The question not to ask an unpartnered/single/unmarried woman this holiday season is not her plans for becoming the opposite—as in, “are you dating, etc.” Rather the question is, “Are you happy? How is your soul? How are you caring for yourself these days? What is exciting to you right now?”

Who is “we”? 🤨

I need #BlackSkyOverFifty so I can participate in some of these “What was your first…?” questions without looking prehistoric.