Also, if you really don't like those things, tags and block buttons exist for a reason. You don't know a stranger and they don't even interact with you, so why should their preferences bother you so much?

We're all tired of reality, we don't need our playground to have so much "rules". Having respect and etiquette is enough.

You're allowed to have preferences, but it's rude to assume one is "a bad person" just because you find their preferences out of the norm for you.

Here's the thing: if you've been in the early days of the internet, and even managed to stay in a JP fanbase for long, things like age difference don't matter in fictional ships. Again. Fictional. Get that drilled on your head.