Kari Jo
@blackeyedferret.bsky.social
xennial | musician | queer | neurodivergent | antifascist | punk rock sprite girl
I’ve been dating one guy for a little over 2 months and the other for a little over 1. This seems sustainable, but one of these relationships is about to be tested with a long break of no visits when he goes on tour for work so we’ll see how that goes. Not looking forward to it.
January 27, 2026 at 3:12 AM
I’ve been dating one guy for a little over 2 months and the other for a little over 1. This seems sustainable, but one of these relationships is about to be tested with a long break of no visits when he goes on tour for work so we’ll see how that goes. Not looking forward to it.
This new guy I’m seeing also has a great disdain for strats and I couldn’t be happier. I’m always prepared to defend myself when I say that.
December 15, 2025 at 1:02 AM
This new guy I’m seeing also has a great disdain for strats and I couldn’t be happier. I’m always prepared to defend myself when I say that.
Dating casually in my 40s is pretty fucking rad. I’m getting car doors opened for me, a meal ordered for me, helped into my coat, among other extremely considerate things that I won’t mention here. This is great!
December 14, 2025 at 12:24 AM
Dating casually in my 40s is pretty fucking rad. I’m getting car doors opened for me, a meal ordered for me, helped into my coat, among other extremely considerate things that I won’t mention here. This is great!
Aaaaaaand I’ve pretty much become blind to it 🙃
A reminder over the left hand range has been helping while I practice. As long as I don’t become blind to it.
December 2, 2025 at 4:44 AM
Aaaaaaand I’ve pretty much become blind to it 🙃
I’ve been using the apps and dating since late August and it’s so weird. I’ve never dated like this before. It’s fun yes but also very weird. I’m surprising myself a lot. Good times but I’ve got a heartbreak clearly on its way. Leaning into it for now 🤷🏼
November 24, 2025 at 8:14 PM
I’ve been using the apps and dating since late August and it’s so weird. I’ve never dated like this before. It’s fun yes but also very weird. I’m surprising myself a lot. Good times but I’ve got a heartbreak clearly on its way. Leaning into it for now 🤷🏼
I feel so conceited saying this but I fucking love my tattoos so much. So goddamn much. I look badass.
Go watch me play piano on Eli and the Enigma’s fb page or Heard in Color TV’s yt channel, music starts at 13 minutes.
Go watch me play piano on Eli and the Enigma’s fb page or Heard in Color TV’s yt channel, music starts at 13 minutes.
November 22, 2025 at 8:38 PM
I feel so conceited saying this but I fucking love my tattoos so much. So goddamn much. I look badass.
Go watch me play piano on Eli and the Enigma’s fb page or Heard in Color TV’s yt channel, music starts at 13 minutes.
Go watch me play piano on Eli and the Enigma’s fb page or Heard in Color TV’s yt channel, music starts at 13 minutes.
Very accidentally matched with someone 2.5+ hours away and hit it off so ridiculously well, we already have an overnight second date planned after an amazing first date. Wtf is happening. Who am I.
November 14, 2025 at 9:01 PM
Very accidentally matched with someone 2.5+ hours away and hit it off so ridiculously well, we already have an overnight second date planned after an amazing first date. Wtf is happening. Who am I.
With encouragement from the boys I finally put out my last band’s EP. Wasn’t happy with the process or outcome but I guess I’ve heard worse.
Dog Days, by Henry and the Renegades
5 track album
henryandtherenegades.bandcamp.com
November 8, 2025 at 11:14 PM
With encouragement from the boys I finally put out my last band’s EP. Wasn’t happy with the process or outcome but I guess I’ve heard worse.
I’m putting effort into dating apps for the first time and oh boy. People frustrate the shit out of me.
October 21, 2025 at 5:05 AM
I’m putting effort into dating apps for the first time and oh boy. People frustrate the shit out of me.
I hate to be a negative Nancy but I don’t see what this protest, impressive as it was, is going to accomplish in terms of real, positive, lasting change.
October 19, 2025 at 2:03 AM
I hate to be a negative Nancy but I don’t see what this protest, impressive as it was, is going to accomplish in terms of real, positive, lasting change.
