It's also the same 'both sides same thing' blameshifting that continually absolves the GOP side and damns the Dem side, because the media is chronically unable to say the GOP is responsible for bad things
September 24, 2025 at 4:16 PM
It's also the same 'both sides same thing' blameshifting that continually absolves the GOP side and damns the Dem side, because the media is chronically unable to say the GOP is responsible for bad things
When they apologize but follow it up with “but you shouldn't have done...,” that’s not a real apology. That’s blame-shifting. It’s a subtle way of turning the responsibility back on you.
You don’t have to accept apologies that feel like attacks.
#BlameShifting #Manipulation
You don’t have to accept apologies that feel like attacks.
#BlameShifting #Manipulation
April 4, 2025 at 5:02 AM
When they apologize but follow it up with “but you shouldn't have done...,” that’s not a real apology. That’s blame-shifting. It’s a subtle way of turning the responsibility back on you.
You don’t have to accept apologies that feel like attacks.
#BlameShifting #Manipulation
You don’t have to accept apologies that feel like attacks.
#BlameShifting #Manipulation
In MS/HS I contemplated likelihood of being killed by vicious gang attacks the "adults" ignored/excused more/less daily. (Nearly was stomped to death as a senior.) They kept trying to find ways to blame the harassment on me. The post mortem blameshifting I foresaw was basically the OK response.
March 22, 2024 at 6:45 PM
In MS/HS I contemplated likelihood of being killed by vicious gang attacks the "adults" ignored/excused more/less daily. (Nearly was stomped to death as a senior.) They kept trying to find ways to blame the harassment on me. The post mortem blameshifting I foresaw was basically the OK response.
This kind of thinking makes me insane. When Rs were the minority, they a) did everything they could to sabotage Ds in the moment, and b) laid the groundwork for the VERY MOMENT WE ARE IN RIGHT NOW. To demand that from D leaders now is not misleading or blameshifting, so take your scolding elsewhere.
May 1, 2025 at 2:14 PM
This kind of thinking makes me insane. When Rs were the minority, they a) did everything they could to sabotage Ds in the moment, and b) laid the groundwork for the VERY MOMENT WE ARE IN RIGHT NOW. To demand that from D leaders now is not misleading or blameshifting, so take your scolding elsewhere.
Please don’t, get help, friends or family or both. We don’t need more of those news.
PD. Your friends GOP do hate immigrants, 🏳️🌈 and women in power, but ☝️ they ❤️ is lying, and blameshifting. They’re no idiots, they know exactly what they’re doing, term after term. Nothing you can do about that.
PD. Your friends GOP do hate immigrants, 🏳️🌈 and women in power, but ☝️ they ❤️ is lying, and blameshifting. They’re no idiots, they know exactly what they’re doing, term after term. Nothing you can do about that.
September 9, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Please don’t, get help, friends or family or both. We don’t need more of those news.
PD. Your friends GOP do hate immigrants, 🏳️🌈 and women in power, but ☝️ they ❤️ is lying, and blameshifting. They’re no idiots, they know exactly what they’re doing, term after term. Nothing you can do about that.
PD. Your friends GOP do hate immigrants, 🏳️🌈 and women in power, but ☝️ they ❤️ is lying, and blameshifting. They’re no idiots, they know exactly what they’re doing, term after term. Nothing you can do about that.
stop infighting over the election like petulant children trying to eschew responsibility.
more than anyone, white peoples failed to make good choices.
you don’t fight authoritarianism and tyranny by constantly relitigating and blameshifting.
fight. build community. don’t cooperate w/evil.
more than anyone, white peoples failed to make good choices.
you don’t fight authoritarianism and tyranny by constantly relitigating and blameshifting.
fight. build community. don’t cooperate w/evil.
February 3, 2025 at 1:52 PM
stop infighting over the election like petulant children trying to eschew responsibility.
more than anyone, white peoples failed to make good choices.
you don’t fight authoritarianism and tyranny by constantly relitigating and blameshifting.
fight. build community. don’t cooperate w/evil.
more than anyone, white peoples failed to make good choices.
you don’t fight authoritarianism and tyranny by constantly relitigating and blameshifting.
fight. build community. don’t cooperate w/evil.
Keep blaming your own party instead of strategizing. DIvide your efforts between purity tests and blameshifting.
