Andra Porter
@andraporter.bsky.social
Candid Confidante * Retired Marine * Disillusioned Doc * Erotic Entrepreneur * linktr.ee/andraporter
Honestly, the little details make all the difference.
February 5, 2026 at 3:51 AM
Honestly, the little details make all the difference.
I like to live dangerously
January 28, 2026 at 4:25 PM
I like to live dangerously
I had a professional meeting the other day. The CEO & I sat down at the table, & he immediately looked me in the eyes & said, “So, I hear you’re kind, not nice.” I responded, “Not only do I feel incredibly seen right now, but that’s one hell of a compliment.” (I got the offer.)
January 28, 2026 at 4:30 AM
I had a professional meeting the other day. The CEO & I sat down at the table, & he immediately looked me in the eyes & said, “So, I hear you’re kind, not nice.” I responded, “Not only do I feel incredibly seen right now, but that’s one hell of a compliment.” (I got the offer.)
U avail?
Nope, I'm in the middle of No Kings training and Nonviolent Resistance training.
Nope, I'm in the middle of No Kings training and Nonviolent Resistance training.
January 27, 2026 at 1:51 AM
U avail?
Nope, I'm in the middle of No Kings training and Nonviolent Resistance training.
Nope, I'm in the middle of No Kings training and Nonviolent Resistance training.
I’ll lose followers for this but IDC. Stop sleeping with men who support any part of this. They don’t deserve access to you.
January 27, 2026 at 12:57 AM
I’ll lose followers for this but IDC. Stop sleeping with men who support any part of this. They don’t deserve access to you.
We’ll make our mundane a masterpiece
January 14, 2026 at 8:31 PM
We’ll make our mundane a masterpiece
Vegas, you’re delicious
January 14, 2026 at 8:28 PM
Vegas, you’re delicious
I usually don’t broadcast when I do charitable things, but I’m breaking with convention to tell you that I donated to the TJ Sabula GoFundMe, and I’d buy that man a beer in a heartbeat.
January 14, 2026 at 8:26 PM
I usually don’t broadcast when I do charitable things, but I’m breaking with convention to tell you that I donated to the TJ Sabula GoFundMe, and I’d buy that man a beer in a heartbeat.
When your young niece wakes you up early to play fish on the kitchen floor, is there really any other answer?
December 24, 2025 at 8:00 PM
When your young niece wakes you up early to play fish on the kitchen floor, is there really any other answer?
I hope your winter solstice was as wonderful as mine! Here’s to:
- Intention
- Ceremony
- Elements
- Community
- Love
- Intention
- Ceremony
- Elements
- Community
- Love
December 23, 2025 at 5:08 AM
I hope your winter solstice was as wonderful as mine! Here’s to:
- Intention
- Ceremony
- Elements
- Community
- Love
- Intention
- Ceremony
- Elements
- Community
- Love
Somebody on OF said they found me here. I didn’t realize people were really, actually using this place. Hi.
December 23, 2025 at 5:06 AM
Somebody on OF said they found me here. I didn’t realize people were really, actually using this place. Hi.
The fact that my “Top Song” on my Spotify Wrapped is one I listened to only 14 times in 2025 tells you how “consistent” I am with music. As with most things, I’ll take eclectic variety, thank you very much.
December 4, 2025 at 3:01 PM
The fact that my “Top Song” on my Spotify Wrapped is one I listened to only 14 times in 2025 tells you how “consistent” I am with music. As with most things, I’ll take eclectic variety, thank you very much.
I put red and green light bulbs in my driveway sconces because I’m being festive. I almost stopped after the first one because I thought it would be more honest.
December 4, 2025 at 2:17 AM
I put red and green light bulbs in my driveway sconces because I’m being festive. I almost stopped after the first one because I thought it would be more honest.
Why am I so reluctant/reticent to come over here? The other app is dying, and unless something dramatic changes, it feels unsalvageable. But there are 13+ years of Andra over there, and the idea of starting over is exhausting. I don’t want another account to maintain. Am I the only one feeling this?
December 3, 2025 at 4:51 PM
Why am I so reluctant/reticent to come over here? The other app is dying, and unless something dramatic changes, it feels unsalvageable. But there are 13+ years of Andra over there, and the idea of starting over is exhausting. I don’t want another account to maintain. Am I the only one feeling this?
Me: “I don’t have ADHD.”
Also me: [spends Friday night sorting every nut and bolt into hundreds of tackle box compartments]
Also me: [spends Friday night sorting every nut and bolt into hundreds of tackle box compartments]
November 8, 2025 at 1:00 AM
Me: “I don’t have ADHD.”
Also me: [spends Friday night sorting every nut and bolt into hundreds of tackle box compartments]
Also me: [spends Friday night sorting every nut and bolt into hundreds of tackle box compartments]
My therapist looked at me w/ compassion & said, “At a certain point, if we’re vulnerable with the wrong people, we’re just teaching them how to hurt us,” & now I can’t shake it & kind of want to throw things. Do you ever have those moments? What zingers have hit YOU sideways?
November 4, 2025 at 7:00 PM
My therapist looked at me w/ compassion & said, “At a certain point, if we’re vulnerable with the wrong people, we’re just teaching them how to hurt us,” & now I can’t shake it & kind of want to throw things. Do you ever have those moments? What zingers have hit YOU sideways?
We all need more days like this
November 3, 2025 at 9:00 PM
We all need more days like this
I know nothing about that
November 2, 2025 at 11:00 PM
I know nothing about that
Good morning, sunshine!
November 1, 2025 at 3:00 PM
Good morning, sunshine!
Don’t know if this is an INTJ thing or spillover from SW, but…
Me as a consultant: “Effectiveness is more important than efficiency.”
Me w/ acquaintances/prior civ colleagues: “No, I’m not driving across town to ‘catch up,’ b/c I have a lot on my plate & that’s inefficient.”
Me as a consultant: “Effectiveness is more important than efficiency.”
Me w/ acquaintances/prior civ colleagues: “No, I’m not driving across town to ‘catch up,’ b/c I have a lot on my plate & that’s inefficient.”
October 31, 2025 at 4:00 PM
Don’t know if this is an INTJ thing or spillover from SW, but…
Me as a consultant: “Effectiveness is more important than efficiency.”
Me w/ acquaintances/prior civ colleagues: “No, I’m not driving across town to ‘catch up,’ b/c I have a lot on my plate & that’s inefficient.”
Me as a consultant: “Effectiveness is more important than efficiency.”
Me w/ acquaintances/prior civ colleagues: “No, I’m not driving across town to ‘catch up,’ b/c I have a lot on my plate & that’s inefficient.”
Best views in the house
October 30, 2025 at 9:01 PM
Best views in the house
I don’t want a Labubu. That sounds like something to put a Bandaid on.
I do, however, have a WL full of great books that I’d like to read. I’ll gladly take a Labookbook.
(My wishlist link is in my bio)
I do, however, have a WL full of great books that I’d like to read. I’ll gladly take a Labookbook.
(My wishlist link is in my bio)
October 30, 2025 at 4:00 PM
I don’t want a Labubu. That sounds like something to put a Bandaid on.
I do, however, have a WL full of great books that I’d like to read. I’ll gladly take a Labookbook.
(My wishlist link is in my bio)
I do, however, have a WL full of great books that I’d like to read. I’ll gladly take a Labookbook.
(My wishlist link is in my bio)