Yumé Hadamí
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Yumé Hadamí
@yumehadami.bsky.social
I'm an anime nerd into gaming, nonsexual nudism (Don't ask for pictures, it's rude), science, outer space, and slice of life manga. I hear I speak a bit weirdly.
No, in addition to that, I get a massive mood boost, not to mention it also removes a lot of stress. Hence the fact I'm a nudist.
February 1, 2026 at 8:27 PM
so it's not as easy to tell how people will interpret things, so to me it just looks like a lot of unnecessary work when definitions simply being the standard for meaning would be easier.
January 29, 2026 at 4:19 PM
"twisted" and layer on a meaning akin to "corrupted," "wrong," or "messed up," and they hear "broken" and layer on an additional similar meaning but framed negatively.

Personally, I don't get why people do this. But, that might be because I struggle with reading body language, social norms, etc so
January 29, 2026 at 4:19 PM
or otherwise different from how it should be. Also neutral in nature.

Broken means not functioning as intended or depending on situation to sufficient degree to achieve desired outcome. It's also neutral in my mind.

Society hears "naked" and often layer on "inappropriate" or "sexual" they hear
January 29, 2026 at 4:19 PM
guidelines for emotion and life experience to process and interpret what was said.

But it's because of this that misunderstanding occurs.

I think like this:

Naked simply means bare or unclothed, nothing more to it, neutral.

Twisted means mixed up or fitting a model outside of it's original form
January 29, 2026 at 4:19 PM
already occurred. It's not their fault either for changing the intended meaning of my words in their mind. They aren't doing it intentionally. It's just how social interaction works. We don't live in a world where definition goes straight to interpretation. We live in one where definition serves as
January 29, 2026 at 4:19 PM
Anyway, I mentioned it because despite being a nudist, I've never experienced the joy of celebrating Christmas in the nude. The idea always appealed to me because I'm happiest when naked, so it should make celebrating Christmas even better.

To make matters worse, I work the 3:00pm to 11:00pm shift.
December 22, 2025 at 3:33 PM
I never saw this message. I live in Salem County if that helps.
December 22, 2025 at 3:55 AM
and throw out some trash. I was minding my own business. While my expression may have been a little off, I was hardly that attention grabbing, I think. He even said I reminded him of some other guy he liked.

All I could think was, "Is this what women have to deal with? That was creepy and awful!"
October 23, 2025 at 5:05 AM
suggested we do together, which made me uncomfortable as heck, and I guess he couldn't tell. The longer it went on, the more desperate I became for someone to get me out of that conversation. The worst part was it felt like the only thing I did to even get his attention was walk over to a trash can
October 23, 2025 at 5:05 AM
I don't mean to imply it's the same thing, but it did get me thinking about it.

While I was at the PNBR last summer, a guy started hitting on me. It made me super uncomfortable too, and it wasn't because he was a dude, but everything from the things he (tried) to compliment me on to the things he
October 23, 2025 at 5:05 AM
But, I was a closet nudist for so long that I'm actually really proud I'm a nudist. I found a lifestyle that makes me happy and no longer feels constantly depressed & trapped like a bird in a cage. I'm less stressed, too, so I feel it's only natural. I want to post about my lifestyle, pics, or not.
October 18, 2025 at 3:30 PM
I agree and completely see where you're coming from. But as a nudist, I love sharing my lifestyle with pics of myself enjoying it. I usually (slightly reluctantly) censor them, though. Not everyone is expecting to see that, I don't have an idea if the people I know don't mind seeing it uncensored.
October 18, 2025 at 3:30 PM
and I think it's time society gets over this thing they have regarding nudity. Or, at the very least, take baby steps and allow women to swim topless. They're just nipples, guys have them too it doesn't really make sense to label one lewd and the other not.
August 30, 2025 at 11:01 AM
Before, it at least made sense to me even if I preferred skinny dipping, but now I can help but think of a swimsuit, whether it's swim trunks, a speedo, a bikini, a one piece, or whatever and wonder why bother wearing this at all though? What purpose does this serve? Swimsuits are dumb and pointless
August 30, 2025 at 11:01 AM
I meant in situations when you can't do that. I realize that you can actually do that on here, but that's not a universal thing.
August 17, 2025 at 5:42 PM