@alyssssssachante.bsky.social
The only way you’ll win is if I quit
Maybe next lifetime I’ll get to grow up with my dad
September 3, 2025 at 1:06 PM
Maybe next lifetime I’ll get to grow up with my dad
Almost 18 years since my dad was murdered. I’ve been in mourning longer than I knew him, longer than he got to know me.
September 3, 2025 at 1:05 PM
Almost 18 years since my dad was murdered. I’ve been in mourning longer than I knew him, longer than he got to know me.
I’ve always remembered birthdays of the people in my life, even their kids, without needing calendar reminders. I remember specific anniversaries whether they be wedding or death, and have always sent my love — again without needing reminding. But I can say that no one in my life outside of my mom
August 12, 2025 at 4:23 AM
I’ve always remembered birthdays of the people in my life, even their kids, without needing calendar reminders. I remember specific anniversaries whether they be wedding or death, and have always sent my love — again without needing reminding. But I can say that no one in my life outside of my mom
It must be nice to always have people show up for you.
August 10, 2025 at 4:09 AM
It must be nice to always have people show up for you.
Since this is a safe space: It’s been almost 3 years since I’ve done the deed. I think it’s finally getting to me.
August 9, 2025 at 1:30 PM
Since this is a safe space: It’s been almost 3 years since I’ve done the deed. I think it’s finally getting to me.
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Just because I’m a mom doesn’t mean I can’t advocate for women, uplift them and encourage them to be childless. Live your life, bb. As you should 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
You’re more than just someone that can have babies, you’re individually made and perfect, live the life YOU want.
You’re more than just someone that can have babies, you’re individually made and perfect, live the life YOU want.
July 24, 2025 at 8:09 PM
Just because I’m a mom doesn’t mean I can’t advocate for women, uplift them and encourage them to be childless. Live your life, bb. As you should 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
You’re more than just someone that can have babies, you’re individually made and perfect, live the life YOU want.
You’re more than just someone that can have babies, you’re individually made and perfect, live the life YOU want.
Maybe I’m not meant for relationships.
July 25, 2025 at 10:01 AM
Maybe I’m not meant for relationships.
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Money just makes you more of what you already are. So I'll be tricking it off on my favorite people.
If you won $90,000,000, would the money change you? Or would you mostly be the same person with more resources?
July 24, 2025 at 9:53 PM
Money just makes you more of what you already are. So I'll be tricking it off on my favorite people.
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The brain washing of the younger generations concerns me. They need to know that this is NOT normal.
June 26, 2025 at 12:18 PM
The brain washing of the younger generations concerns me. They need to know that this is NOT normal.
It’s been 5 years since I got my tubes removed and almost a month that I’ve been working in labor and delivery. There are some days that truly make me question my decision to remove my tubes, something that ultimately takes away my ability to have children. Today was one of those days.
June 27, 2025 at 8:36 AM
It’s been 5 years since I got my tubes removed and almost a month that I’ve been working in labor and delivery. There are some days that truly make me question my decision to remove my tubes, something that ultimately takes away my ability to have children. Today was one of those days.
Yeah I can tell my period’s coming. I’m very emotional and reminiscing on things that make me even more emotional.
June 20, 2025 at 2:15 PM
Yeah I can tell my period’s coming. I’m very emotional and reminiscing on things that make me even more emotional.
I just wanna be in love, man
June 20, 2025 at 12:41 PM
I just wanna be in love, man
Oh. Guess it’s fuck me then, huh
a woman wearing a green shirt stands in front of a window
ALT: a woman wearing a green shirt stands in front of a window
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June 8, 2025 at 5:01 AM
Oh. Guess it’s fuck me then, huh
Gin and tonic ✨
What’s y’all go to alcoholic beverage
June 8, 2025 at 5:00 AM
Gin and tonic ✨
Idk that I’ll ever get over someone I consider one of my best friends in the world, sleeping with my ex husband’s wife. I haven’t been hurt like this in a long time.