March 15, 2025 at 4:19 PM
Keep blaming your own party instead of strategizing. DIvide your efforts between purity tests and blameshifting.
This tactic weaponizes past actions as a shield against accountability. Often framed as a demand for gratitude, it disregards whether gratitude has already been expressed.
#blameshifting
#blameshifting
April 13, 2025 at 12:27 PM
This tactic weaponizes past actions as a shield against accountability. Often framed as a demand for gratitude, it disregards whether gratitude has already been expressed.
#blameshifting
#blameshifting
was solln dieses blameshifting jetz? du hast doch den Fehler gemacht?
-von meinem Skeetphone gesendet
-von meinem Skeetphone gesendet
September 22, 2025 at 5:24 PM
was solln dieses blameshifting jetz? du hast doch den Fehler gemacht?
-von meinem Skeetphone gesendet
-von meinem Skeetphone gesendet
Der Artikel ist auch lustig. So formuliert, als ob die AN diejenigen wären, die sich dafür entscheiden, mit Corona zur Arbeit zu gehen, anstatt die AG und Ärzt*innen, die bei positiven Tests trotzdem fordern, dass die AN kommen.
Schönes Blameshifting hier.
Schönes Blameshifting hier.
Danke an jeden achten Deutschen, der weiterhin tatkräftig dabei hilft, die Bestattungsindustrie am Laufen zu halten!
Testergebnis ignoriert: Jeder Achte geht mit positivem Corona-Test zur Arbeit
Ein Strich, zwei Striche – egal. Einer neuen Studie zufolge kümmert es immer weniger Arbeitnehmer, ob ihr Corona-Test positiv ist. Eine Sache hat sich mit der Pandemie dennoch verändert.
www.tagesspiegel.de
January 25, 2024 at 10:57 AM
Der Artikel ist auch lustig. So formuliert, als ob die AN diejenigen wären, die sich dafür entscheiden, mit Corona zur Arbeit zu gehen, anstatt die AG und Ärzt*innen, die bei positiven Tests trotzdem fordern, dass die AN kommen.
Schönes Blameshifting hier.
Schönes Blameshifting hier.
Exactly! I just saw the Georgia Dems blaming the GOP & saying its all their fault... taking no accountability & I’m like do your job, just like the people out here on the streets fighting for themselves. The blameshifting, finger pointing bullshit, Got us here. Fuck that we’re taking real action.
March 6, 2025 at 1:41 AM
Exactly! I just saw the Georgia Dems blaming the GOP & saying its all their fault... taking no accountability & I’m like do your job, just like the people out here on the streets fighting for themselves. The blameshifting, finger pointing bullshit, Got us here. Fuck that we’re taking real action.
Lumping others with the burden of responsibility for FULFILLING YOUR WISHES—that you NOT SEE (and that DEVELOPING CHILDREN BE STARVED—DEPRIVED OF SEEING— #ObsceneExposure #lawfare ) is both impossible to resolve and the kind of #blameshifting therapists make a living from...
@pruecar.bsky.social
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November 30, 2024 at 2:31 AM
Lumping others with the burden of responsibility for FULFILLING YOUR WISHES—that you NOT SEE (and that DEVELOPING CHILDREN BE STARVED—DEPRIVED OF SEEING— #ObsceneExposure #lawfare ) is both impossible to resolve and the kind of #blameshifting therapists make a living from...
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Das war bei Merkel nach Schröder (Rot-Grün) auch nicht anders.
Die #CDU war, ist und bleibt ein Garant für mehr Schulden, schlechte Haushaltsführung und Stillstand bei gleichzeitig aktivem Blameshifting auf den politischen Gegner.
#Merz wird wie Merkel "gute Kanzlerin" wg. der Vorarbeit von Grün.
Die #CDU war, ist und bleibt ein Garant für mehr Schulden, schlechte Haushaltsführung und Stillstand bei gleichzeitig aktivem Blameshifting auf den politischen Gegner.
#Merz wird wie Merkel "gute Kanzlerin" wg. der Vorarbeit von Grün.
March 4, 2025 at 7:15 AM
#narcdefense #narcissism #npd #blameshifting #parentalalienation #darvo
When the Narcissist Turns Everything Against You: Fighting Back Against Blame in Parental Alienation
When the Narcissist Turns Everything Against You: Fighting Back Against Blame in Parental Alienation
March 10, 2025 at 9:31 PM
#narcdefense #narcissism #npd #blameshifting #parentalalienation #darvo
When the Narcissist Turns Everything Against You: Fighting Back Against Blame in Parental Alienation
When the Narcissist Turns Everything Against You: Fighting Back Against Blame in Parental Alienation
It is always about blameshifting & never about taking responsibility for them. Always.
