Ugh :(

Are not

It's rough. I was the sole caretaker when my dad was drying of cancer, and it's not something I'd wish on anyone. Give yourself some grace and time to breathe. You're not failing, you're navigating a whole new chapter and it can be terrifying.

Dear Mr Gates, I could certainly use some money, I mean if you’re offering

I tried that with mine once, didn’t work :/

I always tried to end up using the religious or cultural aspect of things like that. Sometimes it works. And I am an ordained minister if you need a religious exemption :)