#developmentaltrauma #traumainformed a flavour of my forthcoming treasure box book- officially out in 3 weeks but available for pre-order
November 30, 2024 at 3:26 AM
#developmentaltrauma #traumainformed a flavour of my forthcoming treasure box book- officially out in 3 weeks but available for pre-order
Thank you for the lovely review @BeaconHouseTeam means a lot. Mutual admiration & appreciation 🦋🌈@Steve_JKPbooks #developmentaltrauma
November 29, 2024 at 6:33 PM
Thank you for the lovely review @BeaconHouseTeam means a lot. Mutual admiration & appreciation 🦋🌈@Steve_JKPbooks #developmentaltrauma
Living with Hitler:
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#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #engineers #developers #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
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November 1, 2024 at 2:56 PM
A Huge Part of Recovery from #DevelopmentalTrauma, #ChildhoodAbuse and #CPTSD, is to Embrace Taking Care of Our Own Needs FIRST Without Guilt or a Need to Over Explain Why.
The #EmPowerment of #SelfLove & SelfCare is to Embody Healthy #Boundaries & Live True to Ourselves Unapologetically.
#Free
The #EmPowerment of #SelfLove & SelfCare is to Embody Healthy #Boundaries & Live True to Ourselves Unapologetically.
#Free
February 10, 2025 at 5:57 PM
A Huge Part of Recovery from #DevelopmentalTrauma, #ChildhoodAbuse and #CPTSD, is to Embrace Taking Care of Our Own Needs FIRST Without Guilt or a Need to Over Explain Why.
The #EmPowerment of #SelfLove & SelfCare is to Embody Healthy #Boundaries & Live True to Ourselves Unapologetically.
#Free
The #EmPowerment of #SelfLove & SelfCare is to Embody Healthy #Boundaries & Live True to Ourselves Unapologetically.
#Free
Are You Afraid #Trump is another #Hitler? Me too: medium.com/@author_jcaf...
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
Living with Hitler
“They’re coming back. Make no mistake about it. Doesn’t matter what you think you are, they are coming back for you. You are a Jew,” my…
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November 26, 2024 at 4:08 PM
Are You Afraid #Trump is another #Hitler? Me too: medium.com/@author_jcaf...
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
Couldn’t love this brilliant resourceful and informative book more #DevelopmentalTrauma #compassion #creative thank you @dr_treisman
November 20, 2024 at 2:44 PM
Couldn’t love this brilliant resourceful and informative book more #DevelopmentalTrauma #compassion #creative thank you @dr_treisman
October 30, 2025 at 2:12 PM
Living with Hitler: medium.com/@author_jcaf...
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #depression #mentalhealth #MentalHealthDay #suicide #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #depression #mentalhealth #MentalHealthDay #suicide #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife
October 11, 2023 at 2:53 PM
Are You Afraid #Trump is another #Hitler? Me too: medium.com/@author_jcaf...
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
November 13, 2024 at 3:45 PM
Are You Afraid #Trump is another #Hitler? Me too: medium.com/@author_jcaf...
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
born wrong. I was a sad & lonely child who didn’t get what they needed. now as an adult—despite building a strong support networks, a life full of good & real love—there is something inside me so empty from that lack that I’ll never be at peace with as long as I live.
#CPTSD #DevelopmentalTrauma
#CPTSD #DevelopmentalTrauma
August 16, 2025 at 2:07 AM
born wrong. I was a sad & lonely child who didn’t get what they needed. now as an adult—despite building a strong support networks, a life full of good & real love—there is something inside me so empty from that lack that I’ll never be at peace with as long as I live.
#CPTSD #DevelopmentalTrauma
#CPTSD #DevelopmentalTrauma
Married to the son of a Holocaust Survivor:
https://medium.com/@author_jcafesin/living-with-hitler-3928b435abed
#parenting #momlife #parents #depression #mentalhealth #jews #suicide #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #aspergers #autism
https://medium.com/@author_jcafesin/living-with-hitler-3928b435abed
#parenting #momlife #parents #depression #mentalhealth #jews #suicide #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #aspergers #autism
October 30, 2025 at 4:28 AM
Married to the son of a Holocaust Survivor:
https://medium.com/@author_jcafesin/living-with-hitler-3928b435abed
#parenting #momlife #parents #depression #mentalhealth #jews #suicide #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #aspergers #autism
https://medium.com/@author_jcafesin/living-with-hitler-3928b435abed
#parenting #momlife #parents #depression #mentalhealth #jews #suicide #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #aspergers #autism
Are You Afraid #Trump is another #Hitler?
Me too: medium.com/@author_jcaf...
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
Me too: medium.com/@author_jcaf...
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
December 1, 2024 at 10:40 PM
Are You Afraid #Trump is another #Hitler?
Me too: medium.com/@author_jcaf...
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
Me too: medium.com/@author_jcaf...
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #trump #conservatives #nazi #christians #lgbtq #jews #jewish #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife #ancestry
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) can cause long-term activation of the stress response system.
This can result in elevated cortisol levels, our primary stress hormone — not for hours or days, but years.
