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“Using [partner] tøys is a great way to increase the amount of 4play time and extend $3xual experiences,” $3xpert for $3xual wellness brand and retailer Lovers Marla Renee Stewart, MA, tells Bustle. 

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January 2, 2026 at 12:07 AM
"I interviewed a black couple who went to a poly group, and they were definitely preyed upon, in a sense," said Marla Renee Stewart, Atlanta-based founder of Velvet Lips, a $3x education venue. 

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January 1, 2026 at 12:07 AM
Ready to level up your solo play? Dive into the world of fantasy and discover how your imagination, erotica, and a few delicious toys can transform your masturbation practice. Explore popular fantasies, tips for tapping...
Fantasy Fuel: How to Spice Up Your Solo Play With Imagination, Erotica, and Toys
Ready to level up your solo play? Dive into the world of fantasy and discover how your imagination, erotica, and a few delicious toys can transform your masturbation practice. Explore popular fantasies, tips for tapping into your desires, and tools to make your solo time mind-blowingly good. Your pleasure isn’t basic—so why should your solo sessions be?
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December 31, 2025 at 5:13 PM
“When people are in the honeymoon stage, they are having $3x all the time and everything is great. The $3x tends to stop if one person is not getting certain desires met,”

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December 31, 2025 at 12:07 AM
Once the tøys are washed, air-drying is best “to prevent any cross-contamination with reusable towels,” according to $3xologist Marla Renee Stewart, co-author of The Ultimate Guide to s💋du¢t!0n & 4pl@y. 

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December 30, 2025 at 12:07 AM
Among the organizers is Marla Renee Stewart, a $3xologist and professional $3x and relationship coach. Known as “The $3x Architect,” Stewart created Velvet Lips, an Atlanta-based $3x-ed company. 

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December 29, 2025 at 12:07 AM
Do what you love! I know that this sounds cliché and that people say it all the time, but it’s also the easiest way to avoid burnout.

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December 28, 2025 at 12:07 AM
Well, Marla Renee Stewart, aka "the $3x Architect," and Tia Marie "the Vixen Voyager" Mosley are, by all appearances, not getting angry. 

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December 27, 2025 at 12:07 AM
“Since temperature play is probably considered k!nky for most folks, it's always best to have a safe word that you and your lover share so that they know they can revoke their consent at any given point in time,"... 

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December 26, 2025 at 12:07 AM
“Transferring these energies during $3x or experiencing these energies during $3x, with yourself and with other people, can help to balance out your physical, mental and emotional stress that may plague you on a regular basis.”

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December 25, 2025 at 12:07 AM
One person in the relationship isn’t coming into the relationship authentically.
One Way To Not Ruin A Relationship Before It Gets Started
One person in the relationship isn’t coming into the relationship authentically.
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December 24, 2025 at 5:13 PM
“By the time the year mark comes around, you generally have known that person for a good amount of time to see if you want to be with them for a longer period,” she says.

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December 24, 2025 at 12:07 AM
“The best way to figure that out is to try all of them to see which ones resonate better for your lovers and yourself and then take advantage,” says Stewart.

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December 23, 2025 at 12:07 AM
"Dating someone out of convenience is not fair to them, and if it's your best friend, you want to make sure that you come at them in an ethical and compatible way," Stewart says.

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December 22, 2025 at 12:07 AM
“Once you embrace your $3xuality, it’s really powerful, and once you embrace that, it’s freeing for your mental and $3xual health,” Stewart said.

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December 21, 2025 at 12:07 AM
Using lube during $3x is a surefire way to enhance the experience, and using desensitizer L🧴bricants can help you and your partner last longer in bed, says Marla Renee Stewart, MA, CSE, and $3xologist for $3xual wellness brand Lovers.

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December 20, 2025 at 12:07 AM
Marla Stewart: I think our inspiration definitely comes from our own $3x and $3xuality interests. I’m a $3xuality educator. We worked together because Tia had recruited me for a talk at a magazine event. So I spoke there and we just sort of clicked. 

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December 19, 2025 at 12:07 AM
“With all the anxieties that we have had to face this year—racist attacks, pandemic, elections, workforce changes—a lot of people have lost their l!b!d0,” says Marla Renee Stewart, $3xologist for $3xual wellness retailer Lovers.

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December 18, 2025 at 12:07 AM
Unlock the power of your voice! Discover how to captivate through auditory seduction with strategic speech patterns, engaging questions, meaningful feedback, seductive music, and intimate vocal expressions. Transform ev...
Mastering Auditory Seduction: How to Charm Through Sound
Unlock the power of your voice! Discover how to captivate through auditory seduction with strategic speech patterns, engaging questions, meaningful feedback, seductive music, and intimate vocal expressions. Transform every conversation into an irresistible connection.
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December 17, 2025 at 5:13 PM
Marla Renee Stewart, M.A., recommends fantasizing for anyone looking for a more challenging hands-free technique: Imagine taking your saucy daydream one step further, and instead of snapping back into reality, you go with it.

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December 17, 2025 at 12:07 AM
"$3x boosts your energy levels because it releases endorphins in your body that help to you feel good," Marla Renee Stewart, MA, a $3xologist and author, tells Bustle.

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December 16, 2025 at 12:07 AM
"To go with the emotional s💋du¢t!0n piece, I would like to add direct communication – and ask about what your lover wants."  

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December 15, 2025 at 12:07 AM
“Research suggests that the sound of a lover’s voice can be a turn-on resulting in increased electrical activity in the skin,” O’Reilly and Stewart write in the new book.

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December 14, 2025 at 12:07 AM
MARLA RENEE STEWART, MA
Who she is: $3xologist/coach/educator, co-founder and –organizer of $3x Down South conference

She works with polyamorous, queer, swinger, k!nky, and sacred $3xuality communities as well.

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December 13, 2025 at 12:07 AM
"The ¢l!t0r!is has 8,000 to 10,000 nerve ends, so if the piercing rubs up against the cl!t, it can be incredibly pl💋@surable," explains Marla Renee Stewart, a pl💋@sure-based $3x educator and $3xologist with Velvet Lips.

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December 12, 2025 at 12:07 AM