J. Ng (she/they)
tribbletron.bsky.social
J. Ng (she/they)
@tribbletron.bsky.social
🗽 NYC 1st-gen immigrant ⚙️ WOC in tech (sysadmin and infosec) 🐦 birbs mom 🖖 learning things, helping others, being the person i needed when i was younger 🧶 knitter of 3 doctor who scarves
This is why I'd say the dislike of small talk is rarely an objection to, or a misreading of, scripts. It's from regularly seeing such scripts deployed perfunctorily.

Small talk is about form; genuine care is about intent. But folks can't mindread intent.

For example, out of the mouths of babes:
November 9, 2025 at 12:12 AM
But is "a serious 'but how are you doing?" still small talk anymore? That's usually an invite to segue to a deeper talk.

I wrote a song about this once.
November 7, 2025 at 8:00 AM
2/2 For the longest time, when I witnessed small talk, I felt like the kid in this meme:
November 7, 2025 at 7:53 AM
Am I creative? Resourceful? Care for the environment?

NAH, I'M JUST A TRASH PANDA KID WITH A BETTER LIFE NOW. 😅

Which means I can't resist going through my new job's dumpsters to see tossed samples get a second chance as coasters, doll clothes, embroidery patches, or at the very least, schmatta.
August 27, 2025 at 11:45 PM
🐛 1st contact with an Antheraeapl Polyphemus Moth Caterpillar (and my 1st thought was "Hakuna Matata" 😅).

It felt light and plush, like a mini body pillow.

Sidewalk was baking and unsafe, so we set it under a bush. (3rd pic is via wiki, of their final form.)
August 3, 2025 at 8:10 PM
Nearly all Funko Pops appear to be uninspired, overpriced hunks of plastic to me. But gawd, the Alphonse Elric with Kittens edition had me weak. They were originally $13. I think they're $40-$90 now.
July 20, 2025 at 8:23 PM
Via Reddit: [Jason] uploaded a CSV of company names and contacts “his database” and then tried to build an outbound SDR. When it deleted that CSV he said “it deleted my database”.

Is this the 2025 version of “where did my app go?”

“You accidentally deleted it dad it’s right here in the trash.”
July 20, 2025 at 6:18 PM
What @bradlander.bsky.social (and @zohrankmamdani.bsky.social) has been essentially saying, is despite their disagreements as Jews and Muslims: WE ARE BOTH NEW YORKERS FIRST.

That's what a good mayor should be! Watching out for us all!

Tired of seeing that Politco piece twisted out of shape.
June 21, 2025 at 4:22 AM
Someone in front of me was going down the subway stairs real slow. Looked up, beheld this precious cinnamon roll! Then I was like, LET THIS MOMENT LAST FOREVER. 😆
June 20, 2025 at 7:28 PM
Felt moved to share cause of the way sunlight landed on those begonias. Just more reasons @grownyc.bsky.social is a treasure:
June 1, 2025 at 10:40 PM
Thanks! I checked and was definitely on a 3rd party one by skyfeed (used by 26K users). So I switched to the official one (used by 4.5K users), but that one doesn't go back more than 5 hrs. O_o;;
March 8, 2025 at 8:38 PM
What gets lost in talks of "moving on" is how we don't all face the same consequences. Like how those who inflict harm (or benefited from it) gain the most from ignoring the harmed and dodging accountability.

This imbalance is why we've got issues in the first place.
March 7, 2025 at 6:10 PM
2 issues re: Teams were announced this week on the Service Health page (only admins can see it). Not knowing your org's setup, it's hard to say they're related.

I'd report it to: www.twitter.com/MSFT365Status
February 5, 2025 at 10:55 PM
Getting 502 status when I click. I also checked IsItDownForEveryoneOrJustMe, and your site is definitely down right now.
October 4, 2023 at 1:24 PM