Recognize the difference between the friendship and the treatment. Saying thanks to your friends is good think but if your mind can't be changed, your bad life will keep repeating and your distorted way of thinking won't leave your brain at all. Remember, you are the reason and the key of the cure.

Your brain(mind) and behaviour will save you. They just support you and your life. You've changed your mind, your way of thinking, your surrounding, your behaviour, etc. Don't lean on your friend too much. They have their own life you have your own life.

Many young womyn can't realize this and they suffer from their own thinking and surrounding.

If you stay still, your mental problems and life problems can't be cured. Ppl often say you make me normal, you cured my trauma etc etc. But there is no one can save you. Only youcan save yourself.

If you get lucky you would have good parents(although they have vulnerable genes and personality, they can be good at treat their child or they can be changed) and friends but if you didn't, you have to make your own way/fight back your parents/leave them etc.

more stiff and narrow than other ppl.

That's the reason why womyn need to find out right ppl and surrounding and change their pov of the world.

Womyn who suffer from mental illnesses would get more chance to meet bad ppl. Vulnerable genes and personality are usually inherited by their parents.

dispositions, you would get mental illness more than other ppl.

If your parents and surrounding treat you bad, your vulnerable genes and disposition make you more sensitive than others.

If you can't communicate with right ppl in most of your life, your gene and disposition make your brain

Many womyn believe womyn are weak, fragile, easy to be sweep, indecisive, timid, etc. But that's not true. These are just socially indoctrinated and educated ideal shapes of womyn. Keep in mind this fact. Womyn are human. Womyn are superior to men. Being a womyn is not the weakness and obstacle.

If you can do that, go on. But don't charge your friends' burdens to us. If you think we are bad bc we don't wanna take any of it that are the real nonsense and bigotry. Don't manipulate others with your emotion.

Who made radical feminist babysitter/nurse/counselor/doctor/teacher/carer, etc? Why do we have to do that? We can give you the advise and fix the misknowledge/thinking/prejudice, etc but we are not your exclusive doctor or something. Don't be confused us with them.

One of the famous patriarchy's tool is reliegion. The major reliegions of the world like Buddhism, Christianity, Islam, Confucianism are really misogynistic tools of patriarchy. They are always brainwashing womyn's mind to worship male and manipulate womyn to discriminate other womyn.

Where you spend your time and money will shape your future. We can't estimate our life's way acculately, but we can make a choose the tiny directions in every moment. We can choose the flow. That will be make your circumstace. Womyn can make their own way. Believe and practice this true.

Make sure that you can protect yourself mentally and physically. Build the loosen relationship that you can chat and exchange the emotion. Your friends, coworkers, doctors, relatives, etc. But don't rely on them too much. Their being'll be helpful, but you have to slove your problems all alone.