and I shop groceries together once a week and get it all delivered.
Today was a huge delivery and my mum is still fucking sleeping! She knows the delivery is between 10 and 12 CET and guess who's still asleep and who had to deal with the delivery? It arrived 10.05.
🤬🤬🤬🤬
November 11, 2025 at 9:41 AM
Had to go downstairs and check. She was asleep and not d**d, thank God.
But I'm fucking furious and in a shit load of pain now. Had to take all the frozen items she had ordered so it could get in the freezer.
Still got some bags if food etc to sort.
Someone give me patience.
But I'm fucking furious and in a shit load of pain now. Had to take all the frozen items she had ordered so it could get in the freezer.
Still got some bags if food etc to sort.
Someone give me patience.
I'm absolutely livid.
Mum and I shop groceries together once a week and get it all delivered.
Today was a huge delivery and my mum is still fucking sleeping! She knows the delivery is between 10 and 12 CET and guess who's still asleep and who had to deal with the delivery? It arrived 10.05.
🤬🤬🤬🤬
Mum and I shop groceries together once a week and get it all delivered.
Today was a huge delivery and my mum is still fucking sleeping! She knows the delivery is between 10 and 12 CET and guess who's still asleep and who had to deal with the delivery? It arrived 10.05.
🤬🤬🤬🤬
November 11, 2025 at 9:15 AM
I'm absolutely livid.
Mum and I shop groceries together once a week and get it all delivered.
Today was a huge delivery and my mum is still fucking sleeping! She knows the delivery is between 10 and 12 CET and guess who's still asleep and who had to deal with the delivery? It arrived 10.05.
🤬🤬🤬🤬
Mum and I shop groceries together once a week and get it all delivered.
Today was a huge delivery and my mum is still fucking sleeping! She knows the delivery is between 10 and 12 CET and guess who's still asleep and who had to deal with the delivery? It arrived 10.05.
🤬🤬🤬🤬
I've now finished Tiny Bookshop.... and I need a new cosy and calm game to play on my laptop (or iPad).
I'm on GOG Galaxy and Steam.
Any suggestions?
P.s. I've already downloaded Sims4, but for some reason I can't get into it. I get so annoyed playing it.
I'm on GOG Galaxy and Steam.
Any suggestions?
P.s. I've already downloaded Sims4, but for some reason I can't get into it. I get so annoyed playing it.
November 10, 2025 at 8:11 PM
I've now finished Tiny Bookshop.... and I need a new cosy and calm game to play on my laptop (or iPad).
I'm on GOG Galaxy and Steam.
Any suggestions?
P.s. I've already downloaded Sims4, but for some reason I can't get into it. I get so annoyed playing it.
I'm on GOG Galaxy and Steam.
Any suggestions?
P.s. I've already downloaded Sims4, but for some reason I can't get into it. I get so annoyed playing it.
November 10, 2025 at 3:52 PM
Just had a long talk with someone I haven't talk to in ages and damn it, I'm sad.
She knows I'm sick and have been unwell for a long time, and she asked me about all the things I've been going through the last 3-4 months.
Must admit it was difficult to talk about bc I've been hiding a lot of it.
She knows I'm sick and have been unwell for a long time, and she asked me about all the things I've been going through the last 3-4 months.
Must admit it was difficult to talk about bc I've been hiding a lot of it.
November 9, 2025 at 6:08 PM
Just had a long talk with someone I haven't talk to in ages and damn it, I'm sad.
She knows I'm sick and have been unwell for a long time, and she asked me about all the things I've been going through the last 3-4 months.
Must admit it was difficult to talk about bc I've been hiding a lot of it.
She knows I'm sick and have been unwell for a long time, and she asked me about all the things I've been going through the last 3-4 months.
Must admit it was difficult to talk about bc I've been hiding a lot of it.
Made an apple crumble in the air fryer, so now I'll make some coffee, have some crumble, and watch a Disney movie.
November 9, 2025 at 2:09 PM
Made an apple crumble in the air fryer, so now I'll make some coffee, have some crumble, and watch a Disney movie.
FFS... my blood pressure is going nuts (I had to stop taking one of the blood pressure meds I've been on for years bc of legcramps), and now my mum is totally freaking out.
I don't know why it is so high now, but I can't deal with her worrying and nagging. All the questions.
#rant
I don't know why it is so high now, but I can't deal with her worrying and nagging. All the questions.
#rant
a little girl is sitting on a couch and making a funny face while talking .
Alt: a little girl is sitting on a couch and making a funny face while talking .
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November 9, 2025 at 10:42 AM
FFS... my blood pressure is going nuts (I had to stop taking one of the blood pressure meds I've been on for years bc of legcramps), and now my mum is totally freaking out.
I don't know why it is so high now, but I can't deal with her worrying and nagging. All the questions.
#rant
I don't know why it is so high now, but I can't deal with her worrying and nagging. All the questions.
#rant
I love Babs and Barry! The entire album is gorgeous! #soundsofthe80s
November 8, 2025 at 10:34 PM
I love Babs and Barry! The entire album is gorgeous! #soundsofthe80s
Oh.... that was @pandalesley.bsky.social... right? #soundsofthe80s
November 8, 2025 at 10:15 PM
Oh.... that was @pandalesley.bsky.social... right? #soundsofthe80s
Ohhh... FYC mastermix! #Soundsofthe80s
November 8, 2025 at 9:28 PM
Ohhh... FYC mastermix! #Soundsofthe80s
November 7, 2025 at 8:16 PM
Back home. It only took an hour from when we left til we got back.
It was my fav. taxi driver that picked us up and waited for us while we got the shots. Then he drove us to the library to vote, waited for us there and then drove us back home.
He's a great guy, lots of fun. We always laugh a lot.
It was my fav. taxi driver that picked us up and waited for us while we got the shots. Then he drove us to the library to vote, waited for us there and then drove us back home.
He's a great guy, lots of fun. We always laugh a lot.
Today, I'm going to our vaccination centre to get my flu and Covid shots.
Afterwards, I'm going to my local library to postal vote for the upcoming local election.
Mum is coming too, and I've got to make sure she doesn't get confused, etc.
#chronicillness #chronicpain #mentalload #oldparent
Afterwards, I'm going to my local library to postal vote for the upcoming local election.
Mum is coming too, and I've got to make sure she doesn't get confused, etc.
#chronicillness #chronicpain #mentalload #oldparent
November 7, 2025 at 10:43 AM
Back home. It only took an hour from when we left til we got back.
It was my fav. taxi driver that picked us up and waited for us while we got the shots. Then he drove us to the library to vote, waited for us there and then drove us back home.
He's a great guy, lots of fun. We always laugh a lot.
It was my fav. taxi driver that picked us up and waited for us while we got the shots. Then he drove us to the library to vote, waited for us there and then drove us back home.
He's a great guy, lots of fun. We always laugh a lot.