I think you’ll be fine. My point is —- ‘Only take and accept what you know you’re able to, and what’s worth your time.
Anything less than that is menial and not worth the worry lines’

I called the family lawyer then started his deportation process.

Then finally he broke down and showed up outside my place screaming nonsense and begging for me to take him back (on video from my friend and I and also CCTV so more ammunition for deportation)

A month later he got sacked and booted.

After I left, he became a stalker. he found out where I moved and and would wait and call me from outside my window.

I had the police file a blotter on him with all the proof (bruises wounds and videos of him stalking me) and apparently he already had a few priors with other people.

Hahhahahahaha. Happened a while back now.

He was cheating on me, when I found out he said he wanted to open the relationship, I agreed but he got aggressive after we did.

So when he started getting aggressive he choked me in my sleep then stabbed me in the heat of the moment so I left.

Unfortunately yeah. He was very unstable

Hahahahhahaha I wish. He stalked me then, stabbed me so I got him deported.

Im so sorry Bo. Wishing you strength in this time. I hope you guys can get through this and come out of it stronger together.

I used to date a closeted man as well (and let’s just say that ended bloody and badly) all I learned from that was protect yourself if he won’t.

Or you could haha.

Ive never had to deal with it, but I bet you could apply it to many things in planetary bodies etc. A few things I could think of is ice formations in comets, or something like finding or modelling a crystalline structure in neutron stars?

I wouldn’t be able to do it though haha

Not at all I gave up pretty quick hahaha. Only astrophysics (and a wee bit of applied physics) for me sadly.

A few times, and very briefly(though I would’ve liked to have gone through more of it) when I was starting out.

VPFC to model granular mechanics is so interesting. Are you focusing on something specific?

Something in flow or jamming transitions?

Aghhhh so exciting. Congratulations

My guess is a polycrystalline crystal or something grainy