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D.
@avefrater.bsky.social
bookworm, musicals fanatic, elder emo, foodie, Arsenal fan, and master planner 🖤✨ evil mastermind of Chicago Gooners
me these days:

Arsenal merch $200
Tickets to see reunited emo bands $300
Kpop tickets/merch $800
A trip to NYC and 38374 musical tickets $3,600
A nice treat yourself meal $150

someone who is good at the economy please help me budget this. my family is dying
November 18, 2025 at 7:26 PM
This PL table is crazy. Also, every time the Clasico happens, I re-remember how much I dislike Barca and RM fans 🥲
October 26, 2025 at 4:23 PM
Really trying to do things that challenge me and make me slightly uncomfortable in my 40s. Karaoke in front of a new audience, dancing Thriller in front of a crowd… I have a voucher to try aerial silks at some point. Maybe kpop dance lessons next?
October 25, 2025 at 5:02 AM
The world is shit but I’m having an amazing summer of shows. Ateez at Wrigley, Masquerade in New York, My Chem at Soldier Field, GCH/Cobra/TAI at Riot Fest… Amazing.
September 22, 2025 at 3:32 AM
I can’t believe Calafiori has seen a story of the photocard that I made of him 💀💀
September 13, 2025 at 2:34 PM
If anyone at Riot Fest next weekend wants a Gym Class Heroes, Cobra Starship, or The Academy Is… photocard, I’ve got you.
September 13, 2025 at 12:43 AM
Olivia!!!! What a goal
September 6, 2025 at 1:00 PM
Why is this Arsenal WFC stream so laggy…
September 6, 2025 at 12:40 PM
My brain never stops. Current obsessions:

- Kpop style photocards to hand out at Riot Fest + outfit?
- Halloween costumes for Dimitri and Gunner!!
- Chicago Gooner Gals meet-ups
- Redecorating the guest room
- Honestly super invested in the Stephen King novel I’m reading
- …Murder mystery?
September 4, 2025 at 3:08 PM
I think that My Chem show is legitimately one of the best concerts I’ve ever been to… Also, Billy Corgan?????
August 30, 2025 at 5:27 AM
Spent 8 hours at the Denver airport yesterday and working on 5 hours of sleep and some hopes and dreams today 🫡
August 19, 2025 at 3:46 PM
Not 100% against this table.
August 9, 2025 at 4:18 PM
Apropos of nothing, my obsessions at the moment:

- learning Operation Mincemeat karaoke
- Phantom of the Opera (again)
- staging my own production of Hamilton (?)
- Arsenal (gearing up for season)
- Ateez
- junk journaling
- learning choreo for the first part of Golden from Kpop Demon Hunters
August 8, 2025 at 6:14 PM
Woke up at 5 am to get to the airport and now I’m stuck at the gate while they try and fix the second of two maintenance issues 😭 I just want to go on vacation
July 31, 2025 at 1:21 PM
I know people can consume media however they want but I really can’t fathom NOT hyperfixating on something that I like. I went to one Ateez concert and now I’m about to learn everything about these guys
July 29, 2025 at 12:02 AM
I accidentally made a post about Russo having a broken tibia and not Lucy Bronze (sorry running on fumes today) and then had to go walk the dog — but seriously, do NOT use “playing like a girl” as an insult
July 27, 2025 at 9:56 PM
Set up a Euros bracket at work and got my coworker watching womens football this summer! 💁🏻‍♀️ He also randomly decided to start following Everton but that’s his problem
July 27, 2025 at 7:58 PM
Reposted by D.
Your most successful England football captain of all time.

Leah Williamson ❤️⚪

You gem 💎
July 27, 2025 at 7:10 PM
CHLOE KELLY 💕
July 27, 2025 at 6:48 PM
My week consisted of: Dinner on Wednesday, musical on Thursday, wine night on Friday, block party during the day today, and kpop concert right now… Think I can make it to the 6:30 am KO tomorrow morning? 🫡
July 27, 2025 at 12:12 AM
I hate useless penalty shootouts — or maybe that’s just PTSD from the United match
July 23, 2025 at 1:22 PM
I’m so sleepy but Saka has been looking really good
July 23, 2025 at 12:04 PM
Cale and I have caught up with the Bear and Squid Game. What’s next? White Lotus? Something else?
July 21, 2025 at 7:27 PM
What happened with those penalties
July 17, 2025 at 9:51 PM
I just love the interconnected community feel of Albany Park. People I know from the dog walking chat/see outside on a weekly basis help run the local working families political advocacy group, which just promoted my fave local bookstore where the owner is an Arsenal fan + I hosted a birthday event.
July 16, 2025 at 4:29 PM