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Loves hub, music, laughing, movies, TV, cleaning, household tips, intelligent takes, & this & that. You can learn from everyone on how to be or not to me. Unlearn learned silly beliefs.
Good Morning! 🫵🏾👊🏾 Update: Loved one's husband was not happy with her hospital care & had her transferred to a hospital in Philadelphia on Wednesday. Well, yesterday we all were sent a video showing she opened her eyes for a good period of time. 😭 Keep praying. 🙏🏿
November 14, 2025 at 10:57 AM
Good Morning! 🫵🏾👊🏾 Update: Loved one's husband was not happy with her hospital care & had her transferred to a hospital in Philadelphia on Wednesday. Well, yesterday we all were sent a video showing she opened her eyes for a good period of time. 😭 Keep praying. 🙏🏿
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You know what I love about nature, it’ll always give you something if you’re paying attention. There is a lemon bush, lol tree kinda that grows at a park near me. And no one ever picks the lemons. This is peak season for them to ripen, so once they’re all set I’m getting me as many as I can carry.
November 13, 2025 at 9:37 PM
You know what I love about nature, it’ll always give you something if you’re paying attention. There is a lemon bush, lol tree kinda that grows at a park near me. And no one ever picks the lemons. This is peak season for them to ripen, so once they’re all set I’m getting me as many as I can carry.
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I hope we get some Vanessa & Joey and Bill & Hayley (with her bra poison) today.
Ted is on my nerves.
Kat is on my nerves.
Eva is on my nerves.
Dana Leslie is on my nerves.
Ashley is on my nerves.
Derek is teetering on my nerves.
Naomi is on my nerves.
Martin's back on my nerves.
#BeyondTheGates
Ted is on my nerves.
Kat is on my nerves.
Eva is on my nerves.
Dana Leslie is on my nerves.
Ashley is on my nerves.
Derek is teetering on my nerves.
Naomi is on my nerves.
Martin's back on my nerves.
#BeyondTheGates
November 13, 2025 at 6:32 PM
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First time on here today & I see this!!! Yessssssss! 👇🏾👏🏾
November 12, 2025 at 6:06 PM
First time on here today & I see this!!! Yessssssss! 👇🏾👏🏾
The cold chilly winds ain't nothing but a thang. A thang of Fall like always in PA. Feels good, to me. Hi y'all. Strut because you know you're cute. 😁👊🏾👍🏾
November 11, 2025 at 11:35 AM
The cold chilly winds ain't nothing but a thang. A thang of Fall like always in PA. Feels good, to me. Hi y'all. Strut because you know you're cute. 😁👊🏾👍🏾
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Just a quick PSA: word of mouth will forever and always be the best vessel for music discovery. Yes, algorithms can steer you towards music that aligns w/ the taste you've fed it over time, but a human literally saying "you should check this out" offers a superior layer of personalization.
The algorithm failed music
The algorithm failed music
True music discovery has suffered.
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November 10, 2025 at 9:08 PM
Just a quick PSA: word of mouth will forever and always be the best vessel for music discovery. Yes, algorithms can steer you towards music that aligns w/ the taste you've fed it over time, but a human literally saying "you should check this out" offers a superior layer of personalization.
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November 11, 2025 at 12:00 AM
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November 10, 2025 at 11:20 PM
We just started the new season of #ReasonableDoubt - - I can't say how much I'll post about it but when I do, I'll be referring to the character Ozzie as Michael Ealy's younger brother looking azz. LOL!
November 10, 2025 at 8:01 PM
We just started the new season of #ReasonableDoubt - - I can't say how much I'll post about it but when I do, I'll be referring to the character Ozzie as Michael Ealy's younger brother looking azz. LOL!
Other examples I unlearned about men, they can wear sandals. They can also wear pink. Silly things I heard growing up. My unlearning is not limited to men but that's the topic I'm on today due to my husband crying.
November 10, 2025 at 7:51 PM
Other examples I unlearned about men, they can wear sandals. They can also wear pink. Silly things I heard growing up. My unlearning is not limited to men but that's the topic I'm on today due to my husband crying.
It is my view to keep unlearning things. Example, men crying. I grew up hearing men don't cry. I don't believe that nonsense anymore. My husband cried heavily over loved one being ill. It brought back memories of his Mom & Dad being ill before they passed.
November 10, 2025 at 7:48 PM
It is my view to keep unlearning things. Example, men crying. I grew up hearing men don't cry. I don't believe that nonsense anymore. My husband cried heavily over loved one being ill. It brought back memories of his Mom & Dad being ill before they passed.
Good Morning 👊🏿 Have a great week y'all. Keep pushin' on. The bat signal is used to summon Batman, however, I say it to summon good vibes too. Please keep praying for our loved one. 🙏🏿
November 10, 2025 at 10:46 AM
Good Morning 👊🏿 Have a great week y'all. Keep pushin' on. The bat signal is used to summon Batman, however, I say it to summon good vibes too. Please keep praying for our loved one. 🙏🏿
I want to say this louder than I have been saying it having seen what a loved one is going through in the hospital -- You can have great health insurance but a big part of pie is staying on top of doctors/nurses. Keep on them to explain what's going on & make sure nurses are caring. I got stories.
