How did you record this

That being said, it's a lot harder to talk to others because conversations devolve into a sales pitch. I don't think there's anything wrong with that (get your money if you can) but it's jarring when You've expressed that you're not interested.

I am on fetlife and it's pretty good there. Just looking to venture out on other platforms and see who else is out there.

I don't think there's anything wrong with being a seller. Actually, I think it's great that people who want to sell their content/make a semi living have a place to do so.