Hyper-independence is not strength. It can be a trauma response linked to avoidant attachment. Learn the psychology and simple steps to build healthier connection.
Watch here 🎥💛
https://youtu.be/PPZ_6V05YZQ
#MentalHealth #Trauma #AvoidantAttachment #Healing
Watch here 🎥💛
https://youtu.be/PPZ_6V05YZQ
#MentalHealth #Trauma #AvoidantAttachment #Healing
November 2, 2025 at 2:28 AM
Hyper-independence is not strength. It can be a trauma response linked to avoidant attachment. Learn the psychology and simple steps to build healthier connection.
Watch here 🎥💛
https://youtu.be/PPZ_6V05YZQ
#MentalHealth #Trauma #AvoidantAttachment #Healing
Watch here 🎥💛
https://youtu.be/PPZ_6V05YZQ
#MentalHealth #Trauma #AvoidantAttachment #Healing
Avoidant attachment can look like independence on the surface, but often hides deep patterns of protection.
How does trauma shape these patterns? & how can mindful self-compassion help us soften & heal?
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#AvoidantAttachment #SelfCompassion #TraumaHealing #TherapyForMen
October 30, 2025 at 4:10 PM
Avoidant attachment can look like independence on the surface, but often hides deep patterns of protection.
How does trauma shape these patterns? & how can mindful self-compassion help us soften & heal?
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#AvoidantAttachment #SelfCompassion #TraumaHealing #TherapyForMen
“I just need space.” 💔
Sometimes that means emotional safety… sometimes it means emotional distance.
In our new video, we unpack how to tell the difference between healthy space and avoidant stonewalling.
🎥 Watch here → youtu.be/Q9qWn3b3ARY?...
#AvoidantAttachment #Relationships
Sometimes that means emotional safety… sometimes it means emotional distance.
In our new video, we unpack how to tell the difference between healthy space and avoidant stonewalling.
🎥 Watch here → youtu.be/Q9qWn3b3ARY?...
#AvoidantAttachment #Relationships
Avoidant Partners Don't Want Space - They Want Safety
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
October 17, 2025 at 3:58 PM
“I just need space.” 💔
Sometimes that means emotional safety… sometimes it means emotional distance.
In our new video, we unpack how to tell the difference between healthy space and avoidant stonewalling.
🎥 Watch here → youtu.be/Q9qWn3b3ARY?...
#AvoidantAttachment #Relationships
Sometimes that means emotional safety… sometimes it means emotional distance.
In our new video, we unpack how to tell the difference between healthy space and avoidant stonewalling.
🎥 Watch here → youtu.be/Q9qWn3b3ARY?...
#AvoidantAttachment #Relationships
Thinking of You blog – Jessica Preston and Adam Lane on Why Intimacy Can Feel Unsafe
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#thinkingofyou #thinkingofyouapp #relationshipapp #couplesapp #avoidantattachment
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#thinkingofyou #thinkingofyouapp #relationshipapp #couplesapp #avoidantattachment
October 12, 2025 at 6:09 PM
Thinking of You blog – Jessica Preston and Adam Lane on Why Intimacy Can Feel Unsafe
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#thinkingofyou #thinkingofyouapp #relationshipapp #couplesapp #avoidantattachment
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#thinkingofyou #thinkingofyouapp #relationshipapp #couplesapp #avoidantattachment
#AvoidantAttachment often looks like:
• withdrawing in conflict
• avoiding vulnerability
• relying only on yourself
#AttachmentCommunity #AttachmentTheory #DismissiveAvoidantAttachment
• withdrawing in conflict
• avoiding vulnerability
• relying only on yourself
#AttachmentCommunity #AttachmentTheory #DismissiveAvoidantAttachment
October 2, 2025 at 4:34 PM
#AvoidantAttachment often looks like:
• withdrawing in conflict
• avoiding vulnerability
• relying only on yourself
#AttachmentCommunity #AttachmentTheory #DismissiveAvoidantAttachment
• withdrawing in conflict
• avoiding vulnerability
• relying only on yourself
#AttachmentCommunity #AttachmentTheory #DismissiveAvoidantAttachment
What can I say? I’ve always been an extremist 🤷🏻♂️ 😅 😆 (and hey, if it works it works). #relationships #breakups #lovebombing #avoidantattachment #healingjourney
September 20, 2025 at 11:00 PM
What can I say? I’ve always been an extremist 🤷🏻♂️ 😅 😆 (and hey, if it works it works). #relationships #breakups #lovebombing #avoidantattachment #healingjourney
“Relationships aren’t everything.”