November 9, 2025 at 12:59 PM
I want to say this louder than I have been saying it having seen what a loved one is going through in the hospital -- You can have great health insurance but a big part of pie is staying on top of doctors/nurses. Keep on them to explain what's going on & make sure nurses are caring. I got stories.
Netflix House will be open on Tuesday. First, I need outsiders to know the area it's located in is not Philly. I wish they'd stop misleading people. It's the burbs. Second, crime has risen in this affluent area around the mall. It didn't used to be that way.
November 9, 2025 at 12:53 PM
Netflix House will be open on Tuesday. First, I need outsiders to know the area it's located in is not Philly. I wish they'd stop misleading people. It's the burbs. Second, crime has risen in this affluent area around the mall. It didn't used to be that way.
Turn the music up. It's a must. 🎶🎶🎶
November 6, 2025 at 10:40 AM
Turn the music up. It's a must. 🎶🎶🎶
I would agree w/those who say you can't stop living if this or that is happening. But, when we talk to our circle, some have not taken flights this year like us for fear of airlines not being properly staffed. I can see a world where something happens & someone says welp, we told y'all.
November 6, 2025 at 10:39 AM
I would agree w/those who say you can't stop living if this or that is happening. But, when we talk to our circle, some have not taken flights this year like us for fear of airlines not being properly staffed. I can see a world where something happens & someone says welp, we told y'all.
Good Morning! 🤗👊🏿 With all that's been going on, I can't deny I'm nervous about a relative's daughter taking a flight to Florida this morning. She has a soccer tournament there. That's precious cargo. 💘 Peace to y'all & have a fab day. 🖐🏾
November 6, 2025 at 10:34 AM
Good Morning! 🤗👊🏿 With all that's been going on, I can't deny I'm nervous about a relative's daughter taking a flight to Florida this morning. She has a soccer tournament there. That's precious cargo. 💘 Peace to y'all & have a fab day. 🖐🏾
Charles Oakley is doing a lot of talking on The Art Of Dialogue. It's a guess but I think he revels in the fact people know he doesn't take no sh*t & will lay hands on you if need be. But, where are the stories of the men who didn't give a F about his rep & tried to lay hands on him? 😁
November 5, 2025 at 11:10 PM
Charles Oakley is doing a lot of talking on The Art Of Dialogue. It's a guess but I think he revels in the fact people know he doesn't take no sh*t & will lay hands on you if need be. But, where are the stories of the men who didn't give a F about his rep & tried to lay hands on him? 😁
I had my 6 month dental cleaning today & my teefus, aka teeth, are good. 😁 No cavities. Simply told me to keep on waterpiking the right back because that's where I mainly chew. Told to keep up the good work. 👍🏿
November 5, 2025 at 6:34 PM
I had my 6 month dental cleaning today & my teefus, aka teeth, are good. 😁 No cavities. Simply told me to keep on waterpiking the right back because that's where I mainly chew. Told to keep up the good work. 👍🏿
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The way my taxi driver stepped on it just now when I told him he was taking me to see Mamdani in Queens
November 5, 2025 at 3:37 PM
The way my taxi driver stepped on it just now when I told him he was taking me to see Mamdani in Queens
👇🏾 I can't wait to watch this week's episode & this makes me so much more in a rush to see it. 👊🏿👏🏿
November 5, 2025 at 4:44 PM
👇🏾 I can't wait to watch this week's episode & this makes me so much more in a rush to see it. 👊🏿👏🏿
Our loved one's husband decided to have a trach & peg inserted on Monday. While she's still not awake, a miracle happened yesterday because they took her off the ventilator already because she's breathing on her own. Yes! She has opened her eyes a couple times. Keep praying. 🥹🙏🏿
November 5, 2025 at 11:14 AM
Our loved one's husband decided to have a trach & peg inserted on Monday. While she's still not awake, a miracle happened yesterday because they took her off the ventilator already because she's breathing on her own. Yes! She has opened her eyes a couple times. Keep praying. 🥹🙏🏿
I watched The Right Time with Bomani Jones & his guest was Kid Mero. Bomani basically said Kid Mero is everywhere. Kid Mero said sharks have to keep swimming or else they'll die. LOL! While funny, you can take that as motivation to keep going. Much needed personally w/ill loved one. 🙏🏿
November 5, 2025 at 11:11 AM
I watched The Right Time with Bomani Jones & his guest was Kid Mero. Bomani basically said Kid Mero is everywhere. Kid Mero said sharks have to keep swimming or else they'll die. LOL! While funny, you can take that as motivation to keep going. Much needed personally w/ill loved one. 🙏🏿
Got up to check election results 👀 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Now, back to sleep with a grin on my face 👊🏿
November 5, 2025 at 5:00 AM
Got up to check election results 👀 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Now, back to sleep with a grin on my face 👊🏿
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Now I’m in this house just a crying. This is the nicest thing, I think I’ve had a stranger do for me.
a man in a suit and tie says i just feel like my heart is going to burst because it 's full of rainbow
ALT: a man in a suit and tie says i just feel like my heart is going to burst because it 's full of rainbow
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November 4, 2025 at 10:20 PM
Now I’m in this house just a crying. This is the nicest thing, I think I’ve had a stranger do for me.