Vagabond Bones
@vagabondbones.bsky.social
they/he ✨ neurodivergent, queer, disabled, immunocompromised, ethnic minority, converting to Judaism, spoonie 🥄 27yo mess 🧠 doing a Masters in Bioinformatics 💻⚕️
Honestly, getting crushed helps my autism/anxiety, sooooo win/win?? (Sorry for the random sexy interaction, internet stranger 😅)
November 3, 2025 at 9:47 AM
Honestly, getting crushed helps my autism/anxiety, sooooo win/win?? (Sorry for the random sexy interaction, internet stranger 😅)
Anyway, ASD and ADHD running in families can Suck Balls, so find the humour where you can??
September 9, 2025 at 4:08 PM
Anyway, ASD and ADHD running in families can Suck Balls, so find the humour where you can??
And btw, bc he is undiagnosed and Refuses to Admit It, it’s really frustrating to explain to him that, just bc something makes sense for HIS flavour of autism, doesn’t make it The Only Right Way (and that my flavour of autism thinks its Completely Illogical and Wrong)
September 9, 2025 at 4:08 PM
And btw, bc he is undiagnosed and Refuses to Admit It, it’s really frustrating to explain to him that, just bc something makes sense for HIS flavour of autism, doesn’t make it The Only Right Way (and that my flavour of autism thinks its Completely Illogical and Wrong)
Like, guess who is Chaos Incorporated and who is all about Neat Boxes Neatly Placed
who Lives and Dies by the Schedule and who has never known What Is Time in their entire life
who believes there is a Right Way to do everything and who Just Wings It
who Lives and Dies by the Schedule and who has never known What Is Time in their entire life
who believes there is a Right Way to do everything and who Just Wings It
September 9, 2025 at 4:08 PM
Like, guess who is Chaos Incorporated and who is all about Neat Boxes Neatly Placed
who Lives and Dies by the Schedule and who has never known What Is Time in their entire life
who believes there is a Right Way to do everything and who Just Wings It
who Lives and Dies by the Schedule and who has never known What Is Time in their entire life
who believes there is a Right Way to do everything and who Just Wings It
And I still struggle with it, bc then, what makes me a man?? Idk. Vibes, mostly.
September 4, 2025 at 11:47 AM
And I still struggle with it, bc then, what makes me a man?? Idk. Vibes, mostly.
People tie masculinity to cars and loudness and aggression and anger and sports. And none of those things have a gender. Just like we’ve been saying that you can be a woman who’s loud, assertive, angry, athletic, loves cars; so you can be a man and none of those things.
September 4, 2025 at 11:47 AM
People tie masculinity to cars and loudness and aggression and anger and sports. And none of those things have a gender. Just like we’ve been saying that you can be a woman who’s loud, assertive, angry, athletic, loves cars; so you can be a man and none of those things.
Like, my father has told me, essentially, that if “want” to be a man, then I should act + dress “like a man”
And it’s like… dad. Some men think being a man is about “chasing tail”. Some think it’s about having the last word at home at the expense of beating your wife.
And it’s like… dad. Some men think being a man is about “chasing tail”. Some think it’s about having the last word at home at the expense of beating your wife.
September 4, 2025 at 11:47 AM
Like, my father has told me, essentially, that if “want” to be a man, then I should act + dress “like a man”
And it’s like… dad. Some men think being a man is about “chasing tail”. Some think it’s about having the last word at home at the expense of beating your wife.
And it’s like… dad. Some men think being a man is about “chasing tail”. Some think it’s about having the last word at home at the expense of beating your wife.
5. You know how they claim t makes you angry or irritable? Guess what makes that worse? No t. Yes, I feel angry more easily since I started t (& have a harder time crying), but also e gave me bad mood swings, and having none just made me a mess. T is a clear winner in my book ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
4/4 for now?
4/4 for now?
April 16, 2024 at 5:59 PM
5. You know how they claim t makes you angry or irritable? Guess what makes that worse? No t. Yes, I feel angry more easily since I started t (& have a harder time crying), but also e gave me bad mood swings, and having none just made me a mess. T is a clear winner in my book ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
4/4 for now?
4/4 for now?
3. There was some concern that t may be making my joint pain worse. Doesn’t seem to be - pain wasn’t better without it 😅
4. Horny. It’s uncanny how much t plays on my sexuality - from my libido to HOW I experience pleasure and how I orgasm… t made me a squirter. Seriously.
3/🧵
4. Horny. It’s uncanny how much t plays on my sexuality - from my libido to HOW I experience pleasure and how I orgasm… t made me a squirter. Seriously.
3/🧵
April 16, 2024 at 5:55 PM
3. There was some concern that t may be making my joint pain worse. Doesn’t seem to be - pain wasn’t better without it 😅
4. Horny. It’s uncanny how much t plays on my sexuality - from my libido to HOW I experience pleasure and how I orgasm… t made me a squirter. Seriously.
3/🧵
4. Horny. It’s uncanny how much t plays on my sexuality - from my libido to HOW I experience pleasure and how I orgasm… t made me a squirter. Seriously.
3/🧵
1. I feel human again. Fuck. Since I don’t have ovaries anymore (yay!), going without t was a BAD idea. I had SO MANY cold sweats, I felt nauseous and out of it…
2. Speaking of cold sweats: t is SUCH a temperature regulator for me. I used to be constantly cold before. Now I run hot.
2/🧵
2. Speaking of cold sweats: t is SUCH a temperature regulator for me. I used to be constantly cold before. Now I run hot.
2/🧵
April 16, 2024 at 5:52 PM
1. I feel human again. Fuck. Since I don’t have ovaries anymore (yay!), going without t was a BAD idea. I had SO MANY cold sweats, I felt nauseous and out of it…
2. Speaking of cold sweats: t is SUCH a temperature regulator for me. I used to be constantly cold before. Now I run hot.
2/🧵
2. Speaking of cold sweats: t is SUCH a temperature regulator for me. I used to be constantly cold before. Now I run hot.
2/🧵