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Fred Rossi
@darthfoo.bsky.social
My passions: Lightsabers, tech, books, comics, graphic novels, and the sweet sound of a Penguins goal horn. 🚨 My not-so-secret villain: #LongCovid #MECFS. Still here, still nerdy! #LetsGoPens

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A quote from my new piece, “Those Who Were Already Here.” About my gratitude to the Myalgic encephalomyelitis/chronic fatigue syndrome (ME/CFS). #MECFS #LongCOVID #ChronicIllness

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December 28, 2025 at 5:22 PM
A quote from my recent piece about my gratitude to the Myalgic encephalomyelitis/chronic fatigue syndrome (ME/CFS) community, Those Who Were Already Here. Please check it out and let me know your thoughts. #LongCovid #MECFS
December 26, 2025 at 2:31 PM
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My #SevereME Christmas

* All day mostly alone
* No TV, music or twinkly lights due to extreme sensory sensitivities
* I won’t be able to see anyone except my husband (also my caregiver) as I don’t have enough energy to interact with them. We’ll mostly sign for the things I need …
December 25, 2025 at 1:51 PM
A quote from my new piece, Those Who Were Already Here. Words can’t begin to express my gratitude to members of the ME/CFS community.

“The people who live with #MECFS did not greet #LongCOVID with surprise. They greeted it with recognition.”

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Those Who Were Already Here
Learning to Live Inside a History I Did Not Choose
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December 24, 2025 at 4:53 PM
A quote from my recent piece, “The Holiday Tax.” #LongCovid #MECFS #ChronicIllness #Holidays #Disablility

“The guilt compounds like the PEM itself. Every invitation I decline, every gathering I miss, every moment I can’t be present for feels like I’m failing the people who matter most.”
December 22, 2025 at 2:26 PM
December 22, 2025 at 3:04 AM
Finished my shift at 5pm. Should’ve been home by 6pm.

Instead, I sat in my car in the parking lot for 90 minutes because the migraine hit hard enough that driving wasn’t an option. Light sensitivity, vision blurred to hell, dizzy enough that operating a vehicle would’ve been criminally stupid.
December 18, 2025 at 12:21 AM
Here’s a quote from my new piece, The Holiday Tax.

“Here’s the thing about the holiday season when you have PEM: it’s not just one event. It’s weeks of compounding demands. Thanksgiving wasn’t an isolated cost. It’s still being paid. Christmas won’t be either. And then there’s New Year’s.”
December 17, 2025 at 12:17 AM
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"Some may be navigating how to ask for precautions from reluctant family members in order to attend holiday gatherings, while some may be experiencing dread around turning down invitations to events they're not comfortable attending."

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Navigating Holidays While COVID Conscious
Phrases for the COVID conscious community to use when navigating precautions for holiday gatherings
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December 9, 2025 at 3:26 AM
The math: 8 hours of work yesterday = today I can’t stay upright long enough to eat the bagel I just made. #LongCovid #MECFS #PEM

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Why I Can’t Just Meet You for Dinner
The Reality of Post-Exertional Malaise
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December 8, 2025 at 3:52 PM
“Healthy people optimize their lives through addition: more experiences, more connections, more accomplishments. I’m optimizing through subtraction. And the clarity that comes from extreme constraint is something I never expected to value.” #LongCovid #MECFS
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The Small Life
Calculating Worth with Diminished Returns
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December 7, 2025 at 1:10 AM
I’m excited to share my latest work, “The Small Life.” It explores the little things that still bring me joy as I navigate #LongCovid and #MECFS. #ChronicIllness

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The Small Life
Calculating Worth with Diminished Returns
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December 1, 2025 at 9:28 PM
Massive win by the @penguinsnhl.bsky.social tonight!!
November 29, 2025 at 2:57 AM
I’ve been working on a new piece, here’s a quote:

“People talk about #disability like it is a single moment. One day you are fine, the next you are not. But in reality it is more like a shoreline that slowly breaks apart. A gradual unmaking instead of a sudden collapse.” #PEM #LongCovid #MECFS
November 28, 2025 at 9:42 PM
Just finished an 8-hour shift. Traveling to family for the holiday tomorrow, 3-hours round trip, we’ll be gone all day. That leaves me only 2 days to recover for my 8-hour shift on Sunday. My #PEMCrash will worsen next week. 🤦‍♂️ #PEM #LongCovid #MECFS
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Why I Can’t Just Meet You for Dinner
The Reality of Post-Exertional Malaise
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November 27, 2025 at 12:06 AM
I wrote recently about my experience with post-exertional malaise #PEM. Last year, I tried graded exercise therapy and it put me into a #PEMCrash that lasted for months. The physical therapist that “has worked with many #LongCovid #MECFS patients” had this mindset.

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November 24, 2025 at 11:30 PM
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The majority of Long COVID research investigating exercise benefits completely ignores post-exertional malaise (PEM) - one of the core symptoms of #LongCOVID.

An analysis by @thesicktimes.org showed that less than 20% of Long COVID trials involving exercise even mention PEM.
November 24, 2025 at 10:12 PM
Back from work after an 8-hour shift! I’ll be resting on my back until I start another 8-hour shift on Wednesday. This is what life looks like with #LongCovid & #MECFS. Sending lots of good thoughts to everyone dealing with this tough illness. Fingers crossed for brighter days ahead for all of us!
November 23, 2025 at 11:50 PM
Here’s a quote from my piece, Why I Can’t Just Meet You for Dinner, about post-exertional malaise. This is after work while I’m in the middle of a PEM crash. #PEM #MECFS #LongCovid #ChronicIllness #Disabled

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November 17, 2025 at 3:59 AM
It’s refreshing to be part of a party that can stand up for their principles. 🤦‍♂️ #Democrats
November 10, 2025 at 5:54 AM
My recent piece on the impact of post-exertional malaise. #PEM #LongCovid #MECFS #Disability #ChronicIllness

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Why I Can’t Just Meet You for Dinner
The Reality of Post-Exertional Malaise
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November 7, 2025 at 7:04 PM
I’m curious, are you feeling the same frustration with the ongoing #YouTubeTV, #Disney, and #ESPN carriage disputes? And who do you think is the most at fault?
November 1, 2025 at 4:18 PM
My recent piece about celebrating milestone anniversaries with #LongCovid and #MECFS. If you check it out, I’d love to know your thoughts.

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The Anniversary Tax
When Celebration Costs More Than You Can Afford
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October 28, 2025 at 10:40 PM
“While employers debate return-to-office mandates and hybrid schedules, an entire workforce is quietly disappearing. Not quitting for better opportunities. Not retiring early by choice. Leaving because their bodies can no longer meet the basic assumptions of employment.”
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When Showing Up Is Not Enough
Why Employers Must Learn the Economics of Chronic Illness
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October 27, 2025 at 7:57 PM