Títílọlá
@donettesaid.bsky.social
(she/they). clinical herbalist. spiritualist. kansas born leo sun with roots in the water. wellness and woo, to be expected.
big mama: honeybalm health and black herbalists collective
big mama: honeybalm health and black herbalists collective
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I’m not a “your feelings are valid” friend cuz sometimes your feelings are not valid lol.
They are always real. However u feel in that moment is real, but if they’re not valid I won’t be the one to help you validate them.
“Your feelings are valid” is harmful rhetoric to ME. Cuz words mean things.
They are always real. However u feel in that moment is real, but if they’re not valid I won’t be the one to help you validate them.
“Your feelings are valid” is harmful rhetoric to ME. Cuz words mean things.
November 20, 2025 at 8:46 PM
I’m not a “your feelings are valid” friend cuz sometimes your feelings are not valid lol.
They are always real. However u feel in that moment is real, but if they’re not valid I won’t be the one to help you validate them.
“Your feelings are valid” is harmful rhetoric to ME. Cuz words mean things.
They are always real. However u feel in that moment is real, but if they’re not valid I won’t be the one to help you validate them.
“Your feelings are valid” is harmful rhetoric to ME. Cuz words mean things.
i don't owe anyone that, but i like to build here too. so idk mayne, if you really jiggy feel free to dm me sometime.
November 18, 2025 at 2:58 PM
i don't owe anyone that, but i like to build here too. so idk mayne, if you really jiggy feel free to dm me sometime.
i have literally met some of my favorite people online, but i grow increasingly exhausted with trying to show up online. i haven't remedied that, but just laying some bricks down for an understanding of my lack of consistency.
November 18, 2025 at 2:57 PM
i have literally met some of my favorite people online, but i grow increasingly exhausted with trying to show up online. i haven't remedied that, but just laying some bricks down for an understanding of my lack of consistency.
this year i focused a lot of building community local to me and i'm happy to say i've done plenty of that and it is still a wip. as i continue to unpack what community means to me (and other words i can use as i grow fatigue with this one), i realize that i desire deep intention, even from online.
November 18, 2025 at 2:57 PM
this year i focused a lot of building community local to me and i'm happy to say i've done plenty of that and it is still a wip. as i continue to unpack what community means to me (and other words i can use as i grow fatigue with this one), i realize that i desire deep intention, even from online.
*walks in* this thing on?
November 18, 2025 at 2:54 PM
*walks in* this thing on?
teaching a VIRTUAL class tomorrow on PCOS that will cover:
what PCOS is
multi system patterns often overlooked in conventional care
natural and herbal supports for cycle regulation, blood sugar balance, and inflammation
and more!
sign up: calendly.com/honeybalmhea...
what PCOS is
multi system patterns often overlooked in conventional care
natural and herbal supports for cycle regulation, blood sugar balance, and inflammation
and more!
sign up: calendly.com/honeybalmhea...
Connecting the Dots: Navigating PCOS - Honeybalm Health
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August 4, 2025 at 2:31 PM
teaching a VIRTUAL class tomorrow on PCOS that will cover:
what PCOS is
multi system patterns often overlooked in conventional care
natural and herbal supports for cycle regulation, blood sugar balance, and inflammation
and more!
sign up: calendly.com/honeybalmhea...
what PCOS is
multi system patterns often overlooked in conventional care
natural and herbal supports for cycle regulation, blood sugar balance, and inflammation
and more!
sign up: calendly.com/honeybalmhea...
i just wanna spread my seed with fine ass people.
July 12, 2025 at 9:25 PM
i just wanna spread my seed with fine ass people.
i want joey badass to have my babies. and raise em.
July 12, 2025 at 9:25 PM
i want joey badass to have my babies. and raise em.
wellness check. i been outside more and online less but im 'round.
June 13, 2025 at 3:21 PM
wellness check. i been outside more and online less but im 'round.
figured out that chocolate is breaking me out in hives. an immune system reaction vs an actual allergy HOWEVER i am distraught regardless.
May 27, 2025 at 11:43 AM
figured out that chocolate is breaking me out in hives. an immune system reaction vs an actual allergy HOWEVER i am distraught regardless.
today ive seen a valedictorian que with a phi beta kappa stole on. i am speechless.
May 18, 2025 at 3:02 PM
today ive seen a valedictorian que with a phi beta kappa stole on. i am speechless.
one of the things i hope people say when im gone is that she loved the plants and they love her. new post on the plant that made me say stfu with my chest: open.substack.com/pub/theblack...
