V
@feelinggrimm.bsky.social
Part time goth💀, full time cat mom🐈
Scorpio🦂♏
Pokénerd/FFXIV🎮
MCRmy⚰🖤
Keeping RVA weird 🥀⚰🖤
Scorpio🦂♏
Pokénerd/FFXIV🎮
MCRmy⚰🖤
Keeping RVA weird 🥀⚰🖤
You know you really try so hard not to date people like your father and here I am married to a tall bearded individual who also loves video games, toys, painting tiny models, and whose holiday drink is also eggnog and dark liquor. At least I didn't end up with my dad's personality I guess 🤷♀️
November 18, 2025 at 3:58 PM
You know you really try so hard not to date people like your father and here I am married to a tall bearded individual who also loves video games, toys, painting tiny models, and whose holiday drink is also eggnog and dark liquor. At least I didn't end up with my dad's personality I guess 🤷♀️
I do work from home and most days I probably could just work in my pajamas but I usually try to put on some regular clothes to make myself feel more "at work" but a Monday when I'm sick and it's 50 degrees outside? Nah I'm working from my PJs and blankie.
November 17, 2025 at 6:56 PM
I do work from home and most days I probably could just work in my pajamas but I usually try to put on some regular clothes to make myself feel more "at work" but a Monday when I'm sick and it's 50 degrees outside? Nah I'm working from my PJs and blankie.
This year was supposed to be *MY* year after our wedding in January and we had a good few months but then it went into the shit spiral that I'm still drowning in now. I just hope 2026 will be better.
November 17, 2025 at 2:49 PM
This year was supposed to be *MY* year after our wedding in January and we had a good few months but then it went into the shit spiral that I'm still drowning in now. I just hope 2026 will be better.
A coworker told me she was shocked I was back at work so soon after my father died and that she would be out at least a month if it happened to her and I'm just like well this company only gives us 5 days of bereavement leave or I wouldn't be back yet at all. Fucking capitalism strikes again.
November 15, 2025 at 12:01 AM
A coworker told me she was shocked I was back at work so soon after my father died and that she would be out at least a month if it happened to her and I'm just like well this company only gives us 5 days of bereavement leave or I wouldn't be back yet at all. Fucking capitalism strikes again.
Today would've been my dad's 70th birthday and my sister and I took off work to be with my mom, walked into the house to these birthday candles on his cremains along with a book a family friend intended to gift him. Nobody does morbid celebration like my family!
November 13, 2025 at 2:32 AM
Today would've been my dad's 70th birthday and my sister and I took off work to be with my mom, walked into the house to these birthday candles on his cremains along with a book a family friend intended to gift him. Nobody does morbid celebration like my family!
The irony of working for a company that makes a huge post about claiming to be proud to support, service, and employ veterans but they won't close 1 extra day a year for the Veteran's Day holiday lol
November 11, 2025 at 6:49 PM
The irony of working for a company that makes a huge post about claiming to be proud to support, service, and employ veterans but they won't close 1 extra day a year for the Veteran's Day holiday lol
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Woke up with such a headache today and the coffee my husband made smells like lovely cinnamon buns but tastes awful to me (I generally don't like cinnamon in coffee) which does not help my headache.
November 11, 2025 at 2:58 PM
Woke up with such a headache today and the coffee my husband made smells like lovely cinnamon buns but tastes awful to me (I generally don't like cinnamon in coffee) which does not help my headache.
Really regret showing up for certain people in my life who can't be bothered to return the favor when it's my turn. I have been going above and beyond for so many years for people and I've really got to stop it because I keep getting hurt when they give me nothing in return.
November 10, 2025 at 3:03 PM
Really regret showing up for certain people in my life who can't be bothered to return the favor when it's my turn. I have been going above and beyond for so many years for people and I've really got to stop it because I keep getting hurt when they give me nothing in return.
Absolutely fuming after having the worst time at my MIL'S house where everyone was so self absorbed that nobody even bothered to ask how I was doing after my father fucking died a week ago. I went to 3 separate events for her brother's death last year and this is what I get in return.
November 9, 2025 at 10:29 PM
Absolutely fuming after having the worst time at my MIL'S house where everyone was so self absorbed that nobody even bothered to ask how I was doing after my father fucking died a week ago. I went to 3 separate events for her brother's death last year and this is what I get in return.
Irony not lost in me: My Oma Perez and my father always were against each other, she an immigrant democrat, he a "good ole boy" republican. They constantly fought and he always talked shit about her. They died a week apart in the same month (different years) and will be cemetery neighbors.