June 8, 2025 at 3:45 AM
Idk that I’ll ever get over someone I consider one of my best friends in the world, sleeping with my ex husband’s wife. I haven’t been hurt like this in a long time.
I’m working in labor & delivery tonight and I actually like it. But as I sit here on my lunch break, I’m reminded why I could never work L&D… as much as I’ve healed, this is entirely too triggering for me. I do not care to be reminded how shitty my life was when I was young and pregnant.
June 4, 2025 at 7:37 AM
I’m working in labor & delivery tonight and I actually like it. But as I sit here on my lunch break, I’m reminded why I could never work L&D… as much as I’ve healed, this is entirely too triggering for me. I do not care to be reminded how shitty my life was when I was young and pregnant.
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Mourning a life you thought you would’ve had by now
May 17, 2025 at 3:28 PM
Mourning a life you thought you would’ve had by now
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Nobody warned me about the second half of life and all the grief that comes with it.
May 17, 2025 at 3:16 PM
Nobody warned me about the second half of life and all the grief that comes with it.
I wish I hadn’t just seen that.. I was so sure that would be my last. Positive I’d found my forever.
I feel sick.
I feel sick.
May 16, 2025 at 5:51 AM
I wish I hadn’t just seen that.. I was so sure that would be my last. Positive I’d found my forever.
I feel sick.
I feel sick.
At first I was feeling the effects of imposter syndrome. Then felt like I was also dealing with body dysmorphia. Then symptoms of my bpd. Then stress from work, school, and kids. Now to feeling all of those things along with the crippling notion that I need help but have zero access to it
May 16, 2025 at 4:52 AM
At first I was feeling the effects of imposter syndrome. Then felt like I was also dealing with body dysmorphia. Then symptoms of my bpd. Then stress from work, school, and kids. Now to feeling all of those things along with the crippling notion that I need help but have zero access to it
I’m feeling so much, all at once. I try to trace the feelings to figure them out and talk myself down and end up spiraling. My thought process is scattered and overwhelmed yet everything hurts me.
May 16, 2025 at 4:48 AM
I’m feeling so much, all at once. I try to trace the feelings to figure them out and talk myself down and end up spiraling. My thought process is scattered and overwhelmed yet everything hurts me.
The worst part about feeling this depressive episode coming is that I can’t seem to stop it or get ahead of it. I literally can’t even cry even though I’m so overwhelmed and I think crying would help - my body literally won’t let me.
May 16, 2025 at 4:45 AM
The worst part about feeling this depressive episode coming is that I can’t seem to stop it or get ahead of it. I literally can’t even cry even though I’m so overwhelmed and I think crying would help - my body literally won’t let me.
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I know @alyssssssachante.bsky.social isn’t active on here now (totally get it) but for whatever reason she popped in my dream last night & we met in the bathroom of a crafty fun New Orleans bar & she was so excited & sweet in person wearing a funny miniskirt & combat boots
So I hope she’s well!!!🧡
So I hope she’s well!!!🧡
April 20, 2025 at 1:02 PM
I know @alyssssssachante.bsky.social isn’t active on here now (totally get it) but for whatever reason she popped in my dream last night & we met in the bathroom of a crafty fun New Orleans bar & she was so excited & sweet in person wearing a funny miniskirt & combat boots
So I hope she’s well!!!🧡
So I hope she’s well!!!🧡
Everyday I’m leaning closer and closer to just getting off all social media entirely. I do not care to keep up appearances or keep up with anybody’s lives.
March 5, 2025 at 10:08 AM
Everyday I’m leaning closer and closer to just getting off all social media entirely. I do not care to keep up appearances or keep up with anybody’s lives.
I’ve lost a lot of faith in people. Especially those who were supposed to be “my” people. I’ll just stick by myself. It sucks and it gets lonely but it is far better than the alternative of allowing people to constantly let you down
March 1, 2025 at 7:39 AM
I’ve lost a lot of faith in people. Especially those who were supposed to be “my” people. I’ll just stick by myself. It sucks and it gets lonely but it is far better than the alternative of allowing people to constantly let you down