I can also definitely sense a small sprinkle of Sabrina influence which is kind of fun. I was honestly expecting moody, cynic, angry, etc. But it turned out to be almost the opposite.

Abuse culture is extremely pernicious and its biggest ally is complacency.

Every time I talk about any of those terms in specific, I get summarily dismissed, ignored, and even mocked, and yet the movement continues, and every few months a new survivor term is put on the chopping block to not only become a meme but later an "outdated and cringe" meme, completely killing it.

And those that felt empowered and understood by this new language then become subject of humiliation and "we're all like that" generalization language, that saps all of the power from them. Worse, it then becomes abuser language and is often turned against those that originated it.

- a deliberate "misinterpretation" of survivor and minority language by the powers that be, that then toss those already diminished in power terms to the public at large to chew up and regurgitate as "memes."

It is those that claim to care about minority and oppressed groups that then dismiss, ignore, and suppress concerns about misappropriated language. I feel like we need a term for this movement, that starts with media outlets, such as disinterpretation, much like disinformation, pointing to -

There's already been studies about how much of "meme" language is distilled form alt right online spaces before being widely adopted by the left, and I believe these things to be interconnected. The real kick in the gut is the fact that the apology language then comes from "our" side, not the right.

I believe these to be deliberate, or they wouldn't be as prevalent nor happen as swiftly as they do. Every time the result is the same: the movement the language came from loses momentum, becomes a laughing stock, and it has to find new language to promote cultural impact, start from scratch.

These things also happen every time a certain survivor or minority movement is gaining momentum, and the language they use start being plastered by media outlets already in a not quite right or clear manner, and then the public takes those "misinterpretations" and further twists them into a "meme."

I don't believe these movements to be coincidences. I refuse to believe they are just "organic cultural shit that happens." Not when, every time, the result is the further silencing of oppressed groups and the benefit of oppressors. It's a little too convenient, don't you think?

There's something to be said about how we talk about that too, with dismissive abuse language: "It's just a meme." "Relax, it's just a joke," "why do you have to be such a killjoy," "it's not that deep." As survivor language like gaslighting, dissociation, trauma bond etc are misappropriated.

When you can't deny it, excuse it.

Even when you're tearing them down you care more about that than the actual victims.

And why on Earth would you of all media, propagate his words?? I thought you were anti alt right white supremacists. Wth.

Even if they call you weird. Even if they think you're doing it wrong. Even if they drown you in "advice." Even if they make fun of you. There are no rules. Those are all fake. What matters is your well being. Truth is they will never accomodate you, so you accomodate yourself. And ignore them.