haven
@breakthehaven.bsky.social
call me haven here!
alt account, DNI unless I know you
a lot of venting/ranting so if uncomfortable just block
alt account, DNI unless I know you
a lot of venting/ranting so if uncomfortable just block
seeing people glaze the one an1m€ I despise for its horrible writing pains me
I can’t yell at them over it either cause that’s rude but it’s so upsetting because people keep hyping it up just because the characters are gay 😭😭
I can’t yell at them over it either cause that’s rude but it’s so upsetting because people keep hyping it up just because the characters are gay 😭😭
November 16, 2025 at 6:35 PM
seeing people glaze the one an1m€ I despise for its horrible writing pains me
I can’t yell at them over it either cause that’s rude but it’s so upsetting because people keep hyping it up just because the characters are gay 😭😭
I can’t yell at them over it either cause that’s rude but it’s so upsetting because people keep hyping it up just because the characters are gay 😭😭
mother told me my hair is doomed (not her actual words)
she said hair just changes and there’s nothing I can do which makes sense ig but that also means my curls can come back at one point! so now I just trust in the power of manifestation or whatever
she said hair just changes and there’s nothing I can do which makes sense ig but that also means my curls can come back at one point! so now I just trust in the power of manifestation or whatever
November 16, 2025 at 5:30 PM
mother told me my hair is doomed (not her actual words)
she said hair just changes and there’s nothing I can do which makes sense ig but that also means my curls can come back at one point! so now I just trust in the power of manifestation or whatever
she said hair just changes and there’s nothing I can do which makes sense ig but that also means my curls can come back at one point! so now I just trust in the power of manifestation or whatever
man can all the hyou fans please leave me alone 😭😭
stop reposting my hyou posts IM TRYING TO LIVE HEREEE
stop reposting my hyou posts IM TRYING TO LIVE HEREEE
November 14, 2025 at 9:54 PM
man can all the hyou fans please leave me alone 😭😭
stop reposting my hyou posts IM TRYING TO LIVE HEREEE
stop reposting my hyou posts IM TRYING TO LIVE HEREEE
“I can be very insensitive so please tell me when/if I hurt you so I can do better :D”
“okay will do!!”
and then they proceed to hold a grudge for months or even years without ever telling me I was being rude and hurt them
I feel only frustration towards such people (mainly if we’re close friends)
“okay will do!!”
and then they proceed to hold a grudge for months or even years without ever telling me I was being rude and hurt them
I feel only frustration towards such people (mainly if we’re close friends)
November 14, 2025 at 2:29 PM
“I can be very insensitive so please tell me when/if I hurt you so I can do better :D”
“okay will do!!”
and then they proceed to hold a grudge for months or even years without ever telling me I was being rude and hurt them
I feel only frustration towards such people (mainly if we’re close friends)
“okay will do!!”
and then they proceed to hold a grudge for months or even years without ever telling me I was being rude and hurt them
I feel only frustration towards such people (mainly if we’re close friends)
I have had my irl name mispronounced so many times now that I'm just used to whatever variations they make up but one common mispronunciation is literally just an oomf's name 😭🙏
November 14, 2025 at 11:33 AM
I have had my irl name mispronounced so many times now that I'm just used to whatever variations they make up but one common mispronunciation is literally just an oomf's name 😭🙏
nothing more toxic than a mother’s love istfg
November 14, 2025 at 11:02 AM
nothing more toxic than a mother’s love istfg
I feel like such shit man why is it so hard to meet decent people and have good friendships with them
maybe I just keep pulling all the bad luck in human relationships
maybe I just keep pulling all the bad luck in human relationships
November 13, 2025 at 4:55 AM
I feel like such shit man why is it so hard to meet decent people and have good friendships with them
maybe I just keep pulling all the bad luck in human relationships
maybe I just keep pulling all the bad luck in human relationships
and now we go back to hiding on alt
November 12, 2025 at 8:15 PM
and now we go back to hiding on alt
I think I've forever lost my charm (curly hair)
mmmmm sucks that my entire self worth is based on my hair's state
mmmmm sucks that my entire self worth is based on my hair's state
November 12, 2025 at 7:04 AM
I think I've forever lost my charm (curly hair)
mmmmm sucks that my entire self worth is based on my hair's state
mmmmm sucks that my entire self worth is based on my hair's state
another day another realization about how my mother is not as supportive as she claims to be and she will never see me as a guy
November 12, 2025 at 5:44 AM
another day another realization about how my mother is not as supportive as she claims to be and she will never see me as a guy
I miss who I was when I was younger in certain ways
I miss when I’d mask way less and just stayed quiet
I genuinely hate myself for being so loud and constantly smiling just because people always told me to do that
people may not see it as a bad thing to be like this but it’s just not who I am
I miss when I’d mask way less and just stayed quiet
I genuinely hate myself for being so loud and constantly smiling just because people always told me to do that
people may not see it as a bad thing to be like this but it’s just not who I am
November 11, 2025 at 2:23 PM
I miss who I was when I was younger in certain ways
I miss when I’d mask way less and just stayed quiet
I genuinely hate myself for being so loud and constantly smiling just because people always told me to do that
people may not see it as a bad thing to be like this but it’s just not who I am
I miss when I’d mask way less and just stayed quiet
I genuinely hate myself for being so loud and constantly smiling just because people always told me to do that
people may not see it as a bad thing to be like this but it’s just not who I am
wow I hate my life again
November 10, 2025 at 2:58 PM
wow I hate my life again
I hate this man so much
he’s constantly yelling and hitting things
