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Eve Louise Fell
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I’m a splatter punk/horror writer from KY who loves writing and reviewing books
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November 30, 2024 at 8:53 PM
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November 20, 2024 at 6:32 PM
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November 19, 2024 at 12:06 AM
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Here's a psychological abuse tactic described by Shahida Arabi: "Deliberately misrepresenting your thoughts and feelings to the point of absurdity." Mind-reading. Putting words in your mouth.

Trolls and other abusers LOVE doing this. They cloak hostility and verbal abuse in sarcasm and absurdity. 📌
From the article "20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You": "Deliberately misrepresenting your thoughts and feelings to the point of absurdity." "In the hands of a malignant narcissist or sociopath, your differing opinions, legitimate emotions and lived experiences get translated into character flaws and evidence of your irrationality." From the article: Narcissists weave tall tales to reframe what you’re actually saying as a way to make your opinions look absurd or heinous. Let’s say you bring up the fact that you’re unhappy with the way a toxic friend is speaking to you. In response, he or she may put words in your mouth, saying, “Oh, so now you’re perfect?” or “So I am a bad person, huh?” when you’ve done nothing but express your feelings. This enables them to invalidate your right to have thoughts and emotions about their inappropriate behavior and instills in you a sense of guilt when you attempt to establish boundaries. From the article: This is also a popular form of diversion and cognitive distortion that is known as “mind reading.” Toxic people often presume they know what you’re thinking and feeling. They chronically jump to conclusions based on their own triggers rather than stepping back to evaluate the situation mindfully. They act accordingly based on their own delusions and fallacies and make no apologies for the harm they cause as a result. Notorious for putting words in your mouth, they depict you as having an intention or outlandish viewpoint you didn’t possess. They accuse you of thinking of them as toxic – even before you’ve gotten the chance to call them out on their behavior – and this also serves as a form of preemptive defense.
October 27, 2024 at 7:15 PM
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My newest book Daisy’s Dark Nursery is out now on Godless and Amazon L!nk below 💜🪴🔪
November 18, 2024 at 1:53 AM
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November 18, 2024 at 1:51 AM