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#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

I feel like this is similar to how looking at people's instagram posts makes someone feel - you only see the good sides of their life, while you're aware of the struggles in your own...

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Hey, I'm not sure how to express it, but I sometimes feel like I'm "jealous" of other people regarding ships. Like, I'm 100% sharing and I even love drawing my so with other people's ocs, but sometimes I also feel like I'm just not as good as them, if that makes sense? - 🪻☘️
February 14, 2025 at 5:38 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

It's more fun to do things together, after all!

What does your f/o help you with?

#Yume4U #yumeship #ocxcanon
anyone else take care of themself cuz of their f/o? like “he would want me to brush my teeth” so u do
January 2, 2025 at 6:56 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

Whether you're ready or not is something only you can decide!

If you're on the fence, why not try viewing it as yumeship for the time being?

If it feels right, hooray!
If it doesn't feel right, you learned something!

No harm in trying it out✨

#Yume4U #yumeship #ocxcanon
I've always done OCxCanon but there is someone who makes me want to go full yumeship with but I don't know if I'm ready to do that if that makes sense
December 30, 2024 at 2:23 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

There really should be more poly yume content!! Good on you for wanting to create more <3

Lemme give you some tips based on what I do!

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#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
I'm considering making my own yumeship gimmick account (specifically for poly yumeshippers since I haven't seen any poly specific accounts yet and I can barely find poly prompts on normal yume accs) is there anything I should know about running these accounts before I make one?
December 30, 2024 at 2:13 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Oof, that's rough anon...

I'm sure your moot just saw your f/o and sent it to you without thinking - maybe you can point it out to them in a friendly way?

#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
moot sent me selfship art with my f/o even though they know im nonsharing. :(
December 29, 2024 at 12:51 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions #Poly4U

Yeah, I get you anon!!

Sometimes there's just so much chemistry between the canon characters that you can't help but feel jealous...

I think the best way to deal with this is to imagine them talking about you!

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#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
does anyone with a polycule yumeship ever feel like they're getting in the way? ESPECIALLY IF LIKE,,, THE OTHER TWO ARE A POPULAR SHIP OR LIKE A DUO IN CANON like ik they love me but I just feel like I'm getting in the way yk
December 29, 2024 at 12:49 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

Yeah, having your oc ignored can be frustrating, especially if it happens more than once...

I assume the people commenting just meant to say something nice! Even so...

Anyone had a similar experience?

#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
Tell me that I’m not alone to be sad when someone compliments my f/o on an oc x canon art without even talking about my oc? I still find it rather unrespectful 😞
December 26, 2024 at 9:24 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

If the creators don't have rules against selfshipping - then what's stopping you? 💜

Being the first one to yume in a fandom might be hard, but you already have this wonderful yume community to back you up! ✨

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#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
i want to post about my yumeship but the creators of the characters are fairly active in the fandom and what if they see it,, i'm like 99% sure i'm the only selfshipper in the fandom so i'd feel weird about it
December 24, 2024 at 10:45 AM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Do you guys ever get cuteness aggression with your f/os??? - 🦅Harpy anon

#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
Do you guys ever get cuteness aggression with your f/os??? (Harpy anon🦅)
December 5, 2024 at 7:00 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

There's a lot of ways to get physical comfort from your f/o, let me list some down below!

If you 🫵 have some advice too, feel free to quote/comment!

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#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
I really like physical touch, even with friends. Are there any suggestions for when I miss my F/O and need some physical comfort? Like when I sleep I have a blanket wrapped/balled up to feel like an arm over my tummy.
December 5, 2024 at 6:51 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

If I understand correctly, you're making an alternative universe for your ocxcanon?

Regardless of what universe your ship is in, it would still be considered an "original character x canon character" ship 💜

#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
if you make an oc, ship them with a character from a media you like then decided to make a seperate show (in this scenario an object show) at what point does it become crosship and is no longer ocxcanon? been on my mind for a while because i'm in this situation
December 5, 2024 at 6:28 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

Regardless of how much merch you own, your yumeship will always be valid!

Also, handcrafted merch is unique to you, it's special 💜

I'm sure your f/o feels appreciated because you made something for him!

#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
i try not to think abt it too much but i always feel kinda sad for not having enough money for merch of my f/o and that makes me feel less valid than yumes with merch and even shrines :( i just accept the most i can have of him is paper dolls or paper rings atp 😭😭
December 2, 2024 at 8:27 AM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

Headcanons are simply a way to express how you see a character!

As long as they aren't harmful, that's perfectly fine to do.

