The Wickedly Wise Widow
@wickedlywisewidow.bsky.social
Widow, RN & budding data analyst. I share reflections on life transitions, adult learning & reinvention: with clarity, care, & lived experience. Currently living in a loving 5 gen household: it’s loud, funny, often chaotic & brimming with support. Welcome!
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What remains when love has nowhere to go?
A heart that learns how to grow and glow alone — holding memories, not absence. 🤍
A heart that learns how to grow and glow alone — holding memories, not absence. 🤍
Sometimes the hardest part of the holidays isn’t being alone — it’s being with people and not knowing how to feel or what to say.
That silence can be frustrating. Awkward. Heavy.
And it’s okay.
They don’t always know what to say either.
You're not alone...
#widowhood
That silence can be frustrating. Awkward. Heavy.
And it’s okay.
They don’t always know what to say either.
You're not alone...
#widowhood
December 25, 2025 at 5:16 AM
Sometimes the hardest part of the holidays isn’t being alone — it’s being with people and not knowing how to feel or what to say.
That silence can be frustrating. Awkward. Heavy.
And it’s okay.
They don’t always know what to say either.
You're not alone...
#widowhood
That silence can be frustrating. Awkward. Heavy.
And it’s okay.
They don’t always know what to say either.
You're not alone...
#widowhood
What remains still matters.
Some love doesn’t leave.
It just changes shape🤍.
Widowed But Whole.
#healing
#stillbecoming
Some love doesn’t leave.
It just changes shape🤍.
Widowed But Whole.
#healing
#stillbecoming
December 21, 2025 at 5:23 PM
What remains still matters.
Some love doesn’t leave.
It just changes shape🤍.
Widowed But Whole.
#healing
#stillbecoming
Some love doesn’t leave.
It just changes shape🤍.
Widowed But Whole.
#healing
#stillbecoming
What remains when love has nowhere to go?
A heart that learns how to grow and glow alone — holding memories, not absence. 🤍
A heart that learns how to grow and glow alone — holding memories, not absence. 🤍
December 20, 2025 at 8:38 PM
What remains when love has nowhere to go?
A heart that learns how to grow and glow alone — holding memories, not absence. 🤍
A heart that learns how to grow and glow alone — holding memories, not absence. 🤍
The Joy & Anguish of the Holiday can be overwhelming. While my space won't be for "trauma bonding" it'll be respectful of everyone's place in their journey. Rather its sharing kind words or sending virtual hugs. I'm open to it all. I also find great JOY in a wicked FU & FO for disruptors of peace😈😉
December 18, 2025 at 4:50 PM
The Joy & Anguish of the Holiday can be overwhelming. While my space won't be for "trauma bonding" it'll be respectful of everyone's place in their journey. Rather its sharing kind words or sending virtual hugs. I'm open to it all. I also find great JOY in a wicked FU & FO for disruptors of peace😈😉
This season calls for gentleness. 🤍
December 18, 2025 at 4:46 PM
This season calls for gentleness. 🤍
This season calls for gentleness.
As the holidays approach, I’ll be sharing reflections centered on widowhood, grief, and life after loss.
This space is meant to be steady, validating, and human — no fixing, no judging.
If you’re carrying grief, loudly or quietly, you’re not alone here.
As the holidays approach, I’ll be sharing reflections centered on widowhood, grief, and life after loss.
This space is meant to be steady, validating, and human — no fixing, no judging.
If you’re carrying grief, loudly or quietly, you’re not alone here.
December 18, 2025 at 4:56 AM
This season calls for gentleness.
As the holidays approach, I’ll be sharing reflections centered on widowhood, grief, and life after loss.
This space is meant to be steady, validating, and human — no fixing, no judging.
If you’re carrying grief, loudly or quietly, you’re not alone here.
As the holidays approach, I’ll be sharing reflections centered on widowhood, grief, and life after loss.
This space is meant to be steady, validating, and human — no fixing, no judging.
If you’re carrying grief, loudly or quietly, you’re not alone here.