May 13, 2025 at 5:11 PM
one of the things i hope people say when im gone is that she loved the plants and they love her. new post on the plant that made me say stfu with my chest: open.substack.com/pub/theblack...
shokupan is everything she thinks she is.
May 11, 2025 at 6:13 PM
shokupan is everything she thinks she is.
part something in my Substack class is live! this time, i'm sharing my thinking around epigenetic trauma and detox culture. open.substack.com/pub/theblack...
May 7, 2025 at 8:58 PM
part something in my Substack class is live! this time, i'm sharing my thinking around epigenetic trauma and detox culture. open.substack.com/pub/theblack...
i'm still on stuck on runway being paid. that used to be totally free content. i'm sick. and i wonder how that move affected the brands.
May 7, 2025 at 3:51 PM
i'm still on stuck on runway being paid. that used to be totally free content. i'm sick. and i wonder how that move affected the brands.
ok so fun fact, i used to work in fashion. i was a stylist assistant for rihanna's stylist. then i worked at a conde nast publication called details. then i went on to become a fashion publicist at naeem khan and hugo boss. this is context for me saying i've my way back around.
May 7, 2025 at 3:26 PM
ok so fun fact, i used to work in fashion. i was a stylist assistant for rihanna's stylist. then i worked at a conde nast publication called details. then i went on to become a fashion publicist at naeem khan and hugo boss. this is context for me saying i've my way back around.
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Overextending yourself does NOT make people appreciate you more.
May 4, 2025 at 8:00 PM
Overextending yourself does NOT make people appreciate you more.
formulated a tincture for drop. very excited for the s types in my house to try it.
May 2, 2025 at 5:36 PM
formulated a tincture for drop. very excited for the s types in my house to try it.
i'm curious about this, ya'll tell me: there is a deep community interest in herbalism and natural medicine. but a resistance to seeing an herbalist. where's the disconnect?
May 2, 2025 at 3:26 PM
i'm curious about this, ya'll tell me: there is a deep community interest in herbalism and natural medicine. but a resistance to seeing an herbalist. where's the disconnect?
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if youre in the triangle, join us 🌱❤️
April 28, 2025 at 10:15 PM
if youre in the triangle, join us 🌱❤️
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The journey started in my backyard. 04.28.25. Grape Hyacinths, Dandelions, & Violets. Inspired by @blackherbalists.bsky.social @evasha.bsky.social @donettesaid.bsky.social
April 29, 2025 at 8:08 PM
The journey started in my backyard. 04.28.25. Grape Hyacinths, Dandelions, & Violets. Inspired by @blackherbalists.bsky.social @evasha.bsky.social @donettesaid.bsky.social
if youre in the triangle, join us 🌱❤️
April 28, 2025 at 10:15 PM
if youre in the triangle, join us 🌱❤️
love me bad or not at all.
April 24, 2025 at 11:53 PM
love me bad or not at all.
i just finished writing the class for Black Herbalists Collective Opening Ceremony! 70 people have RSVPd so far, i’m hype if you can’t tell.
ICYMI, there is a free community class on Black herbalism and dandelion medicine. Those in attendance will learn:
ICYMI, there is a free community class on Black herbalism and dandelion medicine. Those in attendance will learn:
April 20, 2025 at 8:01 PM
i just finished writing the class for Black Herbalists Collective Opening Ceremony! 70 people have RSVPd so far, i’m hype if you can’t tell.
ICYMI, there is a free community class on Black herbalism and dandelion medicine. Those in attendance will learn:
ICYMI, there is a free community class on Black herbalism and dandelion medicine. Those in attendance will learn:
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“Red white and fucked” is insane I gotta read off the strenf 😭😭😭
America’s not broken. It’s being dismantled. Piece by piece. Lie by lie. Law by law.
‘Red, White, and F*cked’ is your warning siren.
This is your sneak peek.
It’s raw. It’s real. And it’s coming.
Stay tuned. Preorders open soon.
Written by ME.
‘Red, White, and F*cked’ is your warning siren.
This is your sneak peek.
It’s raw. It’s real. And it’s coming.
Stay tuned. Preorders open soon.
Written by ME.
April 20, 2025 at 7:45 PM
“Red white and fucked” is insane I gotta read off the strenf 😭😭😭