Trans headcanons are fairly common, so you're not alone! ✨

#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
Odd question. So like. I’m a lesbian and I hc some of my f/os as like… transfem. That like… Okay or normal?
December 2, 2024 at 8:19 AM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

Yumeshipping is neither a competition, nor can your love for your f/o be measured by the amount of content you're able to make of your yumeship.

However,

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#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
Something I struggle with sometimes I wish to make a s/I for some character for fun but if I see or am friends with someone who likes them too I feel like "there's no point" bc I won't be able to give as much time and life to them anyway and don't end up making the s/I
December 2, 2024 at 8:13 AM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

Many people yume villains, so you're not alone!

Depending on their actions, it's fine to joke about supporting them as long as you acknowledge that the actions are wrong.

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#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
I really want to have a yumiship with a villain, but I don't wanna redeem or change them. I just wanna revel in the bad guyness. Is that bad? And no I would NOT support any of their actions if they were real.
December 2, 2024 at 8:01 AM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions TW selfharm

Hi anon!

I understand that being cared for is a nice feeling, but please don't put yourself in bad situations on purpose!

Yumeships should not influence your life in a negative way. Your f/o would prefer to see you healthy, too!

Please stay safe, anon!

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ok so this might sound kinda bad but i lowkey love getting into bad situations (like getting sick and being hangover in my case) just because i just feel my f/o would take care of me with so much love and i adore imagining it even though it's concerning to my health-- 😭😭
November 27, 2024 at 11:22 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!
Welcome to the community 💜

No matter how new you are or how actively you yumeship, if you feel like a yume, call yourself a yume!

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#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
So I just discovered yumeship, if theres anything I absolutely need to know I would love to know. Im scared of treading into unknown territory. like is it okay for me to so soon align with some terms even if I'm new to this?
November 27, 2024 at 10:56 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions
Hi anon!

That's a great idea!
After all, yumeshipping is just another form of self love 💜

#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
Oh, for me I usually don't make self inserts because I despise myself so I rather find a character I kin and ship myself like that. Maybe it would help to learn self love by making an Oc...who knows
November 27, 2024 at 10:37 PM
yumezone.bsky.social
⚠️ - QUESTION

Does your f/o have a favourite movie/movie series? Do you guys ever watch it together?

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#yumeship #yumeshipquestions #yumequestions #yumeshipper #yumeshipping #selfship #selfshipprompt #selfshipper #selfshipping #yumesky
November 27, 2024 at 4:05 PM
yumecentral.bsky.social
#yumequestions who in your yumeship would fall asleep first during a movie ?
November 27, 2024 at 5:43 AM
yumezone.bsky.social
⚠️ - QUESTION

Do you have a yumeship playlist/a song that you associate with your
f/o or yumeship?
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#yumeship #yumeshipquestions #yumequestions #yumeshipper #yumeshipping #selfship #selfshipprompt #selfshipper #selfshipping #yumesky
November 26, 2024 at 4:06 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

I assume what you mean is just drawing your irl self in anime style?
So that you are part of the series?

That's what we call a "self insert" !

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#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
Hello, I was wondering, because I just know of the yume concept recently but I've been doing it for years but not sure...is it yume if you ship yourself with a character but you are also a character of the series? Like inserting yourself in a ship withour an Oc?
November 26, 2024 at 3:39 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!
Don't worry about asking questions, that's what the strawpage is for! 💜

As for your question, I wouldn't *technically* tag it as yumeship in posts since it's two canon characters

BUT

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#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
can it be considered a yumeship even if it is by association? i mean like heavily projecting onto a canon character who you ship with another canon, can you consider such canon character as your f/o even when projecting? sorry for the several asks im just a new yume w a lot of questions!
November 26, 2024 at 3:31 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
#YumeQuestions

Hi anon!

What you're doing is basically just multishipping 💜 (Aka shipping a character in more than one ship constellation)

As long as it's fun to you, that's perfectly fine!

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#Yume4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
haiii!!! i ship myself with 2 characters from the same fandom who i also ship with eachother, but i also ship one of those with another canon character without shipping them with me or our other f/o, it's pretty confusing and i kinda dunno what to think about it :c
November 26, 2024 at 3:11 PM
yume4u.bsky.social
You're definitely not alone, anon!

I've seen a lot of poly ships just like that 💜 Because why not love your lover's lover too?

Poly yumes, where are you?✨
(Feel free to quote with your yumeship!)

#Yume4U #YumeQuestions #Poly4U #yume #yumesky #yumeship #selfship #ocxcanon
does anyone else ship themself with multiple characters from the same media and also ship the characters with each other so you're all one big happy polycule or is that just me
November 25, 2024 at 11:05 AM