That's a gift you should treasure. It's something hard to discuss with parents and not everyone will be accepting of the lifestyle. It's so freeing and relieving when someone actually understands it especially from an older generation.

This is how the Dom sub dynamic occurs with poly folks.

It's egalitarian where I see it as,."you can explore and I know/trust you'll come back home and maybe bring a friend."

Seattle I've learned is one big polycule at war supposedly with Portland's polycule? No one knows which side is top or bottom, let alone if there's versatility amongst the cules

Theres also a fling with the small Vancouver polycule, in exchange for high quality maple syrup and headpats, its mutual

Used poly members definitely are discounted. Any toys basically double as an air freshener. Regular maintenance and aftercare is needed.

BBC. (Big Beautiful Couches)
Not BBW.

Please note, I'm not an upholstery attracted person but some like JD turn their heads to a good piece of furniture. It's an addiction that should be corrected early in life.

I had the same issue, hiking and going on walks cleared my head and helped the process.

Make sure the cult is started by the polycule

Correction: Polyamory is a mesh network with more sex.