Absolutely! Life is way too short for that

This has been my journey!

When you've been single for a long time, it's easy to lose hope. But these 12 Universal Laws remind us there's so much more at play than what we can see. Life can change in an instant! ✨

12. The Law of Gender states that masculine & feminine energies exist in all of us. Blend action (masculine) with trust and receptivity (feminine) by pursuing love but also creating space to let it find you. It's all about balance!

11. The Law of Rhythm tells us that life moves in cycles. See this season of singleness as a chapter in your story, not the whole book. Trust the timing of your life. Know that new cycles are always unfolding. What if this period is setting you up for something incredible?

10. The Law of Polarity states that everything has an opposite. Light/Dark. Hot/Cold. So by that logic, if the possibility of never finding love exists, so does the possibility of finding it. Both are equally real. So focus on the outcome you want and know you can have it.

9. The Law of Relativity states that nothing is inherently good or bad, it's all about perspective. Comparing yourself to others makes being single much harder. The grass may look greener on the relationship side, but every lawn has its weeds.

8. The Law of Compensation tells us you reap what you sow. Keep putting yourself out there in ways that feel good to you, and don't give up. Every failed date or rejection is simply a stepping stone, not a dead end. Persistence pays off!

7. The Law of Cause and Effect states that every action has a reaction. How you show up now determines what you'll receive later. Use this time of singleness to heal and grow. The effort you put into becoming the best version of yourself WILL pay off.

6. The Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy tells us that nothing is permanent. Not even your relationship status. Energy is always shifting. One chance encounter and your whole situation could change. Stay open. Stay hopeful!

5. The Law of Inspired Action states that you have to take aligned action to get what you want. Join the class. Smile at a hot stranger. Ask a friend to set you up. Take chances. You never know what action will lead to a breakthrough.

4. The Law of Attraction states that what you focus on expands. If you believe you'll be alone forever, you'll keep seeing proof of that. No need for toxic positivity, but try to make sure your dominant thoughts are empowering rather than limiting. Gratitude is key.

3. The Law of Correspondence states your outer world reflects your inner world. If your core beliefs are limiting, all you will notice is scarcity. Shift your mindset to believe love is abundant. Fill your life with love and look for it in all areas, not just romantic!

2. The Law of Vibration states that everything in the universe vibrates at its own frequency. Like attracts like. So to align with your ideal relationship, focus on becoming your best self. Work on your mindset & health. Find joy. The higher your vibe, the better you attract.

1. The Law of Divine Oneness states that everything and everyone is connected. This means the love you're looking for already exists in the web of connections around you, and every action you take creates a ripple effect that leads you closer to it.

It was clearly a compliment and she took it as so. But we do need to move away from assuming that if someone hasn’t had a relationship it’s because “nobody wants them”. There are so many other reasons why someone could find themselves in this position and it’s not always about being “chosen” (2/2)