“I don’t need anyone.”
Sound familiar? These are classic signs of avoidant attachment. 🧩
Learn what it means & how to handle it
blog.aitherapy.care/avoidant-att...
#MentalHealth #Relationships #AvoidantAttachment
“I don’t need anyone.”
Sound familiar? These are classic signs of avoidant attachment. 🧩
Learn what it means & how to handle it
blog.aitherapy.care/avoidant-att...
#MentalHealth #Relationships #AvoidantAttachment
Avoidant Attachment Style
What is avoidant attachment styles?
Have you ever heard about attachment styles? There are several types, and learning about them can help you understand relationships better.
Okay, today our topic ...
blog.aitherapy.care
August 23, 2025 at 2:37 PM
“Relationships aren’t everything.”
“I don’t need anyone.”
Sound familiar? These are classic signs of avoidant attachment. 🧩
Learn what it means & how to handle it
blog.aitherapy.care/avoidant-att...
#MentalHealth #Relationships #AvoidantAttachment
“I don’t need anyone.”
Sound familiar? These are classic signs of avoidant attachment. 🧩
Learn what it means & how to handle it
blog.aitherapy.care/avoidant-att...
#MentalHealth #Relationships #AvoidantAttachment
Adam Lane Smith with Margarita Nazarenko: Make Him Chase You & Bond for Good
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Why Avoidant Men Pull Away – And How to Make Them Bond
#AttachmentHealing #AvoidantAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalConnection #ThinkingOfYouApp
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Why Avoidant Men Pull Away – And How to Make Them Bond
#AttachmentHealing #AvoidantAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalConnection #ThinkingOfYouApp
August 4, 2025 at 5:42 AM
Adam Lane Smith with Margarita Nazarenko: Make Him Chase You & Bond for Good
thinkingofyou.app/the-thinking...
Why Avoidant Men Pull Away – And How to Make Them Bond
#AttachmentHealing #AvoidantAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalConnection #ThinkingOfYouApp
thinkingofyou.app/the-thinking...
Why Avoidant Men Pull Away – And How to Make Them Bond
#AttachmentHealing #AvoidantAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalConnection #ThinkingOfYouApp
New video: "Avoidant Attachment's 3 Hidden Parts Exposed"
The Shutdown, Independence & Monitoring Managers that make emotional intensity feel dangerous? They're trying to protect you from childhood overwhelm.
Understanding them changes everything. 💚
youtu.be/8tT5LPYOqEY
#AvoidantAttachment
The Shutdown, Independence & Monitoring Managers that make emotional intensity feel dangerous? They're trying to protect you from childhood overwhelm.
Understanding them changes everything. 💚
youtu.be/8tT5LPYOqEY
#AvoidantAttachment
Avoidant Attachment's 3 Hidden Parts Exposed | Therapists Tehrina & Joel
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
August 2, 2025 at 1:15 AM
New video: "Avoidant Attachment's 3 Hidden Parts Exposed"
The Shutdown, Independence & Monitoring Managers that make emotional intensity feel dangerous? They're trying to protect you from childhood overwhelm.
Understanding them changes everything. 💚
youtu.be/8tT5LPYOqEY
#AvoidantAttachment
The Shutdown, Independence & Monitoring Managers that make emotional intensity feel dangerous? They're trying to protect you from childhood overwhelm.
Understanding them changes everything. 💚
youtu.be/8tT5LPYOqEY
#AvoidantAttachment
🚨 NEW VIDEO DROP 🚨
What happens when you avoid not just others, but yourself?
Our new music & music video “Avoidant” hits hard with raw truth and heavier riffs.
🎧 Full video out now.:
youtu.be/FfyBgSVapVs
#FaceYourTruth #Metalcore #NewMusic #AvoidantAttachment #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
What happens when you avoid not just others, but yourself?
Our new music & music video “Avoidant” hits hard with raw truth and heavier riffs.
🎧 Full video out now.:
youtu.be/FfyBgSVapVs
#FaceYourTruth #Metalcore #NewMusic #AvoidantAttachment #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
July 30, 2025 at 9:50 PM
🚨 NEW VIDEO DROP 🚨
What happens when you avoid not just others, but yourself?