Britney Spears’s instagram makes me so sad. 😔
October 12, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Britney Spears’s instagram makes me so sad. 😔
I boarded Hank for the weekend because I had to travel for a show yesterday and my parents are also gone so they couldn’t come let him out, and I have cleaners coming tomorrow so I’m just leaving him there until after that. It is SO WEIRD without my giant white shadow.
October 12, 2025 at 7:48 PM
I boarded Hank for the weekend because I had to travel for a show yesterday and my parents are also gone so they couldn’t come let him out, and I have cleaners coming tomorrow so I’m just leaving him there until after that. It is SO WEIRD without my giant white shadow.
Are we gonna have a bunch of dancing inflatable frogs for Halloween? I hope so.
October 11, 2025 at 6:04 PM
Are we gonna have a bunch of dancing inflatable frogs for Halloween? I hope so.
I’ve got a healthy last two weeks of October or something like that. Week 43 I get multiple fillings one day and a routine doctor appointment on another. The following week is eye doctor checkup and colonoscopy a couple days later. Gotta get it all in while I still have free insurance I guess.
October 10, 2025 at 10:47 PM
I’ve got a healthy last two weeks of October or something like that. Week 43 I get multiple fillings one day and a routine doctor appointment on another. The following week is eye doctor checkup and colonoscopy a couple days later. Gotta get it all in while I still have free insurance I guess.
I’m such a sucker for a kind word and the local music scene delivers on a regular basis. 🥰
October 10, 2025 at 9:43 PM
I’m such a sucker for a kind word and the local music scene delivers on a regular basis. 🥰
A reminder over the left hand range has been helping while I practice. As long as I don’t become blind to it.
October 10, 2025 at 6:59 PM
A reminder over the left hand range has been helping while I practice. As long as I don’t become blind to it.
My new keyboard really highlights that I’m a little heavy on the left hand/bass end (I am left-handed, maybe related?). Gotta really work on that.
October 9, 2025 at 10:31 PM
My new keyboard really highlights that I’m a little heavy on the left hand/bass end (I am left-handed, maybe related?). Gotta really work on that.
Welp that was remedied.
I’ve never received a dick pic and I don’t know if I should feel blessed or insulted.
(Just kidding I don’t care)
(Just kidding I don’t care)
October 9, 2025 at 8:17 PM
Welp that was remedied.
I haaaate taking out and putting in captive bead rings and I have three of them that are gonna have to come out for my colonoscopy in a couple weeks. 😭
October 9, 2025 at 8:16 PM
I haaaate taking out and putting in captive bead rings and I have three of them that are gonna have to come out for my colonoscopy in a couple weeks. 😭
What I love most about Bad Bunny doing the Super Bowl is that they HAD to have known how it was gonna go over in this current national climate and they chose to do it anyway.
October 8, 2025 at 6:42 PM
What I love most about Bad Bunny doing the Super Bowl is that they HAD to have known how it was gonna go over in this current national climate and they chose to do it anyway.
I’ve never received a dick pic and I don’t know if I should feel blessed or insulted.
(Just kidding I don’t care)
(Just kidding I don’t care)
October 5, 2025 at 7:14 PM
I’ve never received a dick pic and I don’t know if I should feel blessed or insulted.
(Just kidding I don’t care)
(Just kidding I don’t care)
Well hot damn what a rebound 😅
September 30, 2025 at 2:14 AM
Well hot damn what a rebound 😅
Wow okay and then a million red flags shoot up. Jesus.
September 29, 2025 at 11:55 PM
Wow okay and then a million red flags shoot up. Jesus.
Insignificant pet peeve: if you abbreviate until, it’s not “till.” There is only one L. If you must use 4 characters, write ‘til. Thanks bye.
September 29, 2025 at 3:09 AM
Insignificant pet peeve: if you abbreviate until, it’s not “till.” There is only one L. If you must use 4 characters, write ‘til. Thanks bye.
I had a question so I googled it and now I’m reading about it on the AARP website. 🙃👵🏻
September 23, 2025 at 3:43 AM
I had a question so I googled it and now I’m reading about it on the AARP website. 🙃👵🏻