In my experience, “Not All Men” men tend to be the ones operating in the grey areas of misogyny such as subtly abusing their power in the workplace. It’s a phrase that comes from a place of guilt.

You look guilty mate.

Been getting my blood tested sometimes every 3 wks since I became ill. I need it in my hand but phlebotomists never abide. So now, after informing them, rather than argue, I let them hurt me and find out for themselves that my arm veins don’t work.

Medical gaslighting chips away at your spirit.