Our new music & music video “Avoidant” hits hard with raw truth and heavier riffs.
🎧 Full video out now.:
youtu.be/FfyBgSVapVs
#FaceYourTruth #Metalcore #NewMusic #AvoidantAttachment #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
What happens when you avoid not just others, but yourself?
Our new music & music video “Avoidant” hits hard with raw truth and heavier riffs.
🎧 Full video out now.:
youtu.be/FfyBgSVapVs
#FaceYourTruth #Metalcore #NewMusic #AvoidantAttachment #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
🎧 “Avoidant” drops⏳ TOMORROW
You’ll hear what it feels like to fear love, push people away, and finally face yourself.
Don’t miss it.
#FaceYourTruth
#Metalcore #NewMusic #AvoidantAttachment #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
You’ll hear what it feels like to fear love, push people away, and finally face yourself.
Don’t miss it.
#FaceYourTruth
#Metalcore #NewMusic #AvoidantAttachment #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
July 29, 2025 at 9:28 PM
🎧 “Avoidant” drops⏳ TOMORROW
You’ll hear what it feels like to fear love, push people away, and finally face yourself.
Don’t miss it.
#FaceYourTruth
#Metalcore #NewMusic #AvoidantAttachment #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
You’ll hear what it feels like to fear love, push people away, and finally face yourself.
Don’t miss it.
#FaceYourTruth
#Metalcore #NewMusic #AvoidantAttachment #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
🎭 Are you running from others—or yourself?
Our new single "Avoidant" drops in 1 week.
It’s raw, heavy, and brutally honest.
💣 If you’ve ever struggled with emotional walls, this one’s for you.
#FaceYourTruth
#Metalcore #AvoidantAttachment #NewMusic #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
Our new single "Avoidant" drops in 1 week.
It’s raw, heavy, and brutally honest.
💣 If you’ve ever struggled with emotional walls, this one’s for you.
#FaceYourTruth
#Metalcore #AvoidantAttachment #NewMusic #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
July 26, 2025 at 7:16 PM
🎭 Are you running from others—or yourself?
Our new single "Avoidant" drops in 1 week.
It’s raw, heavy, and brutally honest.
💣 If you’ve ever struggled with emotional walls, this one’s for you.
#FaceYourTruth
#Metalcore #AvoidantAttachment #NewMusic #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
Our new single "Avoidant" drops in 1 week.
It’s raw, heavy, and brutally honest.
💣 If you’ve ever struggled with emotional walls, this one’s for you.
#FaceYourTruth
#Metalcore #AvoidantAttachment #NewMusic #HeavyMusic #MentalHealthAwareness
The Thinking of You blog Adam Lane Smith explains what avoidant attachment men need
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Why Avoidant Attachment Feels Normal (and How to Heal It)
#attachmentstyle, #emotionalintimacy, #relationshiphealth, #avoidantattachment, #thinkingofyouapp
thinkingofyou.app/the-thinking...
Why Avoidant Attachment Feels Normal (and How to Heal It)
#attachmentstyle, #emotionalintimacy, #relationshiphealth, #avoidantattachment, #thinkingofyouapp
July 16, 2025 at 1:55 AM
The Thinking of You blog Adam Lane Smith explains what avoidant attachment men need
thinkingofyou.app/the-thinking...
Why Avoidant Attachment Feels Normal (and How to Heal It)
#attachmentstyle, #emotionalintimacy, #relationshiphealth, #avoidantattachment, #thinkingofyouapp
thinkingofyou.app/the-thinking...
Why Avoidant Attachment Feels Normal (and How to Heal It)
#attachmentstyle, #emotionalintimacy, #relationshiphealth, #avoidantattachment, #thinkingofyouapp
the real truth ✌🏼#avoidantattachment
June 21, 2025 at 2:31 AM
the real truth ✌🏼#avoidantattachment
Whether you want your AVOIDANT man to text you, call you, visit you, make love to you, commit to you, marry you…letting him in requires that you deepen and expand your receptivity ie. orgasmic capacity. 🧙🏾♀️
#anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #lovecoachforwomen
#anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #lovecoachforwomen
June 19, 2025 at 11:37 PM
Whether you want your AVOIDANT man to text you, call you, visit you, make love to you, commit to you, marry you…letting him in requires that you deepen and expand your receptivity ie. orgasmic capacity. 🧙🏾♀️
#anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #lovecoachforwomen
#anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #lovecoachforwomen
Organisationen sind doch auch nur Menschen?! Was haben vermeidende Bindungsstil und Hierarchieorganisationen gemeinsam?
