Helen Bonnick
helenbonnick.bsky.social
Helen Bonnick
@helenbonnick.bsky.social
Founder of Holes in the Wall website. Patron of Capa First Response. Recently retired. Still posting about child to parent violence but expect more random stuff too!
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🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30.
Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
November 17, 2025 at 4:53 PM
Great to listen to Alice here - raising awareness and letting people know there can be change! #CAPVA
Exciting news!

Our very own Alice Lilley, Implementation Lead for the Respect Young People’s Service, was on the Voice of Islam radio last week talking about child and adolescent to parent violence and abuse (CAPVA) - the barriers, causes, risks & impacts that this form of abuse has on families.
November 11, 2025 at 4:01 PM
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“It can feel easier to say nothing than risk an argument about screen time.”

This article offers insight into how smartphones shape young people’s emotions and behaviour — and what helps when setting boundaries.

📖 Read here: capafirstresponse.org/understandin...

#ParentingTeens #DigitalBoundaries
Understanding the Impact of Smartphones on Children and Teens:  A Guide for Parents - Capa First Response
We know that for many children a smartphone is a necessity, so they can communicate with their parents when away from home, use digital travel passes, access
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November 7, 2025 at 11:01 AM
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1 week to go!

Don’t miss our accredited 3-hour CAPVA training — £50, online, interactive, and practical.

🔗 Register now: www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/3-hr-accre...

#CAPVA #CPD #AccreditedTraining #LastChance
3 Hr Accredited Child Against Parent Violence & Aggression (CAPVA) Training
CAPVA Training: Are you a Professional looking to enhance your understanding and awareness of Child Against Parent Violence and Aggression?
www.eventbrite.co.uk
November 5, 2025 at 2:01 PM
A wonderful piece about @rachelcondry.bsky.social who was so instrumental in raising awareness of #CPV from early on and has developed real knowledge and understanding of the issues
November 5, 2025 at 12:39 PM
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Listen on Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/22ulI7h...
or search 'The Capa Podcast' #TheCapaPodcast
These episodes are a helpful listen to ALL parents, not just families experiencing #CAPVA
November 4, 2025 at 11:01 AM
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🫂Parenting through #CAPVA is hard but you don’t have to do it alone. Join our FREE lunchtime drop-ins every Wednesday at 12:30.
Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand. 🔗 Book/more info: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren... #FreeParentSupport #ParentingHelp
November 3, 2025 at 4:53 PM
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It can be hard to talk about what’s happening at home — but support is here when you’re ready.

CAPA First Response offers information, drop-ins, and understanding for families living with CAPVA.

💛 Learn more: capafirstresponse.org/families/

#CAPVA #FamilySupport #ParentingUnderPressure #CAPAFirst
Families - Capa First Response
At Capa First Response CIC, we understand the challenges that come with child-to-parent aggression and harmful behaviours. We know that families often feel
capafirstresponse.org
November 3, 2025 at 11:00 AM
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Calling child-to-parent violence “abuse” can make parents feel ashamed and kids feel labelled — often making it harder to get help.

This article explains why shifting language to describe the behaviour as “family conflict” or “explosive behaviour” can help families feel understood and supported.

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Why we don't like to use 'Abuse' - Capa First Response
Child and adolescent to parent abuse (CAPA) is a serious issue that affects many families, the world over. However, when discussing CAPA, the language we use
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October 31, 2025 at 11:01 AM
Fantastic to hear about GPs in Australia thinking about this issue. #AVITH #CPV #CAPVA
October 31, 2025 at 6:13 PM
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Gave me the confidence to work in a complex area. Really useful resources and approach.”

Our accredited 3-hour CAPVA training helps you identify risk factors, understand family impact, and develop effective strategies.

📅 13th November | £50 | Online training

🔗 Don’t miss out — book today:
3 Hr Accredited Child Against Parent Violence & Aggression (CAPVA) Training
CAPVA Training: Are you a Professional looking to enhance your understanding and awareness of Child Against Parent Violence and Aggression?
www.eventbrite.co.uk
October 29, 2025 at 2:00 PM
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Our October Newsletter is now live. 🎃
⬇️
https://bit.ly/3JkiGdE

This month we covered...
🎃The Labour Party Conference
🎃Black History Month 2025
🎃New Govt. announcement to repeal the presumption of parental involvement
And much more...

Subscribe now: https://bit.ly/4oGAZIL
October 29, 2025 at 11:01 AM
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An exciting start to my morning - finding a proper analysis of the issues involved around #CPV #CAPVA #CPA and a call for a range of responses!
Thank you Community Care!
October 28, 2025 at 7:35 AM
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De-escalation starts with safety and space.

This article shares practical approaches for parents and carers when faced with violence from their child — including how to protect yourself without escalating further.

📖 Read more: capafirstresponse.org/strategies-d...

#CAPVA #ParentSupport #Deescalat
3 Strategies for De-Escalating Violence from Your Child - Capa First Response
Violence in the home can be a distressing and frightening experience for any parent or carer. When children direct aggression toward their parents, it not
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October 27, 2025 at 11:01 AM
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👪 Parenting through #CAPVA is hard — but you don’t have to do it alone.
Join our FREE online drop-in every Wednesday at 12:30 AM.
Ask questions, learn strategies, and connect with others who understand.
🔗 Register: www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-paren...
#ChildToParentViolence #FreeParentSupport
For Parents & Carers
Events for parents and carers who are experiencing 'CAPVA' - Child against parent violence and abuse/aggression
www.eventbrite.co.uk
October 27, 2025 at 6:31 PM
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Wednesday Webcast - Adoption State of the Nation Conversation
I chat to Fiona Wells founder of PATCH and campaigner

#Adoption #YouCanAdopt #NationalAdoptionWeek #AdoptionPodcast
www.podbean.com/eas/pb-wdh7q...
Wednesday Webcast - Adoption State of the Nation Conversation
I speak to Fiona Wells, social worker, #adopter, #adoptee and #adoption reform campaigner about where we are this #NationalAdoptionWeek.  We talk all things adoption, trends, contact, the good and the...
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October 23, 2025 at 6:16 PM
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Last month I met online with a group of UK adoptive dads to talk about the experience of parenting as an adopter.
#CPV #CCVAB #CPVA
We're meeting Mon 27th 8pm. If you're a UK dad want to join email me or DM
al.coates@beaconservices.org
Or you can join us on FB
www.facebook.com/groups/16206...
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October 23, 2025 at 6:28 PM
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Enhance your understanding of CAPVA and improve your practice.

Our tailored training and resources are designed for professionals supporting families dealing with aggression and violence at home.

Learn more here: capafirstresponse.org/professionals/

#CAPVA #ProfessionalDevelopment #ChildToParentV
Professionals - Capa First Response
As more and more families are impacted by a child who uses harmful or aggressive behaviour in the home (often referred to as child to parent violence or abuse
capafirstresponse.org
October 24, 2025 at 10:01 AM
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How talking less can actually help.
Here's a snippet of the latest episode of #TheCapaPodcast Please do listen & share
creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/...
October 20, 2025 at 8:02 AM