Gajep.
Gajep.
@gajep.bsky.social
Normal guy in late forties. Dad bod (but aiming to change that). Single (definitely looking). Shy, good sense of humour and mildly intelligent. Free to a good home. Based in the UK (Chelmsford).
Hi. This is my first post in a month. Not really had anything interesting to write about. Please post a message as it would be lovely to read a message from you. You are probably more interesting than you think.
November 9, 2025 at 7:40 PM
Reposted by Gajep.
The Bruce Forsyth Show (18th September 1966). Roy Castle and Bruce demonstrate their all-round entertainer skills.
September 18, 2025 at 1:11 PM
Hi. all. Hope you are having a good day. I just wanted to reach out to any Bluesky members that live in or around Chelmsford, UK. It would be great to hear from you.
September 17, 2025 at 10:04 PM
Hi, all. Hope things are well with you. Just wanted to reach out to any members on Bluesky who happen to live in or around Chelmsford, UK. It would be great to hear from you.
September 17, 2025 at 9:54 PM
Hoorah - the first sign that working out is actually making a difference. My chest hair is a mixture of colours now though, the consequence of aging.
September 6, 2025 at 6:08 PM
I have to announce, with embarrassment, a set back in my weight loss regime - frankly, I have not lost but gained over the past few days. I am feeling quite low about it.
September 3, 2025 at 9:41 PM
My friend has stated I should post the image of what I want to change about my body. This picture should leave you in no doubt, hopefully it will be different in a few months time (miracles do happen). Alternatively, if you post offering to give money to charity I promise to take it down.
August 8, 2025 at 3:01 PM
Hi. A friend once advised me that you have to have something to drive you to change the way you appear. Posting regular images of your body in a weight-loss process apparently makes success more likely. Well, so far, I have lost half a stone.
August 8, 2025 at 11:41 AM
Anyone got some exciting news?
August 1, 2025 at 10:01 AM
My besties (if you can have the plural) have moved in. One does a perfect fried egg, the other has talents I am only beginning to find out.
July 27, 2025 at 4:42 PM
My healthier-eating regime is making me feel better even if my weight is not getting any less. A big thank you to those who have been following me. 76 people may not be a large number but it does feel great to be an average-guy with that many people choosing to share. You're much appreciated.
July 25, 2025 at 8:33 AM
I've just had a coffee in Pret. An elderly lady parked her shopping trolley and meticulously cleaned by herself a double table nearby. It was spotless. Then her husband appeared with the coffees and promptly sat down somewhere else and she moved to sit with him.
July 23, 2025 at 10:32 AM
Shopped at Tesco and as often happens the machine did not accept my scanned ClubCard. Still, I should appreciate that, "Every Little Helps" Tesco to make more profit for the Shareholders and Directors who do so little for so much. Capitalism - a charity for the wealthy paid for by the poor.
July 22, 2025 at 6:43 PM
I will now always weigh myself whilst wearing my glasses. This morning, without them on, I thought I had gained an entire stone overnight. It is a wonder that medical treatment was not required to deal with the shock. Please do not make this mistake yourselves. Learn from this idiot.
July 22, 2025 at 4:08 PM
I think I have established why my weight-loss is quite difficult to achieve. I am very partial to a nice slice of cake with a coffee. Would it be impertinent to ask what other people's weight-loss obstacles are?
July 19, 2025 at 5:53 PM
If only weight-loss was as rapid as losing followers on BSky.
July 19, 2025 at 1:18 PM
The weight-loss regime is bringing about mild results. Gaining weight is always easier than losing it - one of the great trials of life. Hoping to have the Beach-Body ready by next summer. Hope you all have a nice weekend.
July 19, 2025 at 7:35 AM
( Part Two ).

Over the past year I have lost more than a stone slowly. By posting images I hope to shift it faster. 12 days ago I posted my first snap and I have lost 3 lbs since. Not fast but it is at least a start.
July 12, 2025 at 5:11 PM
( Part One ).

Dear Friends. I am hardly a Voyeur and so the reason for posting images is not for any specific kink. For many years I have struggled with my weight; currently 5' 10'' tall and more than 14 stone with little sign of the weight shifting fast.
July 12, 2025 at 5:09 PM
Heatwave has made my white skin pink.
July 12, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Someone who stands up for human rights in a professional capacity has denied my right to refute his criticism of my viewpoint by blocking me on BSky. I happen to work for an organisation that might have employed his firm for legal assistance. 😂.
July 6, 2025 at 7:13 PM
Just trying an experiment. If successful, I will post the findings.
July 5, 2025 at 12:16 PM
Another concert attended this evening. Given by London Concertante. Well recommended.

Mozart – Marriage of Figaro Overture
Vaughan Williams – The Lark Ascending
Astor Piazzolla - Histoire du Tango
Vivaldi – The Four Seasons
July 4, 2025 at 9:00 PM
Been to another concert. Always nice to hear WAM's Allegro from Eine Kleine Nachtmusik. Never knew until today about a children's song composer called Jan Holdstock. One of her songs had the wtte : "If you want to paint a picture of everyone, you'll need every colour under the sun".
July 4, 2025 at 1:04 PM
Spent some time sitting in the sun on my balcony. Pink tan lines were the result. I had avoided posting a picture as the Dad Bod needed addressing. I let myself go during Lock-Down and never really did anything about it. Now's probably the time to do something.
June 29, 2025 at 6:48 PM