#agile #avoidantattachment #psychologie #FragmentaryMe #vermeidend #mehrMenschsein
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#agile #avoidantattachment #psychologie #FragmentaryMe #vermeidend #mehrMenschsein
open.substack.com/pub/fragment...
Bindungsangst mit Dienstgrad – ein Besuch im Ghosting Büro
Systemkurzschluss mit erhellenden Parallelen
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June 19, 2025 at 9:58 AM
Organisationen sind doch auch nur Menschen?! Was haben vermeidende Bindungsstil und Hierarchieorganisationen gemeinsam?
#agile #avoidantattachment #psychologie #FragmentaryMe #vermeidend #mehrMenschsein
open.substack.com/pub/fragment...
#agile #avoidantattachment #psychologie #FragmentaryMe #vermeidend #mehrMenschsein
open.substack.com/pub/fragment...
Ever felt deeply connected to someone, only to have them disappear without a word? It's a painful, confusing experience. My latest piece explores what’s really going on—and how to find healing and closure.
#ghosting #avoidantattachment #SecureLove #Heartache #HeartbreakRecovery
#ghosting #avoidantattachment #SecureLove #Heartache #HeartbreakRecovery
Finding Closure: Healing the Heart After Ghosting, Flaking, and Other Crazy-Making Relational Drama - Ben Oofana
A friend of mine recently experienced what felt like the beginning of a real connection with a woman. She was sending him flurries of text messages, and they had started spending time together. There ...
benoofana.com
June 17, 2025 at 3:33 PM
Ever felt deeply connected to someone, only to have them disappear without a word? It's a painful, confusing experience. My latest piece explores what’s really going on—and how to find healing and closure.
#ghosting #avoidantattachment #SecureLove #Heartache #HeartbreakRecovery
#ghosting #avoidantattachment #SecureLove #Heartache #HeartbreakRecovery
Shipwrecked
On this island of mine
Where I sit alone
After crashing ashore.
Dashed against the rocks
By decisions to leave
Everyone behind.
No one is coming
To look for this place
Where I sit alone
On this island of mine.
#stunday #photography #poetry #writersky #avoidantattachment
On this island of mine
Where I sit alone
After crashing ashore.
Dashed against the rocks
By decisions to leave
Everyone behind.
No one is coming
To look for this place
Where I sit alone
On this island of mine.
#stunday #photography #poetry #writersky #avoidantattachment
June 1, 2025 at 5:23 PM
Shipwrecked
On this island of mine
Where I sit alone
After crashing ashore.
Dashed against the rocks
By decisions to leave
Everyone behind.
No one is coming
To look for this place
Where I sit alone
On this island of mine.
#stunday #photography #poetry #writersky #avoidantattachment
On this island of mine
Where I sit alone
After crashing ashore.
Dashed against the rocks
By decisions to leave
Everyone behind.
No one is coming
To look for this place
Where I sit alone
On this island of mine.
#stunday #photography #poetry #writersky #avoidantattachment
One of the fastest ways to be dumped as an avoidant is by dating someone while fearing commitment. #AvoidantAttachment
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juststopdating.com/?p=5085
May 28, 2025 at 4:01 PM
One of the fastest ways to be dumped as an avoidant is by dating someone while fearing commitment. #AvoidantAttachment
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juststopdating.com/?p=5085
They say, “This is just how I am.” But you’re the one doing all the emotional labor. If you’re anxiously attached + stuck with someone who won’t grow, our new video is for you.
Watch here → youtu.be/iTMb3jKJZI0
#avoidantattachment #relationships #selfworth #therapy
Watch here → youtu.be/iTMb3jKJZI0
#avoidantattachment #relationships #selfworth #therapy
“This Is Just How I Am”: When Avoidant Partners Refuse to Change | Therapists Tehrina & Joel
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
May 26, 2025 at 8:26 PM
They say, “This is just how I am.” But you’re the one doing all the emotional labor. If you’re anxiously attached + stuck with someone who won’t grow, our new video is for you.