#developmentaltrauma #Adversechildhoodexperiences #stress
This can result in elevated cortisol levels, our primary stress hormone — not for hours or days, but years.
#developmentaltrauma #Adversechildhoodexperiences #stress
June 21, 2025 at 4:30 PM
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) can cause long-term activation of the stress response system.
This can result in elevated cortisol levels, our primary stress hormone — not for hours or days, but years.
#developmentaltrauma #Adversechildhoodexperiences #stress
This can result in elevated cortisol levels, our primary stress hormone — not for hours or days, but years.
#developmentaltrauma #Adversechildhoodexperiences #stress
This👇🏼So complex when working with/healing from #developmentaltrauma #structuraldissociation. Parts of self born to protect the whole, containing an aspect of trauma, don’t know the danger is over so doubt/fear much! Those willing to see & navigate this, are extraordinary indeed!
November 23, 2024 at 1:23 AM
This👇🏼So complex when working with/healing from #developmentaltrauma #structuraldissociation. Parts of self born to protect the whole, containing an aspect of trauma, don’t know the danger is over so doubt/fear much! Those willing to see & navigate this, are extraordinary indeed!
The NVR map
A blog - 2 minute read
#nvr #nonviolentresistance #therapeuticparenting #nvrtherapeuticparenting #trauma #traumainformed #adoption #fostering #kinship #attachment #developmentaltrauma
elainenichollsnvr.com/post/the-nvr-map
A blog - 2 minute read
#nvr #nonviolentresistance #therapeuticparenting #nvrtherapeuticparenting #trauma #traumainformed #adoption #fostering #kinship #attachment #developmentaltrauma
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The NVR map
One of the really good things about NVR is that it provides something of a map for those times where we might be in survival mode.Most of my work is with trauma in some form or another - children and ...
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August 10, 2024 at 1:11 PM
Living with Hitler: medium.com/@author_jcaf...
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #depression #jewish #jew #mentalhealth #MentalHealthDay #suicide #palestinian #isreal #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife
#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #depression #jewish #jew #mentalhealth #MentalHealthDay #suicide #palestinian #isreal #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife
Living with Hitler
“They’re coming back. Make no mistake about it. Doesn’t matter what you think you are, they are coming back for you. You are a Jew,” my…
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June 23, 2025 at 3:59 PM
“Spanking? Never did me any harm”
Is that something you say? I used to. Not any more.
#spanking #DevelopmentalTrauma #childhood #trauma #healing
Is that something you say? I used to. Not any more.
#spanking #DevelopmentalTrauma #childhood #trauma #healing
Latest blog post - “Spanking? Never did me any harm”
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#spanking #trauma #childhood #healing
www.karenlaw.co.uk/post/spankin...
#spanking #trauma #childhood #healing
“Spanking? Never did me any harm”
Earlier this year, I had a confrontation with someone who claimed I was entirely at fault. I attempted to defend myself and apologized for my role in the situation, but I also highlighted how I had tr...
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December 16, 2024 at 8:28 AM
“Spanking? Never did me any harm”
Is that something you say? I used to. Not any more.
#spanking #DevelopmentalTrauma #childhood #trauma #healing
Is that something you say? I used to. Not any more.
#spanking #DevelopmentalTrauma #childhood #trauma #healing
Very excited & blown away for the therapeutic treasure box book to be a bestseller again on amazon. So refuelling. #Trauma-informedpractice. #developmentaltrauma #relationaltrauma watch this space as 6 more resources are out this & next year @Steve_JKPbooks @JKPBooks @wcmtuk
November 28, 2024 at 5:59 PM
Very excited & blown away for the therapeutic treasure box book to be a bestseller again on amazon. So refuelling. #Trauma-informedpractice. #developmentaltrauma #relationaltrauma watch this space as 6 more resources are out this & next year @Steve_JKPbooks @JKPBooks @wcmtuk
Living with Hitler:
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#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #depression #mentalhealth #MentalHealthDay #suicide #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife
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#parenting #momlife #parents #trauma #depression #mentalhealth #MentalHealthDay #suicide #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism #married #marriedlife
November 8, 2023 at 2:36 PM
I don't like who I am when my child pushes me to my limits
A blog - 1 min read
#secondarytrauma #burnout #blockedcare #survivalmode #parenting #adoption #fostering #kinship #trauma #developmentaltrauma #attachment #attachmentdisorder #fasd #autism #adhd
www.elainenichollsnvr.com/post/who-i-become
A blog - 1 min read
#secondarytrauma #burnout #blockedcare #survivalmode #parenting #adoption #fostering #kinship #trauma #developmentaltrauma #attachment #attachmentdisorder #fasd #autism #adhd
www.elainenichollsnvr.com/post/who-i-become
I don't like who I become
I had a conversation with a parent this week they said “I don’t like who I become when my child pushes me to my limits?”It got me thinking - we are all that person. And if you think you’re not, you ar...
