#self-actualization
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November 12, 2025 at 11:55 AM
transmedicalism isnt when someone says they need medical assistance as part of their transition/self-actualization.

transmedicalism is when people as a whole are judged and denied their gender *unless* they perform arbitrary medical boundaries decided by a third party
November 12, 2025 at 9:07 AM
or rather i would say the death of self-actualization
November 12, 2025 at 8:29 AM
Embracing human frailty, fallibility, and heartbreaking aloneness is crucial for any person seeking to attain self-actualization and self-realization.
November 12, 2025 at 12:57 AM
This isn't my preference for this flavor of kink, but I like the self-actualization.

I wish I could re-enact some kink pieces I've been in.
November 12, 2025 at 12:47 AM
i mean i may have also asked a couple of other friends

but nobody just immediately ascends into self-actualization
November 11, 2025 at 9:55 PM
A cool jacket that fits me well would do wonders on my journey to self-actualization
November 11, 2025 at 9:42 PM
Read the fujimoto oneshot people are arguing about. I feel like it’s very potent transfem metaphor, obviously with the very violent depiction of transmisogyny, but also resolving the gender conflict by reinterpreting masculinity not in a literal sense but as self actualization. Interesting stuff
November 11, 2025 at 8:56 PM
RP-ing a frog man in DS is part of my self-actualization goals for next year.
November 11, 2025 at 8:47 PM
im starting to see a pattern. a lot of these victims are ppl who feel unfulfilled/unsatisfied despite how good or okay-ish their life is going. im not saying they have nothing to complain about but it seems like what they're searching for is self-actualization
November 11, 2025 at 8:42 PM
I want to make it clear on behalf of all of us that we're still figuring this whole thing out and we apologize for any missteps along the way in pursuit of self-acceptance, discovery, and actualization.
November 11, 2025 at 7:59 PM
But I thought about it some more and realized there are good reasons I don't have those things — other things taking precedence, big self-actualization stuff. I *am* capable and am making progress on what matters to me! But I've also been capitulating to the voices telling me I'm not good enough. 😵‍💫
November 11, 2025 at 7:51 PM
I just had a conversation that ranged from RISCV debugging to Camus, self worth, actualization, Skinner boxes, and programming language theory, AMA
November 11, 2025 at 7:27 PM
I've always considered myself to be a pretty subby bottom - like. Hella subby. Turns out with well executed teasing, I'm a fucking monster of a top.

Self actualization is neat.
November 11, 2025 at 5:45 PM
I'm a second from selling every guitar and amp and shutting down all my creative accounts again, but luckily the therapy is working because I'm recognizing that this is what's going on. I punch myself in the nuts because it's familiar territory over -- god forbid-- a shred of self actualization.
November 11, 2025 at 5:27 PM
Im very invested in the trans self actualization stuff and very uninterested in the romance part im sorry.
November 11, 2025 at 3:05 PM
It’s the “when you’ve got a hammer, every problem looks like a nail”.

Trying to maximize return also increases risk. Not a huge deal if you’re high enough on Maslow’s pyramid to be working on Esteem or Self-Actualization, but if you’re like a majority of the country, safety is a huge priority.
My favorite part* of the glorious MAGA future is the admission that I’m just as likely to be good at financial management and investment decisions as someone who does it full time, even tho I don’t do finance most of my time

*Thanks, I hate it
Just had work benefits meeting. You can invest your HSA. Basically gambling with the money that is supposed to be used for healthcare.
November 11, 2025 at 1:47 PM
my transgender self actualization will come with server hardware
November 11, 2025 at 12:59 PM
Love seeing a little self actualization on my timeline~
November 11, 2025 at 6:34 AM
More in a 'this is the self actualization you could have if you weren't so busy spending 10+ years fucking around' kinda way than anything else. Man....
November 11, 2025 at 5:10 AM
The backlash to the grim, cultural institution of "self-serving therapy speak" gets at what I've been thinking about.

When we've hit a point where self-actualization feels incompatible with the commitments and expectations of even social relationships, what does that say?
November 11, 2025 at 2:35 AM
self-actualization/"the courage to be", with history as a locus for divine grasping after humanity
November 11, 2025 at 2:26 AM
Our goals are not achieved if all our energy given to us to achieve the goal and self-actualization is directed towards being accepted by our surroundings and to meet their requirements
November 11, 2025 at 1:16 AM
i'm gonna figure out this whole self-actualization thing
November 11, 2025 at 1:10 AM
I don't wanna pursue self-actualization just to make my friends or family happy, I wanna do it because I want to be happy

And I'm sick of sitting around doing nothing to get there, just waiting for a miracle to happen

I looked up to so many peers for having agency in their lives; now, it's my turn
November 10, 2025 at 11:51 PM