I’ll still be working and submitting my porn to some festivals! Hit me up for performance gigs or other gigs.

Wishing all transsexuals a easeful time 🫂🏳️‍⚧️

So skrong 💪🏾

Also going to try and fix the formatting so that it’s easier to read on a phone. But currently best to read on a laptop or tablet

Why I wanted to share this is that I do believe in accountability. I believe in repair. I believe that harm and accountability processes do not always lead to repair but I hope that other Black trans people can learn from this somehow.

There was an accountability process that was attempted but fell through because it was used to further cause harm to me. I took responsibility for my actions and sought healing separate from this process. Z has never taken responsibility or accountability for the harm they caused me.

TL;DR
This is specifically to share my story of my relationship with another Black trans person who will be named Z throughout this. In this relationship I, Anansi, was sexually coercive and manipulative toward Z. Z was sexually coercive toward myself and manipulative toward me.

Trigger warning: Sexual assault, coercion, mention of physical violence, emotional abuse, manipulation, boundary crossing, ableist language, stalking behavior.

Ty love 💜