Twyla Joi
@twyla-joi.bsky.social
Mother, grandmother, and writer.
Navigating grandmotherhood while advocating for my autistic child.
I turn everyday observations into stories 💛
Navigating grandmotherhood while advocating for my autistic child.
I turn everyday observations into stories 💛
Self-care Friday reminder ✨
You are not the emergency contact for everyone’s chaos.
Healing doesn’t require over-explaining. 💅🏽
-TJ💛
You are not the emergency contact for everyone’s chaos.
Healing doesn’t require over-explaining. 💅🏽
-TJ💛
January 23, 2026 at 7:09 AM
Self-care Friday reminder ✨
You are not the emergency contact for everyone’s chaos.
Healing doesn’t require over-explaining. 💅🏽
-TJ💛
You are not the emergency contact for everyone’s chaos.
Healing doesn’t require over-explaining. 💅🏽
-TJ💛
Ended my lease with TikTok today. Management was toxic, amenities were mid.”
January 23, 2026 at 6:29 AM
Ended my lease with TikTok today. Management was toxic, amenities were mid.”
Snow in the South what a beautiful morning
January 18, 2026 at 9:40 PM
Snow in the South what a beautiful morning
Reflections
What lesson did this week leave with you?
Sit with it. Let it speak.
— TJ💛
What lesson did this week leave with you?
Sit with it. Let it speak.
— TJ💛
January 17, 2026 at 11:41 PM
Reflections
What lesson did this week leave with you?
Sit with it. Let it speak.
— TJ💛
What lesson did this week leave with you?
Sit with it. Let it speak.
— TJ💛
Presence
Monday can be heavy.
If today didn’t look the way you hoped, that’s okay.
If all you managed today was presence, that was enough.
Let the rest wait.
— TJ 💛
Monday can be heavy.
If today didn’t look the way you hoped, that’s okay.
If all you managed today was presence, that was enough.
Let the rest wait.
— TJ 💛
January 13, 2026 at 12:21 AM
Presence
Monday can be heavy.
If today didn’t look the way you hoped, that’s okay.
If all you managed today was presence, that was enough.
Let the rest wait.
— TJ 💛
Monday can be heavy.
If today didn’t look the way you hoped, that’s okay.
If all you managed today was presence, that was enough.
Let the rest wait.
— TJ 💛
Reset
The day is done.
Notice the moments you followed your heart.
Notice the moments you didn’t
Tonight, a gentle question to sit with: What did you carry with intention today, and what will you leave behind?
No judgment. No rushing. Just noticing.
#SundayReset #IntentionalLiving
— TJ 💛
The day is done.
Notice the moments you followed your heart.
Notice the moments you didn’t
Tonight, a gentle question to sit with: What did you carry with intention today, and what will you leave behind?
No judgment. No rushing. Just noticing.
#SundayReset #IntentionalLiving
— TJ 💛
January 12, 2026 at 1:09 AM
Reset
The day is done.
Notice the moments you followed your heart.
Notice the moments you didn’t
Tonight, a gentle question to sit with: What did you carry with intention today, and what will you leave behind?
No judgment. No rushing. Just noticing.
#SundayReset #IntentionalLiving
— TJ 💛
The day is done.
Notice the moments you followed your heart.
Notice the moments you didn’t
Tonight, a gentle question to sit with: What did you carry with intention today, and what will you leave behind?
No judgment. No rushing. Just noticing.
#SundayReset #IntentionalLiving
— TJ 💛
Love in Pause
Saturday nights make us think about love the kind we have, miss, and are learning to give ourselves.
Tonight, instead of measuring love by who’s present or absent, my question to you is:
What does calm, safe love feel like in your body?
No fixing Just noticing
#GentleTruths
—TJ 💛
Saturday nights make us think about love the kind we have, miss, and are learning to give ourselves.
Tonight, instead of measuring love by who’s present or absent, my question to you is:
What does calm, safe love feel like in your body?
No fixing Just noticing
#GentleTruths
—TJ 💛
January 11, 2026 at 2:54 AM
Love in Pause
Saturday nights make us think about love the kind we have, miss, and are learning to give ourselves.
Tonight, instead of measuring love by who’s present or absent, my question to you is:
What does calm, safe love feel like in your body?
No fixing Just noticing
#GentleTruths
—TJ 💛
Saturday nights make us think about love the kind we have, miss, and are learning to give ourselves.
Tonight, instead of measuring love by who’s present or absent, my question to you is:
What does calm, safe love feel like in your body?
No fixing Just noticing
#GentleTruths
—TJ 💛
January 10, 2026 at 8:59 PM