November 8, 2025 at 5:16 PM
Irony not lost in me: My Oma Perez and my father always were against each other, she an immigrant democrat, he a "good ole boy" republican. They constantly fought and he always talked shit about her. They died a week apart in the same month (different years) and will be cemetery neighbors.
If people can believe in a god that sends them signs then I can believe my dying father sent me this full art Altaria Pokémon TCGP card that I opened from a random pack in his hospital room. My dad was the one who gave me my first Pokémon game and gameboy when it came out in the 90's.
November 8, 2025 at 4:37 PM
If people can believe in a god that sends them signs then I can believe my dying father sent me this full art Altaria Pokémon TCGP card that I opened from a random pack in his hospital room. My dad was the one who gave me my first Pokémon game and gameboy when it came out in the 90's.
Post you from a different era
I feel like I know her but sometimes my arms bend back
I feel like I know her but sometimes my arms bend back
November 8, 2025 at 2:26 AM
Post you from a different era
I feel like I know her but sometimes my arms bend back
I feel like I know her but sometimes my arms bend back
Literally broke a sweat swapping out my Halloween vs Christmas clothes on my out-of-closet wardrobe rack, that's how many Halloween and Christmas themed clothes I have.
November 7, 2025 at 7:59 PM
Literally broke a sweat swapping out my Halloween vs Christmas clothes on my out-of-closet wardrobe rack, that's how many Halloween and Christmas themed clothes I have.
Going through complicated grieving feelings over the loss of your estranged father while your new tattoo is in the itchy peeling stage is an especially exhausting combined overstimulation hell
November 7, 2025 at 3:42 PM
Going through complicated grieving feelings over the loss of your estranged father while your new tattoo is in the itchy peeling stage is an especially exhausting combined overstimulation hell
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Grief is so exhausting
November 6, 2025 at 12:57 AM
Grief is so exhausting
Thank god this state went blue, they really inadvertently popped off with the "Abagail Spanberger is for they/them" campaign and we said "yes, and?"
November 5, 2025 at 1:14 PM
Thank god this state went blue, they really inadvertently popped off with the "Abagail Spanberger is for they/them" campaign and we said "yes, and?"
My father passed away last night. It feels surreal after years of waiting for this to happen. He had been unwell and suffering for years now and put us all through a lot. He was a difficult man. Having a lot of overwhelming feelings and of course I had a dream about him last night too.
November 3, 2025 at 1:46 PM
My father passed away last night. It feels surreal after years of waiting for this to happen. He had been unwell and suffering for years now and put us all through a lot. He was a difficult man. Having a lot of overwhelming feelings and of course I had a dream about him last night too.
Really wish I could be more stone cold bitch mode about my father dying because he did terrorize me, my sister, and my mom much of his parental/married life but unfortunately I have so much empathy and overloaded emotions that I still keep crying every time I'm left alone!
November 3, 2025 at 1:42 AM
Really wish I could be more stone cold bitch mode about my father dying because he did terrorize me, my sister, and my mom much of his parental/married life but unfortunately I have so much empathy and overloaded emotions that I still keep crying every time I'm left alone!
Me trying to enjoy Halloween plans despite what I have going on personally
November 2, 2025 at 3:32 PM
Me trying to enjoy Halloween plans despite what I have going on personally
Despite having a pretty traumatic day I still managed to slay as Miss Piggy (with Kermit) for Halloween tonight 🐷🐸 Happy Halloween! 🎃👻🦇
November 1, 2025 at 4:48 AM
Despite having a pretty traumatic day I still managed to slay as Miss Piggy (with Kermit) for Halloween tonight 🐷🐸 Happy Halloween! 🎃👻🦇
Being already at a cemetery when you get the call your dad may be dying this weekend feels like the kind of morbid event that only my spooky scorpio ass will go through.
October 31, 2025 at 5:18 PM
Being already at a cemetery when you get the call your dad may be dying this weekend feels like the kind of morbid event that only my spooky scorpio ass will go through.
Bless a local coffee shop open past 5pm ☕️
October 30, 2025 at 10:08 PM
Bless a local coffee shop open past 5pm ☕️
Truly had one of the best (and spookiest!) birthday weekends of my life this year, so grateful for my husband and the friends who made it so incredible! 🥰💜🎂 And I still have Halloween to look forward to! 🎃🦇👻
October 29, 2025 at 5:14 PM
Truly had one of the best (and spookiest!) birthday weekends of my life this year, so grateful for my husband and the friends who made it so incredible! 🥰💜🎂 And I still have Halloween to look forward to! 🎃🦇👻