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Adam
@adamb1981.bsky.social
Green party member. Marvel geek, Star Trek fan, love anything Nintendo. Anxiety and depression sufferer. Ace, Chubby. I tick all the boxes 😂
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As someone who identifies as asexual, I quite often find myself having to explain what I do and don’t feel when it comes to attraction. For me, I feel all of the below, apart from the top one.
Asexuality isn’t about feeling no attraction, we just feel no or little sexual attraction.
He does? No one has ever told me that and I really don’t see it. Although I would be quite happy to look like Ryan Reynolds
January 18, 2026 at 9:16 PM
We always talk about favourite characters when it comes to TV shows, but what about least favourites… with that in mind who is your least favourite TNG era Star Trek character?
January 18, 2026 at 6:39 PM
Parts of it yea. Although not really in terms of my size but more my body hair, height and eyesight
January 18, 2026 at 2:53 PM
1. That we don’t experience arousal
2. That it’s the same for everyone who identifies as ace
3. That we all love all cake
January 18, 2026 at 2:32 PM
Yes I have had a boyfriend, but I’ve never had anal sex if that’s what you’re meaning by sex
January 18, 2026 at 2:11 PM
I think out of the ones I own, I would go for the ones pictured and on other guys it really depends on what the guy likes, I’m not sure if I really have a favourite style on others
January 18, 2026 at 2:08 PM
I’m already pretty short so I’m not sure I would want to be any shorter so definitely taller. Although if we could make it an extra 10 inches or so that would be good
January 18, 2026 at 2:02 PM
Following my walk, I need something else to get me through the day so ask me anything

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January 18, 2026 at 1:55 PM
There’s actually a bit of sun outside here today, so thought I’d make the most of it with a Sunday walk
January 18, 2026 at 12:38 PM
This evenings movie is…
January 17, 2026 at 9:10 PM
January 17, 2026 at 7:18 PM
A tummy for Tuesday, why not.

#tummytuesday
January 13, 2026 at 5:40 PM
January 12, 2026 at 9:19 PM
This is definitely the last pic I’m posting for awhile. Even I’m getting sick of my face now
January 12, 2026 at 7:00 PM
Furthest I’ve been:

North: Alta 🇳🇴
East: Tokyo 🇯🇵
South: Las Palmas de Gran Canaria 🇪🇸
West: Toronto 🇨🇦
Furthest I’ve been:

North: Stykkishólmur 🇮🇸
East: Hachinohe 🇯🇵
South: Singapore 🇸🇬
West: Vancouver 🇨🇦
Furthest I’ve been:

North: Skara Brae, Orkney 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿
East: Sydney 🇦🇺
South: Canberra 🇦🇺
West: San Francisco 🇺🇸
January 12, 2026 at 5:31 PM
Still trying to get used to the new haircut
January 12, 2026 at 4:03 PM
So I made a slight change to my hair earlier and now not sure how I feel about it. Still I can’t see the grey anymore at least
January 11, 2026 at 7:11 PM
Advantages to dating an asexual

-We’re not in it for your body
-Cuddles
-We are in it for your personality
-Cuddles
-Less likely to cheat on you
-Cuddles
-We just love to hang out with you
-cuddles
-Netflix & chill means just that
-Cuddles
-No sexual tension to deal with
-Cuddles
January 10, 2026 at 9:37 PM
January 8, 2026 at 10:06 PM
January 7, 2026 at 10:13 PM
January 6, 2026 at 10:24 PM
Spent the evening playing this. Used to love it as a kid (35+ years ago) and it’s still surprisingly great now
January 3, 2026 at 10:18 PM
Still keeping the Christmas theme going, with this movie up next
December 28, 2025 at 9:27 PM
December 26, 2025 at 5:18 PM
Christmas Eve viewing. Happy Christmas everyone
December 24, 2025 at 6:59 PM