Our friend Quintus made @sasshorde.bsky.social a “one bar prison”, the only prison we support, and with help from @batsrope.bsky.social, I survived 🎉🎉🎉 Once it was deep inside me with no way for it to fall out, I only focused on avoiding movement. I almost died when they told me to turn around 😱😱😱

#shibari w/ @batsrope.bsky.social at @sasshorde.bsky.social studio. Semenawa’s emphasis on the dynamic between rigger & bottom is refreshing. Communication is vital. Here Bats attached the harness behind me to my front foot. When they tightened that rope, it crunched me into a helpless little ball 💕

It’s good to be home in the @sasshorde.bsky.social studio again getting tied by @batsrope.bsky.social 🎉🎉🎉

#shibari #ropebondage #bondage

I like all things gritty - including my BDSM. A very talented top that I trust improvised this scene based on my desire to more fully explore sensory deprivation and suspense. It included panties FULL of pokey acupressure discs in case I got too excited. I learned to appreciate the absence of things

In May I got to wear a bikini for the first time ever for a local group’s pool party. Later that day got to femdom in it. It was so affirming 💅🏳️‍⚧️

In these early scenes I had fun crawling around on people and being feral. I need to bring this back into negotiations this year.

#dominatrix #kink #bdsm

When we first started renovating the studio, we found this mural behind some shelves, and dropped everything to do a quick tie because it’s soo cool. It has since become the centerpiece of many affirming and fun naughty pictures that bring me (and hopefully u) joy✨✨✨ #shibari #ropebondage #kinbaku

So my first femdom scene happened right after I bottomed for impact (see my thigh). Scenes release new 🧠🧪 and I respond to them by getting kinda frisky and wanting to “switch” roles with people. I’ve since learned to negotiate this before the scene rather than awkwardly asking during aftercare ✨✨✨

I bottom for rope whenever I get a chance to work with a capable rigger. I’m less interested in the sensation of being totally restrained, and more interested in how rope can create challenges and obstacles towards normal movement - hence my *love* for partial suspensions and floor ties

I think this remains my fav overall rope pic. My shoulders and elbows were made for harnesses like this. It incorporates my favorite graphic design theme: Dunkin Donuts (pink and brown). The whole tie felt really affirming and intense all at once. I like the way the rope got burnt in a random way

This was actually the first femdom scene I had EVER done. Before this I would have identified as strictly a bottom. This helped me learn topping people is about mutual consent and creating a shared power dynamic in a safe way. Turns out I’m really good at it and I’ve never turned back.

This was from the night that we learned blindfolding me FIRST, then writing “tipslut” all over me while I squirm, then do the impact because I get sweaty - is the recipe for WarBarbie sub space. ALSO pro tip: take shower to avoid being horrified by the sight of your own leg when you wake up