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love in the time of diarrhoea
A lighter reflection on grief, a sick Labrador, vet bills, love, and small mercies in the midst of loss.
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February 15, 2026 at 5:20 PM
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Mamy Blue
A raw reflection on the first month after my mother’s death, grief’s quiet weight, and learning to face a future that feels unbearably blue.
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February 8, 2026 at 6:20 PM
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always something there to remind me
A reflection on grief, memory, and Venice, seen through my mother’s stories and a small Murano glass snail she brought home in 1983.
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February 4, 2026 at 7:04 PM
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on an altered track
Living in a world that feels subtly altered after sudden loss, finding new routines, and learning how to keep going when nothing feels the same.
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January 26, 2026 at 6:55 PM
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tomorrow never comes
A reflection on my mother’s final message, grief, and the painful truth that there is never as much time as we believe.
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January 21, 2026 at 6:33 PM
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after the service
A quiet account of my mother’s memorial service, the grief that follows, and the moment adulthood became unavoidable.
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January 18, 2026 at 2:36 PM
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before the service
A quiet account of the days leading up to my mother’s memorial service, filled with grief, love, and the work of saying goodbye.
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January 16, 2026 at 5:58 AM
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she was not ours
A brief epitaph for my mother, who passed away suddenly in January 2026, and a quiet farewell shared in grief and love.
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January 10, 2026 at 9:36 AM
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post-op pup, pre-work dread
A cheerful post-op update on Eva the Labrador, a nursery visit, new plants, and facing the return to work with humour and perspective.
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January 5, 2026 at 2:25 PM
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tubes tied, tails awag
First post of 2026: Eva the Labrador gets spayed, nerves are shredded, hearts melt, and a small life lesson sneaks in.
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January 3, 2026 at 6:32 PM
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annus horribilis
A reflective year-end post on loss, endurance, hard lessons, and learning to stand alone after an annus horribilis.
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December 31, 2025 at 2:11 PM
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sunshine
A morning filled with sunshine, rainbows, coffee, laundry, and a joyful Labrador—finding unexpected happiness in light, colour, and simple moments.
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December 30, 2025 at 5:53 AM