People sleep on journaling. Writing out the pain is some powerful work. I pray you find what you’re looking for.

Her gorgeous self has always been slept on. And she’s funny too?

We have to ckarify the range for older but I’m going to say…

…they fumble the convo as the nervousness one gets around their crush is akin to a stress response.

People should like you for you, & not because of an attribute such as your height.

But we desire who we’re attracted to & unchecked desire at the expense of fully knowing a person is a common issue.

Because of that, they might need longer to calm down their emotions when being surrounded by entities that create a dopaminergic responses.

Cats, babies, puppies, SD anime characters, and short attractive women.

It’s not a choice, it’s psychology.

The pupils dilate, the heart beats faster, &…

Not my message. So I’ll treat your “assumption” like a question.

“Are you telling me I should be okay with being objectified?”

My response: No. People should see others fully in the true/full expression of their humanity.

But when people first meet you, they may have the response of seeing a cat.

Again with the Intentions. You don’t know anything about mines since you haven’t asked.

Getting more information will help you come to more accurate conclusions and that’s the importance of dialogue.

No one is trying to debate you; have an open discussion, yes, but FUCK, if this is what you offer…

Not double down. I said we need to change & gave light.

“Both sides” wasn’t meant to make you feel uncomfortable, it was explaining that it’s the NORM, done in different ways by ALL folks for different attributes.

QUESTION, rather than assume others intentions & maybe a great discussion awaits.

I think Prince said it the best, “Act your age, not your shoe size.”

Calling names and being offended over a mere jest and engagement with your post, out of BlackSky love🙏🏾, gave you an opportunity to field a great discussion.

You chose something unproductive and petty.

It speaks to your capacity.

For me, my birth.

My family history is tied to the Panthers, NOI, & Black Muslims.

They kept it 💯, and showed how other groups collectively exploit & discriminate against our people.

We deal with it most our lives.

The question is a matter of WHEN we as individuals catch on and see the patterns.

I mean, I was joking, but sincere on the appreciation men have.

Evaluated holistically, both genders do it.

A woman can claim she likes tall men, because they make her feel safe, “more feminine”, likes wearing his big shirts and more. “A tall glass of water”.

But when guys do it, we’re creeps? 🤷🏾‍♂️

Us tall men will always fixate in our mind.

When we come home and see your little shoes by the door.🥰

When you fail to reach something.🥰

How little your clothes look.🥰

You are all cats to us! Humanoid feisty fiery cats who get food, boops, bops, & cuddles.

We know we must change, but it’s hard.

I live how cats have a little squad and look at you like you’re not invited.

No kitties, I’m always invited.🥰

This is what coding is for me. I’ve never had more consistent crash-outs when it comes to debugging. Only to find the stupid mistake later. 🫠

This is America!

It’s crazy when you talk to MAGA how confident they feel when parroting all their FoxNews, Newsnation, Daily Wire drivel.

That deranged look of outrage in their eyes as the hate flows through their veins as they talk about Libs, Immigrants, & Biden’s Laptop.

They can’t understand it’s a CLASS WAR!

What’s even more ridiculous is how these same tech bros complain about “China” stealing their corporate IP. I cannot stand the level of cognitive dissonance affecting this reality.

TMI, but I’d like to see you kicking down a door. “This is The Digital Empress! Open up!”