Kimberly Starnes
vehementlykiki.bsky.social
Kimberly Starnes
@vehementlykiki.bsky.social
Books. Britain. Blue states. Board games.
August 25, 2025 at 3:19 AM
Ever wanted a real goodbye but got silence instead?

My latest blog is about closure. It’s raw, personal, and includes an AI prompt that helped me write the goodbye I never got.

💔 Read here: open.substack.com/pub/vehement...

#Breakups #Closure #Healing #AIforHealing #EmotionalGrowth #AIPrompts
The Goodbye I Never Got
What if closure isn't a conversation, but a choice?
open.substack.com
July 26, 2025 at 10:47 PM
Just released: Reboot You 💔 → 🤖 → ❤️‍🩹
A free workbook with 5 powerful AI prompts (and 5 deeper dives) to help you heal after heartbreak, especially after a certain age.

👉 Download it here: drive.google.com/file/d/11fUi...

Healing isn’t linear. But you don’t have to do it alone.
July 26, 2025 at 8:39 PM
Check out my new post on dealing with the silence after a breakup. #breakup #movingon #healing #relationships open.substack.com/pub/vehement...
The Echo of Absence: How to Cope with Post-Breakup Silence
Learn why absence feels so loud after a breakup and how the quiet can shift over time.
open.substack.com
May 18, 2025 at 3:21 PM
I saw three brides in one day. Is the universe telling me I'll be fulfilling another bucket list item soon? I hope so. Officiating a wedding is proving to be elusive. #bucketlist #therev #letmemarryyou
April 27, 2025 at 2:31 AM
Reclaiming my happy place was bittersweet, but worth it. #breakups #happyplace #memories
April 27, 2025 at 2:29 AM
Mom's are always right. Even as adults, we need to find the good kids and join their group. #breakups #motivation #momknowsbest #positivity
April 24, 2025 at 1:33 AM
Being grateful to the people who have supported my journey into a new job and new life makes me feel proud. #grownup #movingon #breakups #embracingchange
April 20, 2025 at 2:02 AM
Am I in my barnyard animal era? Which barnyard animal should I cuddle next? #babyduck #innerchild #happyeaster
April 20, 2025 at 1:55 AM
I stopped being afraid of failure and mistakes today. It felt good to take the chance that everything would be okay. (I was 4th out of 7 teams). #bebrave #breakups #movingon
April 17, 2025 at 1:17 AM
I found a reason for me to change who I used to be. A reason to start over new. #breakups #startingover #motivation
April 16, 2025 at 2:07 AM
I'm still out here checking off bucket list items. Highland cows were on tap for my birthday. Also, I've won $39 of the $100 I plan to win from the lottery this year. #lottery #bucketlist
April 8, 2025 at 1:50 PM
How do some people make it work? #dating #breakups #movingon
April 8, 2025 at 2:45 AM
Reposted by Kimberly Starnes
Be kind I’m new 💁🏽‍♂️
April 4, 2025 at 5:01 AM
Reposted by Kimberly Starnes
I may be tired and a little hoarse, but as I said again and again on the Senate floor, this is a moment where we cannot afford to be silent, when we must speak up.
April 2, 2025 at 1:09 AM
Finding that sense of belonging and being in sync takes time. Are we always out of step? #breakups #movingon #belonging
March 30, 2025 at 6:53 PM
What if you already have your person? #breakups #sisters #movingon
March 28, 2025 at 9:00 PM
This isn't how I envisioned the end of my forties, but I am stepping into the light and embracing me. #breakups #happybirthday #movingon
March 28, 2025 at 12:29 PM
Life is lots easier when you're seven. #breakups #bucketlist #willyoubemyfriend
March 23, 2025 at 8:03 PM
Need a rush of endorphins? May I suggest goat yoga? You can't have a bad day when there are baby goats. Plus, I checked off another bucket list item. #goatyoga #bucketlist #breakups
March 23, 2025 at 8:01 PM