Nedasert
@tresaden.bsky.social
Whip from KOF is cool. Alt-account for non-stealth & release-valve posting, because I need to be myself in public despite life and huge brainworms. Maybe nsfw/personal drawing posts one day.
She/Her primarily, They/Them secondarily.
She/Her primarily, They/Them secondarily.
very beautifully said
January 23, 2026 at 11:55 PM
very beautifully said
doodoodoo doo doo doooooo
January 22, 2026 at 3:24 AM
doodoodoo doo doo doooooo
ah well one could *technically* apply the metaphor wider than that still, to even include groups he's ambivalent-to-ok about.
January 21, 2026 at 11:53 PM
ah well one could *technically* apply the metaphor wider than that still, to even include groups he's ambivalent-to-ok about.
States are like that for/under everyone. They're tools and weapons. Swords to keep other swords in the sheath, at best. Criticising him for that specific mindset, is like criticising stories of anarchists, marxists, etc, fighters, for keeping guns, bombs and molotov at the ready.
January 21, 2026 at 9:49 PM
States are like that for/under everyone. They're tools and weapons. Swords to keep other swords in the sheath, at best. Criticising him for that specific mindset, is like criticising stories of anarchists, marxists, etc, fighters, for keeping guns, bombs and molotov at the ready.
looking at him i didnt know they made a republican-looking stephen king
January 21, 2026 at 5:30 PM
looking at him i didnt know they made a republican-looking stephen king
The "(plural)" is a remnant of when I wrote it as "their (plural)" and rewrote it as "the" but forgot to remove the parenthetical.
January 21, 2026 at 1:26 PM
The "(plural)" is a remnant of when I wrote it as "their (plural)" and rewrote it as "the" but forgot to remove the parenthetical.
I have seen nothing but exhaustive and exhausted clarification on your side about this for months. And AFAICT most of the (plural) criticism on the wording is for private conversations where everyone knew what was meant, and didn't need hyper-precise publically-safe language in every post.
January 21, 2026 at 1:22 PM
I have seen nothing but exhaustive and exhausted clarification on your side about this for months. And AFAICT most of the (plural) criticism on the wording is for private conversations where everyone knew what was meant, and didn't need hyper-precise publically-safe language in every post.
reinventing late-70's-early-80's media from first principles
January 20, 2026 at 2:28 PM
reinventing late-70's-early-80's media from first principles
"how do you do, fellow tomboys"
a man wearing a red hat and a music band shirt is holding a skateboard .
Alt: The "how do you do fellow kids?" clip meme, where Steve Buscemi tries to look young and hip, including by wearing a backwards baseball cap.
media.tenor.com
January 20, 2026 at 2:22 PM
"how do you do, fellow tomboys"
To butcher another metaphor, after doing it in another branch of arguments: we lied with this dog and got its fleas precisely because we had never properly shaken our own fleas off for the past hundreds of years and had gotten used to the scratching to this very day.
January 20, 2026 at 1:30 PM
To butcher another metaphor, after doing it in another branch of arguments: we lied with this dog and got its fleas precisely because we had never properly shaken our own fleas off for the past hundreds of years and had gotten used to the scratching to this very day.
The current trend of Britain and the rest of us in western Europe *not* aiding and collaborating with the Yanks imperialist projects (and arguably adding to our own in the greater concept of western imperialism) is very recent and spotty, and not really true, even currently as the yank gov eyes us.
January 20, 2026 at 1:27 PM
The current trend of Britain and the rest of us in western Europe *not* aiding and collaborating with the Yanks imperialist projects (and arguably adding to our own in the greater concept of western imperialism) is very recent and spotty, and not really true, even currently as the yank gov eyes us.
It sounds like, metaphorically, at best, you are a doctor focusing on the holy mother of all *symptoms*, while swearing up and down that you are focusing on a *cause*, even as your treatment would have you performing open surgery on passersby "just in case", for the sake of keeping society orderly.
January 20, 2026 at 1:17 PM
It sounds like, metaphorically, at best, you are a doctor focusing on the holy mother of all *symptoms*, while swearing up and down that you are focusing on a *cause*, even as your treatment would have you performing open surgery on passersby "just in case", for the sake of keeping society orderly.
You are against specific rights for transsexuals, & adjacent rights, because those would cause some sort of bureaucratic slippery slope of disgruntled or anxious adopted children, that remind you of yourself, getting their names changed away from their adopter family's names before they are adults?
January 20, 2026 at 1:11 PM
You are against specific rights for transsexuals, & adjacent rights, because those would cause some sort of bureaucratic slippery slope of disgruntled or anxious adopted children, that remind you of yourself, getting their names changed away from their adopter family's names before they are adults?
there should be a crosswoker
January 20, 2026 at 1:56 AM
there should be a crosswoker
this is 2000's internet community retro in a bad very specific way
January 20, 2026 at 1:42 AM
this is 2000's internet community retro in a bad very specific way
oh. another trans woman made a dig at her, over the Dworkin quote controversy, and she responded by, twice, mocking her face for looking too manly, first by mocking the downward camera angle, second by rhetorically asking about a face surgery consultation. i did undersell.
January 19, 2026 at 4:49 PM
oh. another trans woman made a dig at her, over the Dworkin quote controversy, and she responded by, twice, mocking her face for looking too manly, first by mocking the downward camera angle, second by rhetorically asking about a face surgery consultation. i did undersell.
("occasionally been shitty" is underselling it but I couldn't find the goldilocks balance of harshness and gentleness so I went with the safe/coward option.)
January 19, 2026 at 4:25 PM
("occasionally been shitty" is underselling it but I couldn't find the goldilocks balance of harshness and gentleness so I went with the safe/coward option.)
Didn't she go around @'ing people with stuff like "I expect an apology from you tomorrow because you are all going to regret disbelieving me"? Her actual lie was so naive, that I can't even feel very mad about it despite the harm, but her attitude on it has occasionally been shitty.
January 19, 2026 at 4:22 PM
Didn't she go around @'ing people with stuff like "I expect an apology from you tomorrow because you are all going to regret disbelieving me"? Her actual lie was so naive, that I can't even feel very mad about it despite the harm, but her attitude on it has occasionally been shitty.