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(dr.) asha
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she/her || xe/xem
ask me to deinfluence you from collagen products
somehow finished a phd
gothic transfem biochemist
தமிழ் || ಕನ್ನಡ
#transinSTEM #queerinSTEM
Pinned
Asha, desire/wish/hope

a deeply positive and aspirational name
trying to get it through my thick skull that people have to actually like me and I have to build up a positive relationship with people for me to earn the right to ask for support

I don't know why I keep doing it anyway

I don't even really know why I am posting this
November 25, 2025 at 12:13 AM
love how I get ONE job rejection and it immediately takes me from "holding myself together" to "no one will ever like me and I am fundamentally unloveable and hideous and I'll never deserve anything good ever"

and by love I mean please make this stop
November 24, 2025 at 11:37 PM
I feel like I'm doing attention seeking behavior and that isn't good
November 24, 2025 at 11:32 PM
I am caving in and booking flights instead of trains this is so sad 😭 @amtrak.com I can't blame you too much but also I wish prices were less Like That
November 24, 2025 at 11:19 PM
well this didn't go badly but as usual I have ABSOLUTELY no idea what is good and what isn't
virtual job interview today despite the fact that I feel a bit ill

please send me good employable vibes
November 24, 2025 at 9:52 PM
virtual job interview today despite the fact that I feel a bit ill

please send me good employable vibes
November 24, 2025 at 6:41 PM
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me when someone reminds me of that embarrassing thing i said twelve years ago #otdevil
November 23, 2025 at 11:57 PM
when is this happening to me. can we get this to go a little faster please
ideal newsfeed/social media algorithm
November 24, 2025 at 2:20 AM
omg did you hear that

I have Expertise

I am an Expert

(I just really like birds I do not claim to be an ornithologist or anything)
I am absolutely interested, and I thank you for sharing your expertise! I always get it confused but “mallard” is a type of duck (regardless of gender) whereas “drake” is the one that means “a boy duck,” right? I always get those confused 🤦🏻‍♀️ (I blame Darkwing Duck, secret identity ‘Drake Mallard’ 😅)
November 23, 2025 at 11:23 PM
trying to figure out why other south indian people I meet anywhere in the US so often assume I am either telugu or mallu
like that's specifically the two big ones that I'm not! (I am actually tamil and kannadiga) and I guess there's like some amount of numerical odds stuff going on here but still
November 23, 2025 at 7:09 PM
this didn't age well because flying is literally HALF the price but I really do not want to do that 😭
amtrak prices really doing their absolute best to dissuade me from doing Boston-DC by train. policy failures 🫠

but I also refuse to do this by flight so I WILL make this train trip work
November 23, 2025 at 1:20 PM
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take the estrogen baby!
November 23, 2025 at 12:00 AM
there's just a touch of cleavage in this one and I actually felt comfortable enough to post it anyway

that's an accomplishment I think
take the estrogen baby!
November 23, 2025 at 1:46 AM
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I like origami and baking (I promise this makes sense)
What’s the lore behind choosing your career path ?
November 23, 2025 at 12:43 AM
I like origami and baking (I promise this makes sense)
What’s the lore behind choosing your career path ?
November 23, 2025 at 12:43 AM
take the estrogen baby!
November 23, 2025 at 12:00 AM
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November 22, 2025 at 6:55 PM
amtrak prices really doing their absolute best to dissuade me from doing Boston-DC by train. policy failures 🫠

but I also refuse to do this by flight so I WILL make this train trip work
November 22, 2025 at 11:29 PM
the train in question:
November 22, 2025 at 9:05 PM
Train approaching. Please remain behind yellow line.
November 22, 2025 at 8:57 PM
pairing this post with this photo was a bad idea. I promise I know that's an acela I am not a bad rail fan 😭
how will I ever get good photos under these conditi- a northeast regional train just passed by just a few feet away so it's fine I have no complaints nothing whatever
November 22, 2025 at 7:06 PM
curses of trying to railfan along the southwest corridor part of the NEC in Boston: you can get very close to the tracks in some specific places but they make it very hard to watch because of giant nets
November 22, 2025 at 7:02 PM
November 22, 2025 at 6:55 PM
clocking people as MIT postdocs or staff by the fact that when they tap their card on the bus the screen says
"monthly link
expires 8/31/33"
November 22, 2025 at 5:57 PM
I decided not to go here because there's nothing to do in seaport if I hate it
is this fancy new bakery in seaport actually good or just an influencer fave? more on this today at 12 (or maybe not)
November 22, 2025 at 5:06 PM