Watch here → youtu.be/iTMb3jKJZI0
#avoidantattachment #relationships #selfworth #therapy
Watch here → youtu.be/iTMb3jKJZI0
#avoidantattachment #relationships #selfworth #therapy
New video! 💬
Communication fails when emotional safety is missing—especially in anxious-avoidant dynamics.
We share 5 relationship tools that work only if safety comes first.
📺 Watch:👇
youtu.be/2paeAjBnDOQ
#relationships #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
Communication fails when emotional safety is missing—especially in anxious-avoidant dynamics.
We share 5 relationship tools that work only if safety comes first.
📺 Watch:👇
youtu.be/2paeAjBnDOQ
#relationships #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
Why Communication Fails (Especially With Anxious & Avoidant Partners) | Therapists Tehrina & Joel
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
May 24, 2025 at 12:33 AM
New video! 💬
Communication fails when emotional safety is missing—especially in anxious-avoidant dynamics.
We share 5 relationship tools that work only if safety comes first.
📺 Watch:👇
youtu.be/2paeAjBnDOQ
#relationships #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
Communication fails when emotional safety is missing—especially in anxious-avoidant dynamics.
We share 5 relationship tools that work only if safety comes first.
📺 Watch:👇
youtu.be/2paeAjBnDOQ
#relationships #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
Self-abandonment isn’t spiritual.
I thought unconditional love meant denying my needs.
Spirit said: No.
You’re not evolving, you’re disappearing!
#spiritualgrowth #selfabandonment #consciousrelationships #awakeningtolove #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
I thought unconditional love meant denying my needs.
Spirit said: No.
You’re not evolving, you’re disappearing!
#spiritualgrowth #selfabandonment #consciousrelationships #awakeningtolove #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
May 23, 2025 at 5:01 PM
Self-abandonment isn’t spiritual.
I thought unconditional love meant denying my needs.
Spirit said: No.
You’re not evolving, you’re disappearing!
#spiritualgrowth #selfabandonment #consciousrelationships #awakeningtolove #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
I thought unconditional love meant denying my needs.
Spirit said: No.
You’re not evolving, you’re disappearing!
#spiritualgrowth #selfabandonment #consciousrelationships #awakeningtolove #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
Avoidant attachment can make relationships feel confusing and distant. But with awareness, change is possible. Learn how to navigate emotional closeness in my latest article:
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#TherapyForMen #SelfGrowth #MentalHealthMatters #AvoidantAttachment #SanFranciscoTherapy
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#TherapyForMen #SelfGrowth #MentalHealthMatters #AvoidantAttachment #SanFranciscoTherapy
Why Do I Struggle with Emotional Closeness? A Bay Area Therapist’s Guide to Overcoming Avoidant Attachment | Erik Karff Psychotherapy
Discover why avoidant attachment affects emotional intimacy and how therapy in the Bay Area can help you build deeper relationships.
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May 20, 2025 at 4:10 PM
Avoidant attachment can make relationships feel confusing and distant. But with awareness, change is possible. Learn how to navigate emotional closeness in my latest article:
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#TherapyForMen #SelfGrowth #MentalHealthMatters #AvoidantAttachment #SanFranciscoTherapy
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#TherapyForMen #SelfGrowth #MentalHealthMatters #AvoidantAttachment #SanFranciscoTherapy
Struggling with emotional closeness? You’re not alone. Avoidant attachment can make intimacy feel overwhelming, but understanding it is the first step toward change.
Read more:https://buff.ly/syovFgK
#TherapyForMen #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #MentalHealth #SanFranciscoTherapy
Read more:https://buff.ly/syovFgK
#TherapyForMen #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #MentalHealth #SanFranciscoTherapy
Why Do I Struggle with Emotional Closeness? A Bay Area Therapist’s Guide to Overcoming Avoidant Attachment | Erik Karff Psychotherapy
Discover why avoidant attachment affects emotional intimacy and how therapy in the Bay Area can help you build deeper relationships.
buff.ly
May 12, 2025 at 4:12 PM
Struggling with emotional closeness? You’re not alone. Avoidant attachment can make intimacy feel overwhelming, but understanding it is the first step toward change.
Read more:https://buff.ly/syovFgK
#TherapyForMen #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #MentalHealth #SanFranciscoTherapy
Read more:https://buff.ly/syovFgK
#TherapyForMen #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #MentalHealth #SanFranciscoTherapy