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January 25, 2025 at 11:04 AM
I don't like who I am when my child pushes me to my limits
A blog - 1 min read
#secondarytrauma #burnout #blockedcare #survivalmode #parenting #adoption #fostering #kinship #trauma #developmentaltrauma #attachment #attachmentdisorder #fasd #autism #adhd
www.elainenichollsnvr.com/post/who-i-become
A blog - 1 min read
#secondarytrauma #burnout #blockedcare #survivalmode #parenting #adoption #fostering #kinship #trauma #developmentaltrauma #attachment #attachmentdisorder #fasd #autism #adhd
www.elainenichollsnvr.com/post/who-i-become
"A person with preverbal trauma may have no conscious recollection of what happened, yet their body remembers..."
#childhoodtrauma #preverbaltrauma #traumarecovery #cptsd #developmentaltrauma #medicaltrauma #traumahealing #cptsdsurvivor #cptsdrecovery #complexptsd #complextrauma #HealingJourney
#childhoodtrauma #preverbaltrauma #traumarecovery #cptsd #developmentaltrauma #medicaltrauma #traumahealing #cptsdsurvivor #cptsdrecovery #complexptsd #complextrauma #HealingJourney
When Childhood Shapes Your Adult Pain: Understanding Trauma (2 of 4)
Do you feel like you're carrying a weight you can't explain? What if your current struggles stem from places your memory can't reach? Let's validate the realness of your distress.
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March 21, 2025 at 3:00 PM
"A person with preverbal trauma may have no conscious recollection of what happened, yet their body remembers..."
#childhoodtrauma #preverbaltrauma #traumarecovery #cptsd #developmentaltrauma #medicaltrauma #traumahealing #cptsdsurvivor #cptsdrecovery #complexptsd #complextrauma #HealingJourney
#childhoodtrauma #preverbaltrauma #traumarecovery #cptsd #developmentaltrauma #medicaltrauma #traumahealing #cptsdsurvivor #cptsdrecovery #complexptsd #complextrauma #HealingJourney
Trauma - two things can be true
A blog - 2 minute read
#nvr #nonviolentresistance #relationaltrauma #developmentaltrauma #traumainformed #therapeuticparenting #sendparenting #asd #autism
#adhd #FASD
elainenichollsnvr.com/post/two-thi...
A blog - 2 minute read
#nvr #nonviolentresistance #relationaltrauma #developmentaltrauma #traumainformed #therapeuticparenting #sendparenting #asd #autism
#adhd #FASD
elainenichollsnvr.com/post/two-thi...
Two things can be true
Those of us parenting children who’ve experienced relational trauma can sometimes struggle to decide how to respond to behaviours that significantly hurt, upset, or inconvenience others.Parents and ca...
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September 10, 2024 at 4:28 PM
Trauma - two things can be true
A blog - 2 minute read
#nvr #nonviolentresistance #relationaltrauma #developmentaltrauma #traumainformed #therapeuticparenting #sendparenting #asd #autism
#adhd #FASD
elainenichollsnvr.com/post/two-thi...
A blog - 2 minute read
#nvr #nonviolentresistance #relationaltrauma #developmentaltrauma #traumainformed #therapeuticparenting #sendparenting #asd #autism
#adhd #FASD
elainenichollsnvr.com/post/two-thi...
Realistic therapeutic parenting
A blog - 2 minute read
#nvr #nonviolentresistance #therapeuticparenting #goodenoughparenting #trauma #fasd #autism #adhd #trauma #developmentaltrauma
elainenichollsnvr.com/post/realistic-therapeutic-parenting
A blog - 2 minute read
#nvr #nonviolentresistance #therapeuticparenting #goodenoughparenting #trauma #fasd #autism #adhd #trauma #developmentaltrauma
elainenichollsnvr.com/post/realistic-therapeutic-parenting
Realistic therapeutic parenting
Parenting is hard. Really hard. Therapeutic parenting is beyond hard. In all the therapeutic parenting advice (specific to trauma/autism/ADHD/FASD etc), one thing that’s often neglected is the small i...
elainenichollsnvr.com
August 9, 2024 at 4:56 PM
Realistic therapeutic parenting
A blog - 2 minute read
#nvr #nonviolentresistance #therapeuticparenting #goodenoughparenting #trauma #fasd #autism #adhd #trauma #developmentaltrauma
elainenichollsnvr.com/post/realistic-therapeutic-parenting
A blog - 2 minute read
#nvr #nonviolentresistance #therapeuticparenting #goodenoughparenting #trauma #fasd #autism #adhd #trauma #developmentaltrauma
elainenichollsnvr.com/post/realistic-therapeutic-parenting
Living with Hitler: medium.com/@author_jcaf... …
#trauma #married #marriedlife #momlife #parenting #survivors #victim #depression #mentalhealth #wife #marriage #divorce #suicide #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #palestinian #israel #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism
#trauma #married #marriedlife #momlife #parenting #survivors #victim #depression #mentalhealth #wife #marriage #divorce #suicide #EmotionalIntelligence #developmentaltrauma #palestinian #israel #PTSD #WW2 #holocaust #genealogy #aspergers #autism
April 24, 2024 at 5:58 PM