April 29, 2025 at 1:43 PM
It is always about blameshifting & never about taking responsibility for them. Always.
"Your tweet is toxic ragebait."
"That is manipulative."
Yep, checks out. No blameshifting aggressiveness there.
"That is manipulative."
Yep, checks out. No blameshifting aggressiveness there.
May 7, 2025 at 2:42 AM
"Your tweet is toxic ragebait."
"That is manipulative."
Yep, checks out. No blameshifting aggressiveness there.
"That is manipulative."
Yep, checks out. No blameshifting aggressiveness there.
Right? Gaslighting, blameshifting, and indiscretions with others outside the relationship.
December 12, 2024 at 2:50 PM
Right? Gaslighting, blameshifting, and indiscretions with others outside the relationship.
Notice how much this resembles the GOP right now... denial, gaslighting, minimizing, blameshifting. To a narcissist the "truth" is not seen as a finite, fixed entity, but as being whatever the narcissist says it is in that moment.
March 26, 2025 at 4:38 PM
Notice how much this resembles the GOP right now... denial, gaslighting, minimizing, blameshifting. To a narcissist the "truth" is not seen as a finite, fixed entity, but as being whatever the narcissist says it is in that moment.
Solid rule of thumb. Anything more is usually blameshifting and finding excuses
April 28, 2025 at 10:04 AM
Solid rule of thumb. Anything more is usually blameshifting and finding excuses
stephen, you maga fuselage, your boss/idol spends 78.39% of his bandwidth blameshifting. that's his business model. pah-leaze!
August 2, 2025 at 3:08 AM
stephen, you maga fuselage, your boss/idol spends 78.39% of his bandwidth blameshifting. that's his business model. pah-leaze!
Some good points, and the article doesn't completely let them off the hook: #PBM groups argue that the hostility its members face is the result of drug manufacturers' and pharmacies' anger about efforts to narrow their #profit margins. #RxCosts #BlameShifting #Prescriptions buff.ly/iTD7qIj
Killing the PBMs won't save drug costs, economist says
Matthew Fiedler wants policymakers to pay more attention to the drug manufacturers.
buff.ly
March 3, 2025 at 8:00 PM
Some good points, and the article doesn't completely let them off the hook: #PBM groups argue that the hostility its members face is the result of drug manufacturers' and pharmacies' anger about efforts to narrow their #profit margins. #RxCosts #BlameShifting #Prescriptions buff.ly/iTD7qIj
MAGA used the #pandemic to get their claws & conspiracies into people & start their eugenics tactics. Narcissists/Capitalists/Fascists ALWAYS exploit a crisis!
Health crises come with plausible deniability, easy blameshifting & gaslighting, fear, weaponized illness, guilt, chaos, disruptions, etc.
Health crises come with plausible deniability, easy blameshifting & gaslighting, fear, weaponized illness, guilt, chaos, disruptions, etc.
March 11, 2025 at 1:40 AM
MAGA used the #pandemic to get their claws & conspiracies into people & start their eugenics tactics. Narcissists/Capitalists/Fascists ALWAYS exploit a crisis!
Health crises come with plausible deniability, easy blameshifting & gaslighting, fear, weaponized illness, guilt, chaos, disruptions, etc.
Health crises come with plausible deniability, easy blameshifting & gaslighting, fear, weaponized illness, guilt, chaos, disruptions, etc.
On suspiciously familiar blameshifting as an excuse for tyranny
These stories amount to "the left was so annoying about pronouns or liberals made people feel so guilty about plastic straws they had no choice but to get on board with the second coming of the Third Reich and the destruction of the planet."
The She Made Him Do It Theory of Everything
The rhetoric and logic of the abuse of power operates similarly at all scales, which is why I've found feminism such useful equipment for understanding authoritarians in public and political life. Bec...
www.meditationsinanemergency.com
February 27, 2025 at 12:22 PM
On suspiciously familiar blameshifting as an excuse for tyranny
Media blameshifting
May 9, 2025 at 12:55 PM
Media blameshifting