can’t he just stfu and calm down, it feels like he’ll hit me again anytime even tho it’s been years since he actually did hit me
he’s constantly yelling and hitting things
can’t he just stfu and calm down, it feels like he’ll hit me again anytime even tho it’s been years since he actually did hit me
November 9, 2025 at 6:28 PM
I hate this man so much
he’s constantly yelling and hitting things
can’t he just stfu and calm down, it feels like he’ll hit me again anytime even tho it’s been years since he actually did hit me
he’s constantly yelling and hitting things
can’t he just stfu and calm down, it feels like he’ll hit me again anytime even tho it’s been years since he actually did hit me
I don’t know if I want to cry or scream lmao
November 9, 2025 at 4:24 PM
I don’t know if I want to cry or scream lmao
I didn’t know how to care for my hair back when this pic was taken but it had much more of a curl pattern than now?? give me one chance at having this hair back and l make it look better wtf 😭🙏
November 9, 2025 at 8:37 AM
I didn’t know how to care for my hair back when this pic was taken but it had much more of a curl pattern than now?? give me one chance at having this hair back and l make it look better wtf 😭🙏
even my glasses give me eczema BRUHHH so either I just can’t see or I suck up the pain and itchiness
November 8, 2025 at 2:20 PM
even my glasses give me eczema BRUHHH so either I just can’t see or I suck up the pain and itchiness
I miss when I had curls like crazy like WHAT HAPPENED??? WHERES MY CURLY HAIR??? I’m so desperate I’m trying everything to get my hair to look good again but I think it just wants to be less curly now
November 8, 2025 at 7:54 AM
I miss when I had curls like crazy like WHAT HAPPENED??? WHERES MY CURLY HAIR??? I’m so desperate I’m trying everything to get my hair to look good again but I think it just wants to be less curly now
I hate having a skin condition oml I yawned and my eyes teared up as they do NOW MY EYES BURNNNN the skin around my eyes is already so irritated I don’t need my salty tears making it more painful holy shit 😭😭
November 7, 2025 at 6:18 AM
I hate having a skin condition oml I yawned and my eyes teared up as they do NOW MY EYES BURNNNN the skin around my eyes is already so irritated I don’t need my salty tears making it more painful holy shit 😭😭
I have a bad habit of randomly laughing out loud for absolutely no reason
I almost did that just now
I’m in a dead silent room with four other people
I almost did that just now
I’m in a dead silent room with four other people
November 6, 2025 at 2:10 PM
I have a bad habit of randomly laughing out loud for absolutely no reason
I almost did that just now
I’m in a dead silent room with four other people
I almost did that just now
I’m in a dead silent room with four other people
someone once said "IT WAS IMPLIED FOR A REASON" and it makes me giggle every time cause they used it as "confirmation" of a ship being canon djsfhefhg
I'm gonna use this phrase too to defend my favorite ships /silly
I'm gonna use this phrase too to defend my favorite ships /silly
November 6, 2025 at 9:51 AM
someone once said "IT WAS IMPLIED FOR A REASON" and it makes me giggle every time cause they used it as "confirmation" of a ship being canon djsfhefhg
I'm gonna use this phrase too to defend my favorite ships /silly
I'm gonna use this phrase too to defend my favorite ships /silly
sometimes i wish i could stop fronting but i also can’t really control it much
well, i can but i don’t want to force anyone else to front when they really don’t want to
letting the extroverts front alone would also be a struggle cause the rest of us aren’t so outgoing and it might give whiplash
well, i can but i don’t want to force anyone else to front when they really don’t want to
letting the extroverts front alone would also be a struggle cause the rest of us aren’t so outgoing and it might give whiplash
November 5, 2025 at 9:04 PM
sometimes i wish i could stop fronting but i also can’t really control it much
well, i can but i don’t want to force anyone else to front when they really don’t want to
letting the extroverts front alone would also be a struggle cause the rest of us aren’t so outgoing and it might give whiplash
well, i can but i don’t want to force anyone else to front when they really don’t want to
letting the extroverts front alone would also be a struggle cause the rest of us aren’t so outgoing and it might give whiplash
every time I consider doing another alt promo I remember what happened last time and instantly decide against it
I’m not having a discussion like that ever again I swear 💔
I’m not having a discussion like that ever again I swear 💔
November 5, 2025 at 2:31 PM
every time I consider doing another alt promo I remember what happened last time and instantly decide against it
I’m not having a discussion like that ever again I swear 💔
I’m not having a discussion like that ever again I swear 💔
if you walk within 1.5 meters of me and you are not my friend DISTANCE YOURSELF
even that’s a bit too close but that’s me being dramatic about my personal space
even that’s a bit too close but that’s me being dramatic about my personal space
November 4, 2025 at 2:31 PM
if you walk within 1.5 meters of me and you are not my friend DISTANCE YOURSELF
even that’s a bit too close but that’s me being dramatic about my personal space
even that’s a bit too close but that’s me being dramatic about my personal space
I still feel like I was in the wrong for ending that friendship over that
they’re friends with someone who crossed my boundaries like crazy nonstop and disrespected me on many other occasions too but who am I to dictate their friendships…
they’re friends with someone who crossed my boundaries like crazy nonstop and disrespected me on many other occasions too but who am I to dictate their friendships…
November 4, 2025 at 6:57 AM
I still feel like I was in the wrong for ending that friendship over that
they’re friends with someone who crossed my boundaries like crazy nonstop and disrespected me on many other occasions too but who am I to dictate their friendships…
they’re friends with someone who crossed my boundaries like crazy nonstop and disrespected me on many other occasions too but who am I to dictate their friendships…
mission complete, I’m free of one burden
November 3, 2025 at 10:00 PM
mission complete, I’m free of one burden